Muraycod – good to see you have your spunk and sense of humour. Glad you and DH had a sneaky quickie at lunch..... did Dh have to go back to work? I have a sneaky happy smile just thinking about clandestine lunch time liasions.
Inona Macca – hope that assignment went well.
Bons – how do you manage with 3 months apart? My DH and I spent about 4 months apart in the lead up to our wedding in 2000 and it was quite tough. Although, after a while I did get used to it and DH coming home was an adjustment.
Mildez – how are you doing?
Ferals – I am sorry I missed Abbi's day, but glad that you and DH went away together. I cried so many tears reading about both how you and DH spent the day and enjoyed the party and how your Mum and niece honoured Abbi. So precious. How's the kitty? And I hear you and my journey has been so different to yours, but my BF's journey is one of long term TCC with 2 m/c, and she talks to me about how she feels. You're feeling quite normal. I say do what you need to do. If cutting back helps you keep it simple and keep the passion alive – do it.
Audax aka Snuggly– bring on the crazy lady – OMG OMG OMG – congrats. I so thought you had a tummy bug as there was one going around Bris at the time......
Mathew's mum – how did you find the nasal spray? And thanks for your good wishes.
Mo4- congratulations again on your BFP, and I want to repeat its good to see you in the other thread. I completely understand about feeling like you don't belong anywhere. Believe me, the women in here are wonderful ( you know that) but I agree there are some things it is probably insensitive to share here. You will feel more comfortable in your other thread soon. I am getting more comfortable – they are just as supportive but not as much fun in the other thread. There is just something manic about tcc and the 2ww.
Hubba – congratulation again and I like to see you in the other thread. Hugs.
Em – in this journey, the strangest things affect us, even when we think we're doing ok. Sorry you did it tough on AF's arrival. I have been thinking about starting to use a moon cup – what do you think of it honestly? And thanks for your good wishes.
T hopes – I hope you are dreaming about all the women in this forum... sad that your dream meant sadness for you though. Are you feeling a little less broken? It makes me so sad to read that you are so sad. I wish I could get my magic wand out and fix it for you. Big hugs. Alice had the right words.
Trea- welcome and god luck. I hope your stay is short and you get a BFP soon. Dr Sachs is highly regarded.
Millyd – I am sorry that you are angry.... let it out sis. This journey is unfair.
Loops – welcome. Work on that natural miracle – at least BD ing short term can be lots of fun and no pressue, just get out and enjoy yourself.... out in the outdoors is always good. Sorry, feeling cheeky.
Crafty – sorry I missed your EDD but glad that you got through ok. To cry and feel your emotions is not weak, you are just a beautiful normal woman. Don't be so hard on yourself.
SPF – I am so daft, I didn't realise that congratulations were in order. I was hoping that good news was afloat for you when I heard mention of scans, but thought it might have been for something else. Congrats girl. Hope you are going well.
Sunbeam – how DARE work get in the way of BB! I am so sorry you are sad. I think the sadness, the enduring sadness is the hardest to deal with. I hope you've reconnected with your counsellor and it helps. I will miss you. Be strong my friend, you will find your way through.
Kit – how did you BD marathon go? Every day is amazing. It took me a very long time to add anything to my signature beyond my name. I am still a bit like Snuggly Audax in that I vacillate about whether I want that info in my signature, but for the moment I am being brave and putting it out there. I for one am glad to see Splat up on the big screen and in big lights. It reminds me to think of you. BTW – it was good to hear from DH too. Give a big hug and let him know he is part of our family too.
Jahzara -oh sweetie – I had hoped you weren't posting because you were feeling strong not fragile. Big hugs. Glad you decided to plan a trip. I love a god holiday and the beach is perfect. How many sleeps til your holiday? And I hope your break from TCC brings you some peace and a big fat surprise bfp.
Possum Magic – so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious little one and your extra tough journey afterwards, that's a lot of trauma to go through. You've found a great bunch of ladies though. So does that mean you are TCC now or just about ready to?
Miss K- how are you doing?
T-hopes- I like that joke! Sorry I missed your EDD. I can't dye my hair in pg either or even from O to AF.
Sarahrach – a bit quiet on the western front. You doing ok?
Alice – sorry your new shirt met with such a sad fate, but never mind. I wonder why in a new job when people don't know you why they would ask such a dumb question. You sure have some nosy parkers in your life at the moment and also some beautiful souls. Glad you got to have a nice peaceful experience with relos as well. I am glad that you and DH had a meeting of the minds about it. Did AF come?
Ric – good to see your name again! Good luck with the change in job and hope the back ache is better. There are ways to BD that can accommodate a back ache..... clearly I am not getting enough.
TCCALC – I miss you! It seems ages since I was waiting with baited breath for that court case and then it was adjourned because someone changes lawyers. …. bet you're super busy now. Thinking of you.
Eliselouise- how are you doing?
Chody – hope your stay in the TCC thread is short. Hugs sweetie.
Timeforafamily – I am so sorry about the loss of your much anticipated and loved 0.56. I have to say I love the name! I hope your next cycle goes well and you bust out of here real quick.
Teagm – welcome, and sorry that you had to experience such heartache to find us.
AFM – all going well 15 weeks. And each day a blessing, but some are easier than others. The worry and anxiety is never far away and what I worry about changes, but I refuse ( and stamp my foot) to let it ruin this miracle.
And Alice after two disasters with 2 boxes of POAS,( so 4 tests) where I soaked my hand and my sleeve ( who is that unco?????) and ruined the tests by getting them wet in the wrong place, I just use the “old fashioned” floaters. I have more practice and ability it seems to pee in a cup. Hah that sounds so bad. I am always worried though with the floaters that the cats will come and investigate them ( I put the container briefly on the floor whilst I get organised) and think they will knock them over or put their cat saliva in them and ruin them.
I just wanted to say, that I have finally caught up ( not yet looked at the photos of the kitty yet, just about to do that!) it breaks my heart to read the month through and see all the heartache and pain you've all gone through but warms my heart to feel the love, warmth and support we all give each other. This is truly a special place and thankyou to each of you for making it so, heartache and all.
PS - sorry this has been so LONG! Happy reading.
