Whats happened to all our luck in this thread seems we are all on a bad run and i think my DH and i must have run over a china man cause someone upstairs certainly does not want us to have a baby our one good healthy beautiful looking embryo was biopsied this morning and was found to have the same genetic fault that abbi did so i cant believe that it has now happened twice we are supose to have a 75% chance of an uneffected baby well that make 2 now so i feel absolutely shattered 7 months of waiting for nothing so now we have to put our faith and trust in mother nature and try the natural way and pray 3rd time lucky thanks for your thoughts and wishes.
Ferrals- i am so sorry to hear your news hun.. i know that nothingi can say will make you feel any better right now, but just know taht wea re all thinking of you and praying that mother nature lets you have you earth baby soon.
Ahhh, ferrals, I'm sorry to hear that it was a no-goer. So you're proceeding with mother nature now? Can you go out and build up your karma or something? Like go and volunteer for something, or donate some money somewhere - I don't know if it would work for you, but I always feel that when I am kind to the universe it might be kind back. We'll see how that looks in two weeks time, hey?
Ronlyn welcome to BB sweetheart, sorry for the losses you have had, the girls here are fantastic and you will find plenty of support.
As you have read it's not all smooth sailing here, each a sad story to tell, but all share a kind spirit and spread a bit of strength around when needed, so feel free to chat anytime you need, and hope we can help you with your journey any way we can X
Snugglybugs DH and I had a very unplanned big night out last night and I had to work thismorning with quite a nasty hangover. (our ward has literally turned into a Nursing Home ATM not one patient under the age of 75.....man did i have have some trouble in the showers today ) Every time a buzzer went of I knew it was someone needing a bedpan, I hid all day
My last hooraa!! X
Not long till your holiday now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Greencake do you have full flow today??? Sorry if it's over this month, you know your body the best X Take care hun X
Thursday can't come quick enough for me.
I'm gunna have to sit here and make a list of who is here now so I can say hi to everyone, I can't keep track ATM, but it will give me something to do, so will be back soon chickies!X
Ok, here goes, and if I miss anyone, im sorry I didn't mean it, give me a nudge X
Snugglybean
Ferrals
Mummyof 4
Matthew'sMum
Eliselouise
Craftymummy
Scarypinkfairy
Ric
Greencake
Milly5
Ronlyn
Emmy83
Cherished
Hubbabubba
Coco
Loopylouie
Tanya
Bookworm
Sparkles
Juleswa
Em
Budgi
Wow there are sooooo many of us here.
Oh and of course the escapees X
SammyP
Twinsis
Zstar
Maddison
Josh'sMum Thanks for looking over us and poping by now and then XXXX Bellyrubs to all X
Well that took a whole 30 mins to do, so will have to go figure out what else I can do, mabey go sleep my Saturday night off and enjoy sleeping in on my next couple days off, I love sleeping in on a Monday
Love you all take care XXXXX
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: woopsy!X
Evening Ladies
I am so sorry to hear about your loss Ronlyn you are having a really bad year and we all on here will help in any way we can is sent to you we hope you can get some strength to carry on along the TTC journey with all of us, we all have differnt stories to tell but we are all here for the same reason a recent MC or loss WELCOME !
Ferrals so sorry to hear it was not the results you wanted I was really hoping this was your month but as they say onwards and upwards don't loose your faith you will get there in the end just think positive,
Murraycod after last night hope your feeling a bit better or maybe a hair of the dog ( if you know what I mean ) have another glass of wine you are about to start a very exciting journey keep us all posted.
snuggly you could always go for a drive in your car you do have a back seat !
Emmy83 good luck in the TWW its a pain but you have to do it same as all of us !
Greencake sorry your a bit down I know how you feel my body took sooo long to get back to normal after my MC in early sept I am only now back in the swing of it thanks to the vitex I think as since taking it my cycle has returned to normal but no BFP as yet but we have to stay positve and beleive in our bodies they know what is best for us.
