Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss November 08

smi-- OMG, OMG, OMG!!!! :leap: How about that for a great Christmas??? Oh, I'm SOOOOOOOO happy for you!!! :happyforyou: :cheer: :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy:



pbstar-- :bluecheer: Congrats on your little baby boy!! :itsaboy:



Will be back later for persies.... have to get DS ready for school, just wanted to say how happy I am for smi and pbstar!!!


Will be back later to properly welcome the newbies! :grouphug: Sorry that you've all had to join our little thread, but hoping that you find comfort and support here among us!

Thank you thank you thank you jen!!! I am excited and scared at the same time...I have no symptoms the only reason I tested was for the heck of it...I was 1 day late...I sure hope God sees us through this one safely...:pray:

smi - oh honey..............SO EXCITED!!!!!!!!! :hooray::leap: BFP is the most beautiful sight in the world - sending all the :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: in the world. Really happy for you hun! merry xmas!!!

issy - so happy for you too - don't remember if I already told you that. keeping looking after ur mummy tummy :hug:

pbstar - congrats on ur lil boy :clap: - hope ur well hun.

rmercimek, zacharysmom, erybery, hannahs86 - my thoughts and prayers are with you ladies, doesn't feel that long ago that I was TTC after m/cs and infertility, I just can't seem to leave you all just yet, big hugs.... especially to rmercimek and zacharysmom, given my gestation, I know exactly how you would be feeling - from the bottom of my heart, I am so sorry.

babymiracles - congrats to you hun on ur engagement - enjoy this wonderful time - well done!

:bellyrubs: to tempus, krystie, fifi, megsmum, AJC (thinking of you especially hun), and the other lovelies i have missed (forgive my head)

:bluedust: to jen, princess85, hannahd, mel, wth and again to the other lovelies who are no less thought of.

jen - sweetheart - don't forget the soup hun.

afm - i can't sleep and that's why I am posting at this shocking hr!

I just bought 2 more tests because I just can't believe it!

Thanks for the well wishes plc...wow December 27th huh...not too far to go!

Yesterday no symptoms other than 1 day late...took the test and still no "real" symptoms...I am peeing more frequently and I might be feeling a tad yucky...or it could all be my imagination...

Smi - :leap::confetti::happyforyou::hooray::cheer::stick yvibesboy:


CONGRATULATIONS

I am just so happy for you What a wonderful early Christmas present

Congratulations Smi! :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:

Will come back later for more persies but wanted to let you all know that AF arrived this morning. :angry: I am so angry and feel like such an idiot. I can't believe I let myself get my hopes up. I have had pg symptoms though, I wasn't imagining that. Or maybe I was?

I have to go for another BT today to test if I have any ovarian resistance. Back to the FS tomorrow so hoping he can give us some hope on what we do next.

Poor DH, I don't know if I can do this much longer. The look of disappointment on his face each month just breaks my heart. :cry:

I have been ok, haven't even cried. I just feel so disheartened and wonder what on earth are we doing wrong?:confused:

Sorry for the negative post, just feeling a bit sorry for myself. I will come back later and try to be more positive.

Mel xx

oh mel sweetheart - i know - just so sorry :hug:

Went to the FS today, but unfortunately the sac was empty, and at this point there should have been something in it. Don't know what else to say...just have to wait for nature to take it's course, I suppose.

Tempus - :hug: I'm so sorry. Remember we are here for you (even those that are just lurking)

Mel1979...Sorry the ugly bit@h showed herself...

tempus...:hug: I don't know what to say...I'm so sorry.

Thank you mollycat...I feel very blessed!

Smi - YAAAAAHHHHOOOOOOO.......:leap::leap::leap::leap:

CONGRATULATIONS DARLIN....What an absolutely amazing way to begin the festive month and such a lovely early christmas pressie...well done hun, you sooooo deserved this :dance:

Just to let you all know, I couldnt wait for fri to have another blood test so I had one yesterday and numbers had doubled twice since fri, so right on track. I am over the moon about it, but obviously still cautious...just one day at time right now. I have an u/s booked for the 18th Jan, I cant wait but im also a little scared.

This really all is a bit surreal, I had convinced myself that we couldnt conceive naturally, im still pinching myself :o

Tempus - Im so very very sorry...I dont know what else to say. Please look after yourself, :comfort:

tempus - oh *all the expletives under the sun*!!!!! :wall:
i really am so sorry - i have experienced that empty sac and know how devastating it is. Wish I could give you a hug.

Oh, tempus! :comfort: I too, have experienced that devastating sight.... words can't express how truly sorry I am! :hug:

Ok, I have done it, I put up a ticker :o Its not exactly accurate as at this stage its a bit of a guess, I may be earlier or later than this, but for arguments sake this is what we will go with for now since it was fri of last week that we got a strong positive (maybe 4 week mark?). Ok, now the 8ww begin....Ill be praying everyday we make it to 12 weeks safely (and of course beyond) but this is the next milestone, that and our scan on 18th of Jan.

HannahS86 - :welcome: I am sorry you've had to join us here, but goodluck TTC.

smi - Congratulations!!I'm so happy for you. :stickyvibesboy:

issy - Great news about the hcg levels. :pray: they keep climbing.

princess85 - Sending lots of :pink-babydust: and anti-af vibes your way.

erybery - Hi. I don't think we've met yet. :goodluck: with your TTC journey.

rmercimek - I am so very sorry for your loss. May your stay with us be short (IYKWIM)

plc - Not long to go now...:bellyrubs:

Mel - I am so sorry hun.:hug: I know just how you feel. I was so sure this month would be it for us.

tempus - I am so so sorry. :comfort: I don't know what to say.

Hi and *hugs* to everyone not mentioned

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Rmercimek - I lost my little boy just 2 days short of 36 weeks. I am right here for you. I bled for 5 weeks after Zachary was born and then had my period 3 weeks after that. I have been TTC for 2 months now and we are hoping that Saturday will give us the Christmas present we want. My periods have been very erratic since then with anything from 23 to 37 days!

erybery - Big hugs to you. I am TTC and I am scared too - we are all here to take this journey together.

princess85 - Thank you for your thoughts xxx Congratulations on your engagement!

tempus moriendi - Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate you thinking of me.

:hug: to all of you.

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HI, sorry its taken so long for me to reply had no idea what i was doing. HA HA You won't believe this but i got my monthlys tonight and i'm happy as i could be, time to start trying in 2 weeks will let you know the outcome. Thank you for your insite on my views much appreciated. Its amazing just how many other people in the world have gone through what we have gone through. My daughters name is Amelia and she will be in my thoughts foreva I cry every night as i lay in bed and wonder what she'd be doing now especially as she'd be coming up to the 3 month mark. Its only been 10 weeks but it feels like a lifetime has passed. take care