Kit thats great news you still have tiger on board so sorry it was a twin you lost I know how hard it can be but you have to remember you are still pg so have to concentrate on that ! Nature has a funny way at times but she does know better !
Well I did some soul searching and had a good chat with DH ( well I was in tears beside myself sniffling you know the usual,can't cope with this anymore ) Anyhow I had spoken to A clinic in North Perth and they agreed to see me even though i am 45 my past history of having kids helped I think, anyway my referal letter has been sent by my GP and I have an appointment on the 17th June to see them, so fingers crossed they will be able to help me get UTD don't care what I have to do or take just know I have to give it a real good shot before I give up and my inside voice is saying I can do this I just need a bit of help as my time is running out monthly !
I know its a long shot but hey none of my kids have ever come to me easily so this next one will just be that bit more difficult to acheive but I will do it !
Murraycod great news about the darker line I knew you could do it !
Reet - Sorry to hear you're fighting with DH. That sucks. I know the feeling of wondering when your man is going to grow up and finally get into father mode. Or at least interested in it. My DP is 32, almost 33 and has only just come around, so don't despair. He's ahead of his time in my books, lol. It must be hard putting TTC on hold, but it's a brave decision, and will be the right one. Hopefully he gets his act together quickly, or you get a BFP this month, or both!! Hugs to you, I hope you feel better soon. I hope your little doggy is feeling better too, soon. I love my animals, I think of them as my children, so I feel your pain.
Kit - I had a bit of a chuckle over the constipation cramps.... sorry. It was pretty amusing from where I'm sitting, though. Don't feel bad though, that happened to a lady I used to work with. She was rushed to the doctors with bad cramps, and they told her she needed to poop. LOL. She was a bit red-faced, but relieved nonetheless. I'm so sorry about the loss of Tiger's twin, I'm sure you've got very mixed emotions at the moment. I'm so glad the HB is strong now, and he/she is thriving judging by those HCG numbers. You can do this. I know you can. Keep us posted!
Murraycod- LOL @ the rabbit pebbles. That cracked me up. I'm anxious to hear what your HCG numbers are. I agree with T-hopes about telling your friend. I think she will be happy for you no matter what, and maybe just a little inspired that if you can do it, so can she. Good luck having that difficult conversation. About the hissy-fits, I just don't know if I like having them at work. I'd rather not have them at all, but that doesn't seem to be an option at the moment. *sigh* You're right though, better than spazzing out at home. lol. DP would think I've lost my marbles. Only thing is he works with me, so I hope I don't get sprung having a sook at my desk one of these days, lol.
T-hopes - Sorry to hear about the BFN, but try not to lose hope. This is no doubt a tough time of year for you, but I hope this surgery gets you a step closer to your BFP and bringing that beautiful baby home.
Damprye - Good luck with TTC in June. I hope AF comes swiftly, and leaves just as quick as she arrived.
Matthew's mum - HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your precious boy Matthew. I just know he'll be there with you at your celebration, and I think it's lovely that you're doing something to mark the occasion. Hugs to you on this tough day.
Craftymummy - Great news about the ref. for a clinic. I really love the positive attitude you've got going right now. Keep your spirits high.
AFM, I'm starting to feel a bit nervous! I had ANOTHER hissy fit at work today, over something I probably could have controlled myself in the past. I don't know what's up with that lately. People are going to start thinking I'm crazy, I swear! Also, please tell me I'm crazy for having sore boobs. They're even worse today, which makes me want to get all excited. It's too soon. Tell me it's too soon. I was thinking yesterday how I hoped they got sorer and sorer so I could have some kind of hope, but now I'm starting to freak myself out with it all. They were so bad today, tingling, burning, and definitely swollen. Normally they just feel a little on the achey side before AF. I'm talking a week or so before it. Never this soon, and never this bad. Right now, they're sore even when I'm not touching them. I felt queasy today after my hissy fit, but I think that's because I got myself all worked up. I keep telling myself to chill out, and that it's too early to feel this way, but I've never had such sore boobs except when I was pg. Oh man, I hope this TWW flies by because I'm already going crazy.
And just for Kit, short list of my symptoms over the last couple of days:
BOOBS! sore as hell and swollen
slight headaches coming and going
vague queasiness at random
blood in my nose? Weird, and never happens ever.
slight pinchy feeling in my tummy today.
I think that's about it so far. Sorry for the long winded rant. I really needed that.
Matthew's Mum- It was nice to hear that you celebrated your angel's birthday
Crafty- yays one getting an a appointment
AFM- well so I have no idea what the spotting was about.. I DTD the day before but it wasn't painful or anything. I have a slight "feeling", well I'm not to sure how to explain it, not cramping just different. I do not think AF is on her way anytime soon now
I havent posted in ages as I have been having a sulk since the last miscarriage. Anyway I knew you ladies would understand and wanted to ask you to check this out for me, I am 10dpo I think today and I POAS around 10.30am so not FMU. I swear theres a line can you tell me what you think???
I will POAS again with FMU tomorrow but please tell me I am not completely crazy and seeing pink lines out of my imagination.....
hiya - I have been in my own little world. Thankyou so much for asking about my fur baby. All is well now after some decent worrying by me.
Kit - I am so saddened by the loss of your Tigers twin, but so pleased that little Tiger is hanging in there. Hope you are getting your head and heart around such bittersweet moments.
Murray - congrats girl I am SOOOOOOOOO happy for you and impressed by your fortitude. Come on Murray and Ferals. I will always cheer for you, whatever the reason. Crafty - good work you on getting your appointment. I am so proud of you.
Ric - congrats. Not sure if I was in the loop. Glad you have given up work - it's a big decision but well worth it.
Forshelby - test girl! I am hoping and wishing for you.
AFM - glad my fur baby returned to me happy and healthy. Realised why I was so anxious - couldn't bear the prospect of losing him and another loss generally. Understandable but very draining. Week 23 now - can you believe it? So far and yet still so far to go. Anyway, I have lots of catching up to do as I have been MIA these past few days. I will catch up soon and will be pleased to read how everyone is going. Take care my lovelies.
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Millyd - good to have a sulk hun and regroup. I like the sound of this test.... sorry can't help with the photo. I know other people use something like photobucket or other program to upload the photo and then put a link in their post..... I am not so good with technology. But I am really hoping that those two lines get even stronger tomorrow.
AF is finally here, I doubted that I was UTD so I couln't bring myself to test because looking at that BFN is always much harder for me than AF coming along.
BTW does anyone know how to edit lilipie tickers instead of making new ones?
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Millyd have you worked out how to upload the photo yet?? Honey I don't reallly remember how I did mine, go to your user panel there should be something there that allows you to add an album, just click on that part, and it will go straight to your pictures on the computer for you to choose which one, hope that helps!! Am dying to see!!!!
I hope things work out honey, have my fingers crossed for you XXXXX
Dory, oh I'm quite nervouse as you can imagine!! Go for my Beta on Monday so very much looking forward to that! I just can't beleive it!
Haven't joined the PALM thread, still too early for me, I sort of feel like I don't belong anywhere ATM!!!! Not in a bad way, I just don't like to upset anyone here.
Damprye, woohoo finally!!! What time did AF show up?? Just wondering cuz if after 12oclock full flow, day 1 classed as tomorrow.
I always just make a new lilypie so I'm not much help to you there!!! I'm too scared to change mine yet.
Forshelby, I have my toes and fingers crossed for you this month, sounds promising!! EEEKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!
Damprye – sorry to hear that AF arrived, hopefully this month is your turn
Dory – yay at being 23 weeks – 17 to go, hoping it flies by. So glad that your fur baby is doing well
Millyd – oh yay on a 2nd line, hoping the line gets darker in the morn. Sending you heaps of sticky vibes!!! I normally go through photobucket to post pics
Kit – so sorry to hear about the twin pregnancy but am jumping with joy that tiger is snuggling in to get comfy!!
Forshelby – oh my, i’m going to be stalking you, your symptoms sound promising...
Matthew’s mum – thinking of you on a day like today,
Crafty – yay on making an appointment with a clinic, here’s to getting that BFP real soon
t-hopes – sorry to hear about your BFN, hoping your surgery goes well on Monday. Will be thinking of you!
Reet – hope everything is sorted with DP, i remember when we were trying for #1, the things DP would do and the arguments we had to try and make him see that he needs to grow up before a child comes along. Hugs sweety!! How is your fur baby going, hoping she is on the road to recovery.