Everyone else hope your all well to all those comming upto O day with me this week lets hope we catch that this month we need some more bfps on here !
Afm had a good weekend and just waiting to start my opks at my age two lines on the opk stik is a blessing !
cm9 - we don't have a car. We're greenies Even if we did, we're flying down to Sydney anyway. BUT my brother lives quit close to the clocktower - I hear that's a good spot for a romp
murraycod - get a hobby! Jokes, that's a really nice thing to do. Must be new thread time pretty soon, will be good to have that list. Only hopefully we all bugga off by then cos we're all knocked up.
Well snuggly
I guess the clock tower is as good a place as any to get the timing right !
hope you have a really good time and let us all know if you manage to get your and hopefully a nice BFP just intime for christmas Goodnight !
Craftmummy congrats on all the progress for the house, what an exciting time for you, good luck for an +OPK soon
Welcome Royln, I hope we can provide you with the support and assistance you need. Take care of yourself and know that we are here for you:
Emmy83, fingers crossed for this month
Snygglybean, hope you have a great time with your family and find some quiet time for yourselves
Ferrals I am so sorry to read about the biopsy. I am hopeful it will happened the natural way for you really soon.
Murraycod good luck for Thursday, thanks for saying hi to everyone, very sweet
Thanks to everyone for the well wishes re my resignation. My boss was very surprised and tried to talk me out of resigning, however once I said my heart wasn’t in it he accepted it with regret.
Also, sorry for my rant yesterday. I have had a strange couple of days; very light brown and pink spotting sat and sun, a little this morning.
I need to go to the toilet all the time. I still remain cynical; I do not think it is my month. I think it is DPO 11 or 12 today, so I am holding out till tomorrow to test again (on Sat), unless offcourse AF beats me to it.
have a great day everyone, cause you all deserve it
Sorry to hear that Horebeastess, I hope you get your answeres next month, and get that H+H pregnancy you are after X
Snugglybean clocktower seems to me like the coolest idea!!!!!!! Dare You!!!!
And just to completely embarrass myself, when I conceived the first time in Jan this year, DH and I worked out it was when we were skinnydipping down the river at 3am in the morning......ok so it was hot.............TMI I know, who's up for a swim!!
Craftymummy I think a new home is a very exciting venture! (help take your mind off things) actually when DH and I did our bathroom last year, I almost committed myself in the psych ward over choosing tiles................good luck
Greencake......hmmmmm.....if you don't have full flow by the end of the working week I'd be getting a BT just to make sure. Those evil sticks make TTC more of a cat and mouse game, even when they say NEG I won't beleive it and say it's faulty!
In saying that, If I had a Stick in my house, it would be a used one
This is the first month in about one year that I have not had any urge to buy a PeeStick and use it, only being that I know waste of time. DH said to me, what if you don't get your AF??? I just replied, after all these years (apart from that once anyway) after the 3 IUI's and all of the natropath and accupuncture treatments, why this month??? Impossible.
Oh and Crafty, no hair of the dog for me sweetheart, that was well and truly my last hooraa, (my tounge felt like I had dog hair on it though yesterday if that counts!)
morning everyone,Ferrals-sorry to hear your news...Milly-hope you don't have to worry about ivf costs...ronlyn-sorry you needed to find out about this thread...Emmy-good luck with this cycle...Sammy-hope all is going well...Mummy of4-how are you?..Murraycod-good luck for thursday?it be cool though if ivf wasn't needed and this cycle was the one...Craftymummy-as long as that new house has room for a nursery...Greencake-good luck tomorrow,i think your still in with a chance...snuuglebean-what an adventure your going to have...hosebeastess-sorry for your losses,hope your specialist can put you on the road to some answers and another bfp real soon...afm-testing this afternoon again for 'o',last time 2nd line was there but still feint,having some 'o' pains so i think it's coming,i think dh will have to watch out tonight..
