Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - June 2009

Hi Jeleswa
Ive never had acupuncture. Living in a small country town i dont even think anyone does it here. I bet it was relaxing. Have you always done it or just starting recently?

Hello girls,

Been hanging to get on here all day but knew I had to get a report done and dusted before I could start chatting or I'd never finish it so I used this as my reward for working hard, report all done, yipee:dance:

Well my symptoms from yesterday have gone away and all I have now is ovary pain and face breakout:rolleyes: I keep telling myself I'm only on dpo7 but it's so agonising waiting!!!!

Anila-I'm glad your dh and you spoke, its so hard to guess what's going on for other people isn't it? Anyway he sounds very caring and lovely.

smallfryplus-I don't know if I've gained weight since the m/c but I've gained nearly 10kg since starting TTC mostly due to thinking it doesn't matter what I eat because I'll be all fat and pregnant soon. It's not unhealthy eating just too indulgent.

juleswa- I had acupuncture with 2 different people. I felt really good from it but can't say I noticed much difference in my cycle or fertility, maybe I didn't go for long enough.

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decicded against the hair colour. All that old wives tale stuff about shouldn't colour your hair if your preg

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smallfry im the same, i have a hair colour here just waiting to be used, but im waiting for either 9 months to go by or af showing up! My roots arnt that bad, but i have found a greay hair, ahhhh, lol.
and lol at the green cordial.

maddison good luck hun.

juleswa, i know its not over till af shows up but i was just expecting to see two lines iykwim, i just felt it kinda. Im hoping to have a bath later, hunter made me some bath salts and a bath bomb at school, we had a mums pamper night last night and the kids did our hair and make up, it was a good night.

Sunbeam, good luck to u too. and well done on getting the assignment done!

Hi everyone :) Just a quick post cos am really mad and don't want to whine too much- I had been bleeding non-stop since May 6 (had a week of no blood after m/c). Anyway, last week doc gave me a referral for ultrasound and said wait 1 more week and see...well it stopped 2 days ago and I was so relieved at not having to have d+c and being able to try again- but now its back!! How can I move on when i still don't know if I haven't completely finished m/c?? Sorry for the rant but I am just very frustrated and teary- guess i better make an appt for ultrasound :wall:

Hope everyone on TWW is able to distract themselves and we all get BFP's soon.

Thanks greenslw, juleswa and others for support, hope I havent brought everyone down..
positive thoughts to all :pray:

awe hun, i hope the ultra sound can help give u some answers, and i hope all the bleeding stops soon for u.

thanks Anila, me too, I am so over waiting for the m/c to sop that I am even looking forward to being on the tww again!
good luck for saturday, my fingers are crossed for you, you deserve that BFP :pray:

thats good that u are already looking to the future and wanting to be in the tww again, i really do hope it all settles down for you, is there anything that the dr can do, or is it all a wait and see what the us says.

thanks for the good luck, i really hope its a bfp, this being the first cycle from the mc, i just couldnt stand it if af comes.

Nothing they can do, just have to wait for u/s. I am trying to be positive as much as I can and focus on the fact that I'd rather deal with it now and get back to normal than allow it to drag on any longer..

Well i will definitely be thinking of you on Saturday, I can only imagine how nervous you must be...i can't think of anything that would help me feel better as much as being pg again. Truly Anila, you are in my thoughts. :goodluck:

I am getting off the comp now to distract myself with telly and a cuppa
hope u have a good night and tomorrow flies by for you!

You poor darling KM1... :comfort: I am glad it's stopped and you didn't need the currettage - but it's been so drawn out for you... :hug: This thread is for support - you cannot bring any one down... We all understad... :hug:

KM1, i hope u sleep well tonight hun, and as flowerchild said u cannot bring anyone down here, i have had many a vent, a winge ,a sook here, its a good place to be.

hope u feel better in the morning, good luck with the ultra sound


and flowerchild, im glad that u are all ok after ur op.

