Fantastic news Ferals4 I hope everything works out well.
Murraycod, I loved your story about Loomis it made me smile, I am dying to test so will need all my will power not to. How are you doing?
Eliselouise hope your SIL is doing better- good luck with using OPKs next time and sorry you have to work more hours then you want to
Hi Matthew’s mum have you has a positive OPK yet?
Craftymummy good luck for a positive OPK soon
hello to anyone I have missed. I hope you had a good day
AFM had a good day at work, went to my acupuncturist yesterday who said things were looking good (i.e. tongue and pulse). I am trying to stay strong and positive and not read too much into each twinge my body makes. Only one week to testing….
Thanks ladies i still wont let myself get excited i have had such a bad run of luck i am to scared to let myself feel the slightest bit optimistic i am terrified i will get hurt again.
Craftmummy-good luck with the opks and have fun BDing and hope you snag that egg.
Milly-sorry you have not had your BFP but good to hear you have your thyroid issue under control and hope you get to cancel the FS appt before jan cause you get your BFP the old fashioned way.
Evening everyone,milly5-looking at your ticker ,you'll be testing soon'good luck'...Greencake-I tested tonight and opk was neg, bit early i think...ferrals-It's so understandable that your being a bit gaurded,one step at a time ,you'll get there...afm-will do another o test on Thursday,in a way i'm glad tonight 'o' test was negative as tomorrow being anniversary of loss,i'd probably cried through it and i'm thinking another precious life shouldn't be conceived through so many tears...
hello lovely ladies..so much to catch up on and by time i read through posts im exhausted and cant type lol....
I think i need to set myself a reminder to check more often although i do often think how all you ladies are going....especially when AF arrives or when i POAS lol
Shame both of those usually happen on the loo...lol
This month has got to be the month for us..bring us all much needed joy and extra christmas cheer i think
We have decided to stop trying so hard and obsessing over it every month..we found that when we were trying to conceive our son (now 2.5) that the minute we calmed down and stopped TRYING,within 2 months we were pregnant..although i promised this to hubby, i must admit that such simple things set my mind into overdrive of wanting another bundle of joy..sometimes men just dont get it...I miscarried in late June and didnt get a period for 3 months...then once got Af didnt get it for another 6 weeks(just finished in fact)..how can we not obsess over that..My gp said if not UTD by xmas then she sending me to reproductive clinic..a road i dont wish to travel,especially with Metformin ( i am a pcos sufferer also),but so worth it if we get our result we want so bad..and so called friends just dont get it..."u have 2 so why go again?",or "u got a boy and girl,b happy with that"......do i tell my friends that they have 2 pairs of same jeans or dont need those expensive shoes that will look great with this or that..no,i be the supportive friend..why cant they do the same?? thats why im glad,however unfortunate it is that we are all here on this forum,that we can all turn to our belly belly mates and know that when we get advice or a compliment,that its genuine..u girls rock...
Hi Ladies. Just a quick hi to you all. I wanted to see how you are all doing. I really miss chatting with you all but I'm feeling absolutley rotten and can barely drag my butt off the couch. It's good though i just hope I can get a Rx soon to help me through it.
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Ferrals: that is absolutely WONDERFUL news! Very very happy for you!!! After all you've been through its finally happening!!!
Matthews mum :grouphug: Hope you have a serene day today for your angel...I remember my day not being as traumatic as I had anticipated...It was actually a good day to let it go and accept it more..I made the concious decision to make a change with my attitude about the m/c that day and Im sticking to it...and I feel great! Hope you can feel the same when you're ready!
AFM: DH is away for work so been taking a break from TTC this month. We have a myriage of things happening here with work, house and other stuff and all this gearing up for IUI to begin..we just need a break. I feel good though about it and with taking these herbs I have lost 5kg now around my midsection so I have my normal nice tummy back
I appologise for not posting so much lately..A few people are making BB like high school for me and it is not a nice feeling to come here at the moment..all because I asked for advice on something which is a common thing. But I do read your posts when I can and I am always thinking of you. Most of You ladies helped me when i was going through my darkest times and encouraged me and made me feel safe secure and most importantly, stay sane! For that, Im deeply thankful
Goodluck those testing soon and goodluck those in the bd marathons! I think Im ovulating today and dh gets home this afternoon so we'll see...but Im not thinking much about it at all!
hi
just a quick one at the moment..
Mathew'smum- I just want to let you know that i am thinking of you today. I hope today is just how you want it. HUgs!!
Hi all, just a quick post today as im already running late.
Ferals that is wonderful news, good luck with the next 4 days and hopefully youll get your BFP very soon
Matthewsmum thinking of you today hun, hope you are having an alright day and are surrounded by lots of support
Coco sorry to hear your having a tough time with people on this site, but YAY to the weight loss and the flat tummy, thats great
AFM not much happening, AF left yesterday so now the countdown to O is on again.
Hello to everyone else ive missed
Talk soon
I have still been reading and crossing my fingers for you all. I got the results back from my blood test and it's looking good, the levels are still rising. I am feeling a tiny bit optimistic about this baby.
well... a bit of a me post..
i had a blood test yesterday for some other things and i got the Dr to add a BHCG in there. Turns out that i am deffinatly NOT pregnant.. I was so sure this month. I have spent today crying, i dont know how to get through all this with out something to look forward too... we are out for next cycle already, i dont want #5 due on Kyarna's Birthday.
Mathew'smum- How did your day go hun? i hope you are ok!
Matthew's Mum hope you managed to get through the day ok.
~mummyof4~ not what you wanted to hear from the dr it might take the stress off a bit if you do decide to skip next month, then you can be ready to try again next year.
SammyP good news there with the levels rising, are you going to keep monitoring the levels?
coco1411 just ignore whoever it was who said those nasty comments, and know that we all care about you
Twin Sister try and rest up, have lots of sleep and hope you feel well again soon.
hubba_bubba07 hope you get your bfp soon, i know it's a pain when you aren't sure what is happening with your cycles. maybe you should try using opks if they are not back to being regular.
ferrals4 great news there! it all seems to be going well for you
Coco-I can not believe people can be so cruel as if we dont have enough to deal with and people can still be petty and childish you have a great bunch of ladies here if you need any advice i'm all ears.
Mathewsmum-i was thinking of you i hope you got through the day ok.
Eliselouise-have fun catching that egg.
SammyP-good to hear all is going smoothly with you.
Mummyof4-sorry you did not get the BFP keep your chin up you will get through this one day at a time i didd'nt think i would it's been a year since i feel pregnant with abbi and my good days far outweigh my bad ones i promise you it will get a little easier over time just take one day at a time and some days can even be hour by hour but you will get through it.
SPF and the others i have missed hello.
AFM-I am waiting for the phone call for our day 3 embryo report and i am sooo nervous i feel sick i keep waiting for somthing to go wrong i can't help it.
morning everyone-Mummy of 4-sorry the test was neg,hope the tears have eased a bit for you today...Thanks for asking about my day,i did find it hit me harder than my edd,i tried to honour his short little life my donating bears back to the hospital where they sadly will be given to other greiving families,we also did a memory cake,had it around his grave,kids did a picture for his memory box,his grave was overflowing with flowers,and mummy was overflowing with tears we also had balloons as my 4 year old told me Matthew should have balloons on his birthday were going to release one up to the heavens today...thinking of you all and thank you again
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it might take the stress off a bit if you do decide to skip next month, then you can be ready to try again next year. 
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