Hi all Ladies
Ronlyn - Welcome to BB Forum, Sorry to hear about your losses . We all are here becoz
of our losses and supporting each other while preparing for next one. Everyone
here is nice and friendly and knows excatly how one feels in such a delicate
time.
Hosebeastess - Sorry to hear about your loss as well. how are your feeling healthwise? You
will get your answers soon from the specialist. In the meantime, you can
think about what yo want to ask specialist.
MurrayCod - You remembered everyone, and that is indeed a big list of members. and all
the best for injections you have to start from December and lots and lots of
good luck.
Ferrals - Oh Ferrals, I want to Hug you now....That's not fair, Don't be down, Snugglybean
is right and i too believe in that little bit, do some good karma and your karma
will bring you luck and health. Don't loose hope, you will be there. You will be in
my thoughts todays.
Snugglybean - I think staying in a hotel is a good idea, i always feels good whenever we
go out on vacation and stay in a hotel, it is more relaxing and more intimate
and gives more positive energy to indulge in some naughty things....
what do you say? Hope you get some good news in sydney..advance present
from Santa ....All the best hun xoxoxx
Eliselouise - How are you feeling now and your SIL? You must be approaching "O" Day
soon.. all the best with lots of BD and fun and smiles...
Matthews Mum - Howz your OPK sticks going, did you get positive...i think i have trouble
reading them and i always see 2 lines in there, when i used them last
month, i thought i "O"ing....lol....i am just clueless about them.
if you are an expert, shed some light to me as well, as, i dont want to
miss again to become pregoo and really want to use them. Hope you get
+ve and and then +ve again in 2 weeks (that would be awesome for Dec).
I haven't used them this month as last month my AF was the longest one and
i dont know no. of days in my cycle, so i am taking it easy.
Emmy83 - Goodluck in your 2 weeks wait. Hope you get the result you are looking for. so
when are you testing?
ATM - with me, nothing special or exciting...did worked all week last week and it was
too tiring, was leaving early to work and coming late home (7:40 to 6:30). so
relaxed in the weekend, didnt checked net as well, but not alot of work this
week, which is good.
Will hear from everyone again.
take care all...
Hosebestess so sorry you are back with us again you must be devestated and rightly so, Hope you can get some comfort on here from all of us and get some answers soon as to why you MC again ! look after yourself and get some rest !
Ric hi nice to hear from you again, with the opk sticks I have been told to test in the afternoon around 3 to 4pm I have a 28 day cycle and start testing on day 11 and normally get a faint line but the next day the test line is darker than the control line so its a definate surge for me but if your cycles are all over the place then maybe go back and try to get an average cycle length to work out what day to test,
Matthews mum I always wait until my line is darker than the one that tells you the test has completed so fingers crossed yours is darker today and watch out DH !
Murraycod not long now till Thurs will be thinking of you please POAS before you go I have a good feeling miracles do happen ! especially when you think they won't !
Ferrals how you doing ? been thinking of you, I have a son who was born with a genetic condition although he is well now he had a really bad first 2yrs of his life and we had genetic counciling and were told a 1 in 4 chance of it happening again and we have had 4 healthy kids since he was born but I have MC inbetween so I am guessing its natures way for us, Goodluck with trying naturally I think you made the right choice and have faith and you will be ok.
AFM just waiting to opk tomoro but think I will probably o around thurs so just wondering which will be the best day to catch that egg ( if there are any around this month ) Anyone got some good advice as to which days to as don't want to over do it and miss out !
Ferrals - I am so sorry to hear your bad news. You must be emotionally exhausted after all you have been through. I truly hope that you can have a little baby naturally. FIngers crossed for you.
) Every time a buzzer went of I knew it was someone needing a bedpan, I hid all day
this month we need some more bfps on here !
Even if we did, we're flying down to Sydney anyway. BUT my brother lives quit close to the clocktower - I hear that's a good spot for a romp
Thanks!
and hopefully a nice BFP just intime for christmas Goodnight !
on Sat), unless offcourse AF beats me to it.
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