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Hey ladies just a little hint if you do long posts sometimes belly belly logs you out so before you submit your post right click over your last word and highlight all your writting then left click to open a box and click on copy so if you lose your post you can just log back in hit reply and press the ctrl button and V button at the same time then all your writting will reappear my hubby showed me that cause i take forever to post i get interupted all the time and have to come back to it and then i am logged out it is a pain to have to rewrite it.
SPF-five days and counting if AF is on time.
Murrycod-hang in there not long now and i pray you dont have to do ivf it is very stressfull all the waiting and uncertainty and everything has to perfect or they cancel it on you and you cant do back to back cycles and then the numbers game of how high or low hormones are how many follicles you have how many eggs you have than how many are mature then how many fertilise to how many make it to day 5 blast to be transfered it is a horrible process but one that we pit ourselves through to have our babies.
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sorry ferrals i think you have to highlight the words using left click, then right click over the words to click copy (think you just did a little typo). why does that sound so much harder to type it than it is to do it?!? i always do it as my computer sometimes shows error messages then closes windows for no reason. i would also add maybe you could then copy something else after posting just in case some sneaky person might control v to see what you have been typing.... or maybe i am being over cautious there lol
murraycod, hang in there!!! i really hope it's your month!
snugglybean i did think the bleeding was going to stop 6 days post op then it came back but today it's very light. hope it's coming to the end of it now :crossfingers:
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Evening everyone,Scarypinkfairy-hope the bleeding has stopped,i'm testing on Thursday,thanks for asking...Ferrals-you're doing so much to help yourself,good on you...Twinsister-Good luck ...Murraycod-fingers still crossed for you,there is still a chance.I'm testing on Thursday with you,so lets bring in a daily double ,if anyone else is testing on the 5th,we could always go for a trifecta for the day...Craftymummy-how are you?
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Thanks for all your advise re the making an appointment with a FS even know we don't know if/when we will need it.
Scarypinkfairy I am having a lap and dye and hysterscope and investigation for secondary infertility and a good look around as I have alot of Left sided pain which is the side my only tube lives. Ive been so worried about hydrosalphinx (?spelling) and wondering if that is what cause my ectopic pregnancy and m/c before the ectopic.
I am praying not as if it is Ill have to have my tube removed and that will leave me with none :cry:
Hello to everyone. Just a quickie for me. Ive been camping and Im filthy and need a wash and a decent sleep in my own bed.
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Oh, man, the pregnancy convention continues. MIL was on the phone today, "oh, guess what,love? Cousin X is expecting on May 10." This cousin and I used to talk abotu whose turn it was next, we both agreed it would be me, she wasn't ready. Only it's not. And she's due on the day I got my BFP. ****.
Apart from that, I have had such a beautiful weekend. Spent with good friends, perfect balance between being active and relaxing, plenty of good wine too! I helped at a cake stall for Breast Cancer Foundation and got a cool new shirt as a thankyou. :)
SPF - it's a tricky thing to worry about, isn't it? Whether or not to see someone, I know I was thinking "if it hasn't stopped tomorrow..." for quite a few days!
murraycod - could still go either way, mate! Jan 9th is my official all-clear date, but as you know we're being a little cheeky about that one! I am pretty fit, but it's cause I used to be fat. I have lost 23kg since my heaviest, and I have to work pretty hard just to be a sie 12. Sucks. But I do it - I don't do any activity that I don't love!
So, another week begins! Hope it's good for you all...
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Evening Ladies well I guess its morning already for some of you !
Murraycod hang in there it can feel like your going to start AF when your little one burrows in for the long haul so I think you will be ok and itchy boobs is a good sign one of my strongest symptoms has been a horrible taste in my mouth even after brushing your teeth tastes a bit like a metal spoon is constantly in your mouth. so keep proding those boobies and stay off the loo I told you how hard it will be these 2 weeks are nearly over then you will know ! :D
Matthews mum got my :crossfingers: for you too and bookworm ! we need some BFPs in here its getting a bit scary now all of us TTC and no BFPs like someone said the other day feels like the lotto and I didn't buy my ticket !
spfairy hang in there mine lasted on and off for weeks as you know mostly brown watery and pinky rather than bright red so see how you go its still eary days really and it takes a while to sort your system out again as you know mine took ages but seems ok now 9 wks later !
AFM had the most dreadful headache for 4 days now dizzyness and blurry vision and feeling sick so don't know whats goin on maybe the VITEX doesn't agree with me or maybe its just me not sure but feel a bit sorry for myself , due to start using those opk
sticks soon just wish this damn headache would give me a break never had migraines before but think this is one long one !
goodnight all im off to my bed ! roll on 5th of nov lets see some BFPS
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SPF- yes it is right click to highlight the words then i left click on them to copy glad you picked up my typo thanks.
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Craftymummy - sorry to hear you are headachy and dizzy. I hope you feel better soon. I've been feeling a bit dizzy and nauseous the last few days too. I will keep you company in the "feeling sorry for yourself" department.
Snugglybean - Ugh, I hear you on the pregnancy convention. I'm up to 6 friends PG and 2 maybes. I think they are all attending the same convention Where are our invites already? Glad you still had a nice week-end.
Emmy - i really hope your hysterscope goes well!
