Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss July/August 2009

back again quickly, just after id finished writing last post i looked at my ticker and its telling me 1 day till ovulation so might have to bd tonight and tomoro night just to be sure weve done all we can. Hehe just thought id add that in. Bye now

Anila-we have a mr nobody in our house but we call our's the ghost and he has followed us to 3 houses now.

Sammy-crossing finger's for you.

AFM-well as i ovulated early on day 11 instead of day 15 and we fooled around heaps the day before and that morning i guess i am in the TWW aswell when i shouldn't be but if it happen's this bub will be healthy i just know it.

Hey everyone :)
Hope everyone's doing well, fingers and toes and eyes totally crossed Sammy, keep us posted!
Doing ok here, AF is almost over so DH is looking forward to the baby making fun! ;) (sorry if TMI) I had our local support group for people who have lost babies tonight, it's only once a month, I'd love it if it was more often, it's only a small group but it really helps just to talk with people (much like on here) who have gone through the same thing. It's a kinda hard night tonight with the full moon....I know it might sound a bit silly, but it was a full moon the night Brock was born so everything always comes back in force. DH is also out tonight so I'm also not quite 'easy' with being at home by myself yet, even if it's just for a few hours. Oooooh boy I sound like a nutcase! :cry:
I'm rambling a bit so I reckon I might go crawl into bed, thanks for letting me vent. :grouphug:
Sweet dreams all.

Natt XO

Hi girls

Ive begun to bleed I believe. Brown discharge and some light cramping. Expecting things to get worse. Im heart broken. This is my 2nd in EXACTLY 23 weeks. My last happened on a Thursday to. Going to try to see my GP for confirmation.

What is qrong with me? Why can't I hold a pregnancy? I have no idea if I can survive this.

Sorry to ruin your thread.

Oh Sunny - please dont give up hope yet !

I am so sorry this is happening -

Sending you lots of :stickyvibesgirl:

Thinking of you !

Let us know how you go

xxxooo

Sunny

I am praying hard for you :pray: !! I was in same situation just a few days ago, sadly it wasn't the time for us. Mine wasn't brown blood though. Mine was bright red. My OB told me yesterday that he wouldn't have been as concerned if it had been brown. And I had very bad cramping. I have lost nine little :angel: now. I understand the feeling of being lost and not knowing if you can keep going through it. I am living with that now.

I really hope this little bubba sticks for you.

:pray::pray::pray:

Sunny big hug and fingers crossed for you sweety xxx

A gf of mine started spotting at about 7 weeks or so but she is goin great still so?? I am partial to the "oh its normal" comments hence I am here...but still, Ive had proof it can be true!

Praying for you anyway :grouphug:

:grouphug: Sunny- I know how scary this must be for you at the moment, I have the same fear every day (and I am about to have to start explaining to DH why we are going through so much toilet paper- I check all the time). My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Coco and I both know people who have bled at 7 weeks and their pregnancies are still continuing, so don't lose complete faith just yet.

:stickyvibesboy:

I have a question for everyone...

When you hear of one of our forum buddies going through either spotting during pregnancy, or a miscarriage; do you start having the same emotional feelings you had when you went through it? I do!

Sunny, we're all here for you no matter what xx

Oh Sunny, I am saying lots of prayers for you!!! Don't lose hope yet! When I first m/c the first time, one of the first things the doctor asked me is if the blood was red. Brown discharge isn't always a bad sign. I'm really hoping everything is fine with your little one. I'm so sorry you are going through this scare though. Please know that we are all here for you and will be thinking of you and praying for you.

Sunny - Oh Sweetie, I am praying everything will be alright for you. Don't give up yet. I also know someone who had bleeding in the early stages and now has a happy, healthy four year old.

Sammy!!!! Did you do another test?? :D

Sunny - you can go straight to your local hospital as most of them have early preg centres. Tell them you are preg, previous mc and within an hour you should be having ultrasound - that is what they have done for me. My fingers and toes are crossed that everything is alright. Please keep in touch

Sammy: I'm with Coco! whats going on???

Mrs Hendo: My heart goes out to you, I've had 4 mc - 5 bubs and I don't know how we keep sane enough to keep trying - we really must want to lol

Hi to everyone else - at work so not much time but had to talk to Sunny!

AFM: Told DB about best time to bd and was he ok with us trying this month...he said 'yar, whatever, sounds good'. In his speak that is - (TMI) yep...youwon't be able to walk after the weekend lol.
Now I have to wait till next weekend till we try...I'm so excited it might happen and terrified it won't :( RB is worse then ever to have cause I really enjoyed it being gone lol

o sunny, i hope everything is ok, we are all here for you hun.
sending sticky vibes and positive thoughts ur way.

Sunny-I know this is'nt much comfort but my best friend who is 29 week's bleed and spotted and cramped until she was 10 week's so i hope that is all it is for you aswell and it will settle down soon my finger's and toe's are crossed for you.

I just can't believe how many women repeatedly m/c there must be a reason i mean mrs hendo 9 time's just is terrible there has to be an explanation have the doctor's given you any answer's.

AFM-I'm off to work i hope when i check in tonight there is some better news.

oh Sunny my love :comfort: please go to your doctor, I have sent you a PM xoxoxo

Sunny -=- brown blood is old blood so its likely theres not much wrong.. try not to wry too much.. ket us know how u go

SammyP -=- whats going on?

afm-=- im in full blown flu now *cries* funniest thing.. yesterday i picked up the maybe baby hours later to clean it and put it away and guess what i saw in it.. fernng.. lol guess the fat lady hadnt sung yet... i didnt get a chance to bd again but i did find it interesting.. Heres hopeing i still get a bfp anyway,.,.

Hi to everyone -=- sunbeam and eliseL.. lets see 3 BFPS in 2 weeks time eh :grouphug:

Kyra: and a fourth bfp in 3 weeks time :crossfingers: yippee!!!!!!

Im soooooooo excited! I went to the movies to see The Ugly Truth and it was great, but thats not the exciting bit...I got a call halfway through unavailble number so let it go to voicemail and I listened to the msg and it was a recruitment company who remembered me from last year asking if I still want work in event coordination etc :D HOORAY! I just called them and returned their email so waiting to hear what they have up their sleeve!

SO EXCITED! There is hardly any jobs here in Newcastle and they all go through "who you know" not what you know, and I dont know that many people here. So Ive just been plodding along in waitressing...and while I love all the free time on my hands, I would love to be given this opportunity! :leap: