Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss March 2007

Bun, what is happening! I am hanging out to hear your results. All the symptoms sound really good so far. I have my fingers crossed for you!:pray:

Janeo - any sign of O yet? How much does the waiting suck! :wall: I have not O'd yet either according to my OPK's, but my temp has been rising over the past 4 days so I am a little confused. Is it possible to miss the LH surge with the OPK's? I have been taking them at 6pm sharp every day, but not a hint of a +.

I've also had some really wierd symptoms over the last 3 days. I have been really quesy and the only thing that seems to relieve it is to eat something plain. I hope I don't have some nasty bug that will prevent me from conceving this month. Have made an appointment with my GP today to see what is going on. If I had not had my AF 3 weeks ago I would almost think I was pregnant! (wishful thinking huh!).

Anyhow, hello to everyone, hope all is going well.

love

Leyla
xx

Hi

I miscarried in October 06 and for the last 3 days I have had very faint lines on HPKs, 3 pregnow 1 clearblue, but I am petrified that if I go to the doctors he will find that I am not +ve. I have been feeling queezy yesterday and this morning, my joints are clicking again and my scalps gone dry (had all 3 symptoms with Maria). Am I just a wimp?

Louise - If I were you, I'd go to the doctor because he will agree that you are +ve! You have 4 BFP's on HPT's, so I'd say congratulations are in order!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Leyla, re. the OPK's. Yes it is possible to miss the surge. Your surge generally peaks and goes within 24 hours, so because you are testing at 6pm, your surge may begin not long after, so by the time it comes back to testing again, it could have gone. It is suggested that you test twice daily - morning and night - to make sure you catch the surge.

Are you getting ANY line on the OPK at all???? Coz if it is feint then it shows some hormones present....hope that helps a little. What has FF said, and have you also be recording CM.....that should give you some idea...

Leyla - I agree with Shan, try testing morning and night, I have only got 1 +ve with the OPKs but I relied more on CM than the sticks.


Well I went to the Drs (Maria is sick ATM) and did another test, it came up faint +ve but said to come back next week and do another test, oh the joys of peeing in a bottle.

Fingers Crossed louise, but a tenative congrats to you...xxxx

I NEVER got a +ive on an OPK....yet i know i O'd (mind you, it didn't happen very often thanks to those wonderful inovulatory cycles..but i knew when i did thanks to checking CM, temping, u/s, and sometimes trigger injections.....oh the joys of TTC....hehehe)

Morning girls.

Sorry to keep you waiting - only just got a chance to get online! Thanks for your thoughts.

Well, I got a very faint positive this morning but I am not sure if it's going to stick. I would expect the line to be a bit darker by now, and it took the full 5 mins to come up. I think I am 13DPO today, although that could be out by a couple of days as I was not temping, I am only going by what my RE said when he did the scan. With my other pgs, I got faint positives on 11 and 12DPO and on much less senstitive tests than the LC ones, so I am really not feeling very positive at all.

I really don't know what to do now. I don't want to make a dr appointment, because it is so early and I am convinced that I will get AF still, but if I don't make an appointment for tomorrow, I can't go for 2 wks as I am away next weekend and can't get there during the week.

I think I will try to just ignore it and not be surprised if AF arrives. Also, I started getting symptoms on Monday, so if this one was going to make it, surely the HCG would be higher by now and would be showing darker on a test, so I think it will probably be a chemical.

Sorry for such a selfish post guys, I hope you are all doing well.

Bun xx

Louise - Sounds like a congrates is in order!!!!. CONGRATES.

Just wanted to add an extra point on the OPK's discussion. I was told not to use first morning urine and that the best times to test were between 10am and 8pm at night. Also do not test after a coffee or big meal. I always tested at 10am just before my morning tea coffee.

Bun - How you doing?????

Shan - You have heaps of great information to share with us. Thanks v much.

SP- Regarding your OB. Are you happy with him? If so I would go back to him and make sure he is well aware of what happened to you and maybe you should suggest that they make more of an effort in patient care on the administration side (spoken like a true office manager)!!!!.