Hi to everyone i’ve missed, hoping you are all busy bding etc
AFM: cd12 for me, opk’s are getting darker slowly, so going to start the bding bonanza tonight until cd16....hoping that we catch the little egg!!! We drive back home tomorrow from port Macquarie, pretty sure my 3yo boy is ready to go home
hi all again, I cant figure out the photo thing, but anyway I tested again and its def a bfp. I will poas in the morning but its already darker and you can see it at arms length, no leaning under lamps or out windows hahaha!!
Still such a long way to go, especially after 2 miscarriages but anyway, I am going to take a chill pill and just cruise through the next 8 weeks and then the following 32.....
Love to you all, I have so much catching up to do now, will do persies later.
I did notice though congrats for Murraycod, thats beautiful and my darling Kit bittersweet congratulations to you xxx loving angel thoughts to you and sticky blessings for little tiger xxx
OMG Millyd Congratulations!!!! its all so so so very exciting in here lately!! Im so happy for u!! so u fell pg straight after m/c?? well done!!!! x
Kit- Sorry to hear u lost a twin.. its sad but i am so happy that little tiger is in there doing so well. I cant believe u have been thru all this stress and worry when u didnt need too! oh well lets hope its all worry-free from now on! Very happy for u. Oh and thanks for ur comments on ur dh when u were ttc.. it helps me to remember that im not the only one in this world married to a sometimes inconsiderate male!! xx
Murraycod- I am still so happy that u have done it!!!! i hope ur relaxing. I cant believe ur dog got kennel cough from the vet! how very annoying! U shld have argued that u shldnt have to pay all costs! i know it most likely wldnt work tho.. thats probly what the vets do to make money.. keep a dog there that has it and let it infect everything else!! haha lets hope not!! and thanku also for ur words of wisdom on the male species.. golly gosh he can do my head in! thanks for reminding me there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Oh and i hope ur chat with ur friend went well, from how u describe ur friendship, im sure she is over the moon for u.. and like thopes said, it will give her hope that dreams and miracles do happen! x
Matthews mum- Sorry to hear yesterday was a tough one for u, it sounds like u have a beautiful family
Forshelby- So when are u testing babe???!! how many dpo are u???! oooh exciting!!!!!!
Ionamacca- thanks for letting me know that u had a tough time with ur dh whilst ttc #1.. i think its just a stressful time where u feel like everything needs to be just perfect in preparation to having a baby.. when in reality everything cant be perfect.. u just have to work things out as they arise. Now u go and have fun bding!!! Good luck!!!!
Hello to everyone else!!
AFM. Still no af.. was meant to be day 1 yesterday. I wld be getting excited since clomid is meant to give u a 28 day cycle, except i just dont trust my body at all!!! and im too scared to test now.. i really dont want to see bfn, so im going to just keep waiting.. if af isnt here in maybe 3 days i will test.. im so scared!!! its crazy!!! Me and dh are slowly sorting things out... he went to doctors today to get referral for sperm check, i just want to find out if his lifestyle has affected his little swimmers (as well as the normal things males get up too.. drinking etc, he also works on communication towers which = radiation) plus i want him to make more effort.. i have been to HEAPS of doctors appointments.. its about time he does something too! So he is doing that little sample in the cup tomoro morning and rushing it off to qml first thing in the am!! haha poor boy. But it will be good to find out, maybe that will be his wake up call. He is slowly starting to come around tho.. understanding where im coming from. I think when u come across with an attack! attitude they come back with a defend! and i will do what i want! attitude !
Well ladies thats it for me.. may as turned out to be a GREAT month!! WOOHOO!!!! xxxx
Oh my god, oh my god!!!! Im bawling my eyes out.congratulations murraycod!!! I just had a feeling it be ur month sweetie.time to rest it up some more and look forward to a brilliant 9 months!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IM SO SORRY LADIES IF MY SIG COMES UP.I TRIED TO DISABLE IT BEFORE I POSTED..
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Hugs to you, I hope you feel better soon. I hope your little doggy is feeling better too, soon. I love my animals, I think of them as my children, so I feel your pain.
for you forshelby
so I have no idea what the spotting was about.. I DTD the day before but it wasn't painful or anything. I have a slight "feeling", well I'm not to sure how to explain it, not cramping just different. I do not think AF is on her way anytime soon now
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