(edit- is my sig ok for this thread?)

OK iv'e missed a bit i have been at work it seem's you poor girl's are going nut's with your tww i was like that 2 weeks ago every twinge made me stop and wonder is it but for me it wasn't

KM1-i diddnt M/C so to speak but i was bleeding off and on for 4 weeks i thought it finished then it would start up again then when it did stop next AF was slow to start spotting first 2 days and longer than normal and so was my last AF as well so i supose it can take a bit to get back to normal.

Can anyone offer some advice i have two different kinds of opks and i used both of them ,yesterdays was positive so i did the other brand today which was negative so i got the other pack out and did one of each with the same wee sample and one was a strong positve and the other was a very faint negative go figure what am i supose to believe and DH and i managed to BD yesterday and i have organised to get off work half an hour early tomorrow to whip home and jump DH before he leaves for work that gives us an hour from the time i leave work to the time he leaves to go to work talk about making a booking for sex (lol)the things we do for a baby

Forgot to add when i was at work today one of my work mates(if you would call her that ) had the hide to say gee i hope i'm not pregnant again i'm sick of getting pregnant and having to be suctioned it's a pain in the #### i was mortified i said you ever hear of contraception and she say's NAH!!! i hate the stuff pill makes me fat and condoms are a turn off i said how many times have you had a termination and she said i dont know about 10 i had to walk away i wanted to bite her head off she didd'nt care and spoke like it was no big deal why do people like her get pregnant at the drop of a hat and we want a baby and it dosn't happen so easy and when we do fall pregnant we lose our babies it is disgusting what people like her do and not fair

KM1, I agree with Flowerchild, this is the place for venting, you won't bring anyone down. Make sure you get that U/S as I'm sure that will help you a lot with knowing what's happening. I mc but for some reason it was a very quick experience. Very painful physically and lots of blood and yuck but somehow it was over after only a few days.

ferrals - sounds like quite a timetabling issue! Pray for no traffic! Haven't used OPKs so can't help you with which brand to believe.

Sunbeam - well done with your report! An excellent reward system. I must work on being more strict with myself like that.

to all - sleep good and hope tomorrow brings good news :)

Someone suggest she should learn how to keep her knees together. Stupid, stupid, stupid woman. Ferrals, you did well not to slap her out. I'd have had serious problems not slapping her or worse.

Smallfryplus-:ROFL: well i will tell my mum what she said my mum is the duty manager so i hope she gets her roster changed to all the nights till 3:30 in the morning( he he naughty me)

:bluecheer::cheer::bd::bd::hooray::hooray::leap:: ok about time i got a BFP on both opk's and my temp has dropped a bit and i have ferns on my maybe baby so by my chart i am supose to ov tomorrow so i will be making the mad dash home after work god i hope my DH can perform on 9 hrs sleep in 2 days(poor baby)

To all the girls in your tww i hope it goe's fast and you get your BFP
I have to go to work to i will check in tonight and let you know if DH managed to dtd

ferrals - hehehe you have the power :) I like that.

km1 - how you doing today? Have you made an appointment for an U/S? :hug:

Anila - one more sleep hon! Can't wait :) I've got 3 more sleeps.

Sunbeam, coco, how's the TWW going? Poppy, are you on tww too?

cherished (if you still check in here...) and greenslw, hope your pg is going well and you're healthy and happy and excited!
Good morning to everyone else - Juleswa, milly, tina, catherineq, maddison...

AFM - I can add nausea to the list of symptoms today. Made a decaf coffee this morning and the smell wasn't as good as it usually is, then when I took miss4 out to the supermarket my stomach started turning. Waves at the moment but not too severe. I'll be utterly bereft if I get a bfn.

Well im not liking my chances for getting a bfp, all my so called symptoms are almost gone, i dont feel like i did last cycle when i got my bfp, so i will be very shocked if i have bfp on sat. :pray:

I hope you're wrong Anila. :pray: for you to bet that bfp.