Herbie - Welcome. Sorry to hear of your loss.

To my surprise FF has told me that I O'd and I have got a coverline, and I thought AF was coming. Good old charting, it helps to solve the mistery of our what our bodies are doing. Here is what I think happened to me so far since my D and C. 2wks after D and C I got AF type symptoms and 3 days of light flow ( which I thought was post op spotting). I recorded this as spotting on FF because I was not sure that I was starting a new cycle or not. Now I am convinced that the spotting was a mild AF, if so that means I have Oed on day 18 which is normal for me and I should expect AF in around 9 days. I thought AF was on her way last weekend because I had some pretty intense cramping (mostly on the left ovary side, which I never get). Now I am thinking that this was O pain.

Sorry to crap on, but I wanted to write this done so some of us could compare notes.

Bun - I understand you apprehension hon. Hang in there and I am sure all will be ok. Don't worry about how strong the line is on the test. With DD I only got a faint line on CD14 and CD15 and she stuck just fine. My SIL only ever gets very faint lines and so far after 2 m/c her next 2 have stuck. I would rec you go to doc and order hCG level tests just to ensure the levels are rising. Maybe wait till Monday so that you can get your head around it.

For now hugs and a very small congrates ( I will give you a big loud congrates when you offically confirm).

Oh Bun...i soooo hope this is it for you. Sometimes it takes a while for your HCG levels to climb. I know of a few girls on here who had really low levels up to at least 7 or 8 weeks, and one of those girls is not far off having her bubba. Take each day as it comes and maybe a few days before you go away, go and see your Dr and see what they say.... sending you tiny tiny congratuations...xxxxxxxx :pray:

janeo don't blame you on not wanting to BD for 4 days in a row, 2 days in a row is enough for me and DH
jenjams i have to have my pap smears yearly because of some "A typical cells" that where found about 8 years ago and I also have an aunt who had cervical cancer and it was found too late so I don't really mind going to the Dr's and 'smiling' nicely :o My brother is a christmas baby too, 23rd December and I just decided long ago that if I did have a baby born really close to xmas (a week either side) then family would celebrate on their actual birthday but would give them a birthday party with their friends about 3 months later.
shanthanks for that info i have left it at spotting as I really don't think it was AF, even though I usually have fairly light AF that will last for a maximum of 2-3 days, will just have to keep an eye on my chart I suppose and see what it does next.
saltprincess I know what you mean about sticking with the same Ob because of your history and you don't have to decide now anyway. Has AF shown up for you yet? I have now stopped spotting.
missbelinda nice to see you, I too have to have pap smears every year and have got to the stage where they really don't bother me at all anymore.
Leyla hope your weird symptoms turn out to be something +ve for you.
kitten2b I would say that you are pregnant love so all you need to do now is go and get it confirmed with your gp, just read on further and congratulations.
Bun congrats on your 'faint' bfp I have everyting :crossfingers: and :pray:ing that this is a sticky one.

Hello to anyone I may have forgotten and hope you all have a great day.

As for me, I just have absolutely no idea at what my body is doing, spotting has gone completely, and I have NEVER EVER had mid cycle spotting, so who knows, I obviously got my hopes up thinking that this cycle was going to be a normal cycle, yeah, right, who was I kidding, should have known it wasn't going to be that simple! fell free to check out my chart, my temps are now all fairly low, but still above coverline (just), now i'm rambling so I will just go LOL

I Sharon, were can I look at your chart? I only seem to be able to bring up the FF ticker.

Leyla still np coverline but pretty sure i oed Wed maybe yesterday so in TWW!!!! Ohhh on the symptoms that promising and yes sounds like you might have missed the surge i never got a +ve one and did one the arvo b4 i got a coverline on FF so i dont really trust them but others do....

Louise it also sounds good on your front i get a dry scalp and arms and legs and im getting that way at the moment im pretty sure i got it after i oed last time so prety excited here....

BUN YAY for you too whoa mass +VE tests here.... I have everything crossed for you matey.. And on not being very strong mine was faint when i did a early evening test and even lighter when i did one the next morning with FMU at that was at 15dpo and 16dpo........

And hi to everyone else only had time for a quick read on break and should be doing work hehehe...

As i have said i think i have oed so just waiting for coverline.. I had a restless sleep last night awake alot so cant really trust temp but oh well it went up thats all that matters LOL.. Im pretty sure the month i fell pg i had a restless night either the night i oed or the next so fingers crossed...

GATE CRASHER ALERT!!!!!!

better get in here and start my wagon rolling again.
Bun- my levels were low but i was 6 week pg, it doesnt matter in the early stages so the doc I saw told me. Ive got my fingers and everyting crossed for you.
Im coming in here cause, well Jed and I just lost out twins early this week. Willo and Sunni weren't planned but still, doesnt make it easier really does it. We are looking at TTC in October and in the mean time, I would really love to get in tune with my body - eg when I ov etc and try to get pass these feelings of guilt I have of thinking about TTC by october (if that makes sence).
How have you guys delt with the situations you have been in?
thanks
xxmaz

Maz - Nice to have you in here darling. You're definately in the right place. I think everyone deals with it differently. Mine was 3 years ago, and i'm still dealing with it, but i think that stems down to the fact that i haven't had a pg since, and i don't have any other children. In my mind, that could have been my only chance. Part of this is why i'm on a break and losing weight, to see if that is the cause of my 'unexplained infertility'. I have good days and bad days, the only difference now compared to when i had my m/c is that the good days now outweigh the bad days. But as i said, everyone reacts differently and i hear you on feeling guilty....i feel that every single day and i don't think it will stop until i actually can hold a little bubba of my very own in my arms.....xxxxxx

Sharon - Do you think that your spotting could have been implantation? or a breakthrough bleed?....have you done any HPT's to see if you are pg?...i hope so..xxxx

SP - Seems like your cycles are coming back into line. I remember that you were always just ahead of me. If my cycle does what I think it will then AF will be due just about the right time of the month for me. I hope AF turns up for you very very soon.

Next time you go to your OB I would tell him to his face. You don't need to be confrontational, just say in a nice tone some thing like this: I was really happy with your care however I did receive a call after I had lost our baby to remind me of an apt. This really upset me, and could you ask your staff to be more diligent in the future. I would not write a letter, because this is very strong and you may get the staff offside and they may not treat you very well. Especially if you need emergency apts. Also if your OB has an offsider like a nurse I would meantion it to him/her as well. Hope this helps.

Jane - I really hope you Oed and got the eggy.

Maz - so sorry to hear about your loss. Welcome, you will find loads of support here. All the girls are so lovely and supportive!:grouphug:

Bun – tentative congrats on the faint line. I hope that your HGC levels continue to rise. I’ve heard that with some people the line never really appears dark, even though their levels are good, so I would go and get them checked to put your mind at rest.

Louise – Sounds like congratulations are in order! 4 tests giving you a + has to mean good things!:dance:

Shan – I am getting a line on the OPK’s about a hour later, which I know is way too late to call a line. I am a little confused as I have used the OPK’s once before and definitely got a line. Maybe my surge is at a different time of day this month? Being obsessive I have been charting temps and taking note of my CM. When I go into FF and took out the OPK results it gave me a cover line. Do you think that I should just disregard the OPK results for this month?

Janeo - I hope that you did O! It would mean that we are pretty much in line. FF is now saying that I O'd on Tuesday? Hope you caught the eggie!:lol:

BekZ – Congrats on O’ing. Any chance that you could be getting a BFP? Or were you playing it safe this month. Anyhow, glad your cycle seems to be getting back to normal.

With the nausea thing, I went to the Dr and she said I might have Gastritis (?) or possibly some sort of peptic ulcer. I have to wait it out for a few more days and see if the vomiting stops. Hopefully all will return to normal soon. I think I am a a little young to be getting ulcers! She knows I am TTC so has been really careful to only give me stuff that is ok to use while pregnant.

Anyhow lovely people, take care! It's a stinnking hot day here in Melbourne, i thought it was supposed to be autumn already!

Leyla
xxx

here's the link, but if you click on my ticker it should have taken you to my chart???

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/OurTTC3Chart

Thanks for all your kind words, guys. Oh, I hope so very much that this works out. I haven't even told DH about the positive test yet - I really don't see the point. He will just say "Oh well, we'll see what happens" and that will be it.

Maz - welcome and sorry to hear about your loss.

BekZ - yay on Oing!! Charting really is great to let you know what is going on.

Shan - thanks for the tiny tiny congrats!

Kitten2b - definitely sounds positive to me! Congrats and :stickyvibesboy: :stickyvibesgirl:

Janeo - hope you get a coverline soon - don't you love it when that line appears?! It sounds pretty positive. I really hope there will be a BFP for you this month!

Leyla - I hope you feel better soon. You certainly don't want to get an ulcer!

SP - I am still not sure what to do and I can't get through to DH. I am trying to just ignore it for the time being, as it is really really early, and hope for the best. I will keep doing HPTs and maybe wait 2 weeks to see my dr. I still have all the symptoms, but I can't trust that - with both my m/cs, I still had symptoms even after m/cing, the sore boobs hung around for days afterwards, so I really get no warning of what may be happening.

It would be so nice to get a BFP and be happy and excited like most people are, rather than just scared and apprehensive like I have to be now. Oh well, if I am pg, I am only 3w 6d, and that is sooooo early, and I could possibly have O'ed one to days later than I thought, so I could actually be even less pg.

Oh Bun hang in there, I should only be about 4 weeks as well, thus why the lines I think are really faint, with maria I didn't get a great line until 6 weeks. My DH is being very sit on the fence as well, I think he is trying to not me get my hopes up too high, which is his way of not wanting me to get hurt again.

Bun -sweety please dont read too much into the 'colour' of the line - i know its hard not too but remember you could have O'd at any time - so while you think you may be 13dpo - you might only be 10dpo. With this pg - i didnt look into any of that and I declined to have my hcg levels monitored. I just prayed and talked to the 'lil one' to convince it to hang around.

Try not to stress hun,, adn see if you can get an early scan to help put your mind at rest.

sending you heaps and heaps of :stickyvibesboy:

Lisa

Hi Maz,

I read your other post in the other thread and my heart went out to you. Welcome and I am sure you'll have heaps of great convos in here, the girls are all very lovely.

I am "getting in tune" at the moment Maz. My first m/c was a surprise and I really did not feel overly upset about losing it becasue I had a newborn and it just wasn't the right time for us, however, I did get really upset about it a few months later. The last m/c was more upsetting because the pregnancy was planned. In saying this as soon as I got pregnant I started to have second thoughts about how I would cope with 2 under 2. Now I feel like I really need to lose some weight (5kgs), do some strength excercise (back and pelvic floor) and just chill from the stress of actively TTC. So now I am temping (I find this so useful even when not TTC), exercising (walking), watching what I eat and just relaxing for the next few months. We will actively ttc in June, but if things happen in the meantime so be it.

Leyla - If you have got a coverline on FF, then i'd go with that, coz you may have missed the surge on the OPK's. See how you go, and i hope you caught that eggie!!!

Bun - my pleasure....and remember too, that a HPT picks up any HCG in your system, NOT the amount, so the darker the line does not necessarily mean a stickier emby. When i got pg, my line came up straight away, dark as dark, and we all know what happened there....best bet would be a b/t....but i know it's a sticky bub anyway...

Leyla - Not much chance of BFP. Not really trying this month, just temping to see what my cycle is doing. Hope you feel better soon or your nausea is a bfp.

Sharon - I think that spotting you had may have been AF. Your chart up until DPO 13 is the same as your other cycles and now your temps are low. Just see what happens in the next week or two. I tried your link and only got your ticker. It could be my computer not bringing up the link properly.

Hello to you all,
It is Friday Hoooorayyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!

I am still trying to figure every-one out & just when I think I have I am back to square one. So here goes I hope I have all of this right

Maz- Hi Maz & welcome, I know what you are saying about when you would like to ttc. When we first started ttc I thought it was so easy, huh how stupid was I. I wanted a baby in sept, never happened. Then when I was not really thinking about I fell and was due 24.05.07. Well now that is not happening either. I have always said I do not want a christmas baby however after chatting in thsi thread & talking with others, I sort of don't really mind now so long as it happens although is always on my mind & maybe same with you. Just my own thoughts MWAH

Bun & Louise- I soooooo have everything crossed for you 2(except my legs that is) sending lots of :bluedust:

Bekz-Best of luck with everything. good to hear all is getting back to normal for you.

SP-I wish there more people like you, you are so supportive of all and have lots to tell us all, Thanks heaps

Belinda-I did sign into FF however then signed out casue I am a chicken. I will try again & see how I go though, even if it is only for a couple of months, Thanks

Jen-I see you are a christmas girl & it does not seem to bother you, that is great. Do you celebrate your birthday separate to christmas? Our family is big into birthdays being very special, I think that is why I often thought I did not wish to have a baby at christmas.

Leyla-I hope youa re soon feeling better & back into bding

Sharon-Keep your chin up, all will be ok. I have no idea waht my is doing either if that makes you feel better. We just do lots bding and hope for the best. We all ramble some-times don't worry, we are hear to listen & ramble with you ,lol

For any-one I have missed a special message too I am sorry & hope to catch up next time, will have a read over the weekend and see if I can figure you all out yet, trying hard.
Have a great week-end & talk to you all soon, I am at work so I must go

:hug: :bluedust: :)

janeo good luck getting your coverline.
saltprincess I honestly don't know, it was slightly more than just spotting as there was a 'little' something on the pad each time i went to loo, going by Shan's info I would say it was borderline and since my af is normally light, well... so I think I will give it a week or so and see what temps, cm and cp do. I hope the witch shows up on time for you.
maz so sorry to hear about your loss, I still get sad nearly 6 weeks after my D&C but have found it great to be able to come in here and talk/read about other peoples experiences and having a couple of great friends IRL who I could depend on for a shoulder to cry on if needed.
Shan I really don't think I could be pg since we didn't BD until 4 days after i O'd, and what is a 'breakthrough bleed'? plus my temps are a fair bit lower.
Bun I know what you mean about being a little apprehensive instead of happy about being pg, because I will am positive I will be the same, worrying about every little sign or symptom that appears/disappears.
BekZ I am starting to think that maybe it was af but was just extremely light, I will wait and see what my temps, cm, cp tell me over the next week or so and may then change 2 of the days to light af.
Herbie I know things will sort themselves out (eventually) but ever since ttc and temping I really do HATE not knowing what my body is doing, the thing is, is that my Ob told me to wait till af arrives before starting ttc again so I am getting really impatient with the old witch LOL

I may BBL to have a read before bed but can't promise anything, I am working tomorrow from 7am through till about 9.30pm at the local primary school for the elections and I still have to read through my manual :p

Yeah, Sharon, you could be right.....i checked out your chart after i had written it, so i'm not too sure....sorry babe..- still you never know...

Leyla i would ignore the OPKs for this month especially if FF are giving you a coverline without them... It wont hurt to ignore them and see what happens matey...

Oh its great and then again it sucks that there are so many people in here IYKWIM. I hope the numbers will dwindle in the coming months. But for now its great to have a lot of people to chat to.

Bun- Keep positive. I know it is hard and we do tend to think about our past experiences but keep trying and we are all sending lots of sticky vibes and positive thoughts. Maybe tell DH? He might be as scared as you are.

Shan-Lucky you are here cos I have bugger all knowledge at the moment about my cycle. My first month on FF and so I am happy to be learning! Have a good weekend. I am sure you will hear me with the jack hammer again this weekend!

Janeo-The waiting game. I am feeling and thinking only positive things for you.

Herbie- As for being a Christmas baby, my birthday is still kept very seperate from Christmas. Its great to have that whole week of celebration being Christmas-birthday-New Years.

Bekz-its funny, sometimes it is the time you dont try for something that it may actually happen. I will throw some vibes your way too!

Who have I missed? Sorry if I didnt say g'day to you. I will next time.

For me it is a weekend of back on the jack hammer to get the rest of those damn tiles up.
Oh and I also have to have a pap smear every year due to a low grade abnormality last time. I had to have 3 tests in 3 weeks once. I have a very nice doc... "just relax those muscles" I still think it is unpleasant....
Waiting time for me to O in the next week or so, some BDing then the waiting game... All fun and games.

Good weekend to all.

Jen

Thanks for your vibes Jen and goodluck with getting those tiles up...I tell you I hate laying them even more. DH and I have done our whole house and time I will pay some one.

Re: Pap smear I had an abonormality 2 years ago and had to have 2 biospies. both came back ok, but when checking my cervix whilst TTC I felt a pimple thing on the opening of my cervix. This is the same spot that last abnormality was, and my doc thinks it could just be a recurrance, but I have to go and have another ps very soon. I am dreading the results coming back abnormal again, because this means more biopsies...yuk

Jen, i'll be listening out for you tomorrow...lol. As for my knowledge, it's all stuff i picked up on BB. I was as clueless as clueless when i first came here. I didn't even know what an OPK was or CM for that matter, or that you could pinpoint ovulation by taking your temp..lol. You learn as you go. There is an online charting course that you can do on FF. It's free to do, and although i haven't done it myself, heaps of girls on here have and said it's fantastic. Might be worth having a look????

Janeo - yes, I think I'll ignore the OPK's and just see what happens. Guess that puts me in the TWW. I'm going to go nuts!

Hi Girls,
Still plodding along.... Am now 12dpo but have that sinking feeling that af could show at any time (she is due Sunday - day 28). I have a FS appt on Monday where I basically want him to put me back on Clomid. I fell pg with DS on my 4th cycle of clomid after trying for almost 2 years!! I then fell pg with angel bubs without it after about 6 months but we all know how that ended!! I just want to be pg again as do so many of you wonderful ladies....Well that was a very selfish post but I promise to be back soon to do personals. I have read all of your news & am praying for BFP's for us all. Have a lovely weekend girls!!

Hi all, hoping there have been lots of BFP's since I last popped in (sorry, I haven't been keeping track... but feel free to give me a quick update!). Sorry to see so many more recent additions in here - fingers crossed for you all for good news very soon.

I have finally hit the 14 week mark & we made it here safely with no drama's this time (thank goodness). I had an ultrasound (nuchal fold) last week & my first blood tests & everything looks great. I burst into tears when I saw that heartbeat. It was first scan last time that we learned our baby had died, so this time I was very nervous & scared.

Anyway, love, sticky vibes & BFP wishes for everyone!

xx

thank yo all for the warm welcome. I hope to get to know you all really soon and you watch as soon as I get the hang of everyone in here, You'll all be leaving with BFP (fingers crossed)
I so have to get my chart started again. I had one with Fertility friends but it still has my old cycle prior Vyolett, am I able to reset it for a new cycle at all?

Cilmum - so pleased to hear all went well at your scan - what a huge relief for you!!
Maz - hi - not sure about resetting FF - maybe some of these other knowledgeable girls can help you. Good luck on the journey.
Me, 13dpo today & not feeling so confident due to af like feelings. Time will tell though....
Hi to all the other lovely ladies - hope everyone is good!!

Morning girls,

Well, as I thought, this one seems not meant to be. I did another HPT this morning and the line was so light it was barely there and took longer than the 5 mins to come up, so I think I can officially class that as a BFN. Oh well, I must say, if a pg isn't going to work out, I would rather it happen at this stage rather than later and to have to go through the hospital etc ordeal again. Not sure if I could handle that again.

I was feeling so positive about things a couple of weeks ago - I was confident my specialist would sort things out and all would be ok. Now all that positive thinking is out the window again. Luckily I have a psych appt today so I am hoping to feel a little better after that.

I don't even know what you class this as. The tests I used were v sensitive and if I had only tested today and not yest I never would have gotten a BFP at all. Do you class this as a chem pg or nothing at all? I hope this isn't a pattern - the first pg lsated 7 wks (although I didn't find out til 8.5wks) the second lasted 5w 3d, and now this one barely at all. If this is a pattern, then next time I suppose I won't be able to get pg at all!

My specialist said that if I am not pg this month, we will do cycle tracking next cycle to see if my hormones could do with a boost, and if so, he will put me on clomid the next cycle. I want clomid now! I know that I O v late and seem to have a short LP, so I just want to go on it! Does anyone know if a specialist will agree to that or if they insist on tracking first?

Anyway, enough about me.

Sharon - I think your spotting could be AF too. It can all be so confusing sometimes!

mummyto1 - you never know, sometimes AF type feelings can lead to a BFP! How did you find being on clomid?

Shan - I was the same as you when I first came here, I knew nothing! Now I know soooo much and can't believe I used to know so little about my body. I also read a lot of the threads about all sorts of things and am amazed at the knowledge I have picked up over the last year or so!

BekZ - you poor thing - pap smears are just horrible and I can only imagine how awful biopsies would be. I hope it comes back clear this time. I had slightly abnormal results on mine last year and was told to have another one in 6 months and if still abnormal, may need to have a biopsy. Luckily the next one was fine so I am back on 2 yrly tests.

Jenjams- three pap smears in 3 wks - what an awful experience! I get so tense that I shiver and it only gets worse when they tell me to relax, then I start full on shaking! Good luck with the tiles!

Hi to everyone else.

So happy to hear from you Cilmum cant believe how quickly it has gone...

Bekz i hope everything comes back a OK for you...

Well ARGH at waking up at the wrong time i keep waking to early and my temps are WACKO.... Still no coverline but now today i have watery cm and heaps of it so not sure what to think, i had lots of cm about 4 days after i Oed last time but i think from notes it was more creamy then this i have pretty dry the last few days so still +ve i Oed Wed or Thurs and that this is just like i had last time but going to dtd AGAIN just incase....

Im off to a Modern cloth nappy display tomorrow in Melb so thats pretty excited we have decided to use cloth nappies so be good to check some out and im meeting up with Bron from on BB so that will be good to put a face to the name.....

I hope everyone is having a GREAT weekend even if the weather is yucky and windy here....

Bun - I was fine on the clomid (50mg I think). No real side effects that I can remeber so all in all a good experience - hence me wanting to get back on it ASAP. Have my FS appt Monday so even though I fell pg with Angel baby without clomid while b/f I hope he will put me back on it without too many questions. I have been TTC for 7 cycles since m/c so think I have suffered enough disappointments (as we all have)!. I fell pg on cycle 4 of clomid with DS so hope it happens sooner this time!
Bun, pls don't think that you will not even fall pg again next time. By all means see what your FS thinks but if anything it is more likely a dodgy test this time than anything else. There is still a chance you are UTD though so time will tell. All the best to you.....
Hello to all the other lovelies - hope you're enjoying your weekends!!

Oh Bun, am sending you a big hug:hugs: I hope mummyto1 is right and it was a dodgy test.
Mummyto1 when are you testing? Fingers crossed, tell AF to take a hike and visit Sharon instead so she can get busy.
Janeo let me know what you think about the modern nappies. I am still undecided.
Maz welcome. I read your post about losing the twins and had tears in my eyes. A new cycle should start when you put the date in of the D&C or period in FF. I didn't know and didn't think I would need to put my membership on hold when I got pregnant so lost a months membership.
Cilmum thanks for popping in and giving me hope. Best wishes for the rest of your pregnancy.
Leyla I'm with you in the TWW and it drives me bonkers. I am addicted to testing so will have to get DH to hide them until about CD13 so I don't get sad testing too early.
BekZ I like your healthy outlook and good luck getting "in tune".
Jenjams I hope those tiles aren't causing you headaches.
Hi Herbie and Shan and anyone I have missed.

I am 5dpo today but I think I am getting a cold so feel miserable today. My friend and I were talking yesterday and we are amazed at how much we know about TTC and what our bodies are doing. It's a pity they won't behave and do what they are supposed to.