Matthew's Mum & Murraycod - I won't be testing until the 8th or 9th but I'll keep you both in my thoughts on Thursday.
Ferrals - Good reminder. Sometimes I do copy my posts before I submit them but this time I forgot. Oh well, I guess i won't forget again any time soon.
SPF - hope it stops soon!!
Had a really nice Halloween with DS (two kids Halloween parties, a birthday party, and trick-or-treating for the first time). It was a great week-end and then I had a really rough morning today. Almost all of my friends here are pregnant now, but my closest friend wasn't ready to start trying yet so I kept thinking to myself "well at least X isn't pregnant yet, we can be not-pregnant together". So today she told me (apologetically) that she too is now pregnant. Her DH and her decided to start trying since it might take awhile and they got PG the first shot. She was very tactful about telling me and even apologized (I told her not to be sorry, I was happy for her) but I still felt like I had been kicked in the stomach. I came home and cried my eyes out. So unfair!!
I have a whole week to wait to test. Please stay away AF! Please Please Please
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Twin Sister I am glad your friend was tactful when telling you she was pregnant and acknowledged that you would be hurt by her announcement. I know it wouldn't make it easier as any pregnancy announcement seems like a kick in the guts but clearly she cares about your feelings which is such good qualities to have in friends. I am :pray: for you that your AF doesn't arrive and you join all your pregnant friends in been pregnant again. And just think you will have the youngest cutest one lol My friend told me and didn't even care to think how it would make me feel. She wasn't tactful at all and all she does is talk about her pregnancy. She is a midwife and should know better if you ask me and then another failed to tell me and I heard about it on facebook. I already knew but was so hurt she didn't tell me herself. Of course I am happy for them both but wished both had cared more for my feelings then they did. Now I don't want to see them as it brings tears to my eyes everytime I hate hearing about their pregnancies as I keep think well I would be so many weeks etc. Sorry for the vent.
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It's true, I am lucky to have such a good friend. She knows how long we've been trying and that we had a m/c and she felt really bad telling me she was PG and knew I would be upset (especially over that fact that i am struggling to get PG and she fell PG so easily). It did make it a lot easier to hear. I actually felt bad when she apologized and I told her that even though I was totally envious I was really happy for her and not to worry about me.
Ha ha your comment about me having the youngest and cutest baby out of my friends made me smile, thanks. That's a great way to look at it.
I'm sorry to hear that your friend wasn't as tactful. I had someone do that to me too and it feels horrible! I also had someone not tell me and I found out on Facebook so I sympathize with that as well. People who haven't been where we are just don't get it. Feel free to vent anytime, we all understand.
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Hey cherished1, I don't know if you remember me, but you told me about this group when I left our belly buddy thread and I joined but haven't postd/lurked in months. Just wanted to share a success story, I am now nearly 8 weeks. Not smooth sailing, but not immediate threat either (spotting, but no reason for it, fingers crossed it's just "Normal" spotting :{ ). Anyway, hope you and everyone here are getting your bfps soon, and I hope this post serves to help you all with hope.
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Good afternoon Ladies,
Just popping in to wish everyone testing soon lots of :pink-babydust:
Hanging out to see all the BFPs that are going to roll in soon!!
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Evening all,
Hosebeastess thankyou for popping in and sharing you BFP. It is quite comforting to see success stories and see that it will too happen for all of us, some may just take a little longer than others :stickyvibesgirl:
Emmy & Twinsis im sure you will both get your BFP's really soon and you will both be able to join your friends in the pregnancy convention :bluedust: to you both
Craftmummy hope you are starting to feel a little better, migraines are the worse i get them quite often and they are horrible. Hopefully you can get some strong positives on your OPK sticks and have a BFP to announce really soon :crossfingers:
Snugbug glad to hear that you had a great weekend (other than finding out your cousin is expecting). 23 kgs that is awesome work, the hardest part is definately keeping it off though. I lost 10 kgs just before i fell pg last time and i have now put 9 kg back on and im feeling like crap. Ive started my diet again today and im hoping to lose about 5kgs in the next 4 weeks just in time for my sisters wedding.
Matthewsmum good luck with testing on thursday im keeping everything crossed for you, i think a trifecta would be great especially at the moment with the racing carnival and all :lol:
Ferals & SPF i too always copy my big posts before submitting them coz ive been caught out a couple of times with losing the post and its so frustrating, hope you are both doing well :D
murraycod hope your cramping was just your little one getting settled in for the long haul. Hopefully AF stays away for you and you too can get a BFP this month :crossfingers:
AFM had a complete meltdown earlier. My mum rang to talk to me about my sisters hens party this weekend and i just lost it, i couldnt hold back the tears and she picked up on it and asked if i was ok which made it all that much worse. I went and stayed with db last night and we had agreat night. Had a few drinks at the pub and played ten pin bowling and golf on the wii and then cuddled all night. i didnt want to come home this morning but had to come home for work. I thought it would make things easier having spent some time with him but it just made things 100% worse and now im missing him like crazy. Also blurted out to mum in my blubbering mess that i just want to be pg and that its all just hitting me really hard now. I thought i was coping ok with it all but obviously not as well as i thought. Now just looking forward to the weekend and hopefully db will be home but if hes not im going to spend 2 nights with him again.
Anyway ive started my weight loss journey today, hoping to lose around 5kgs in the next 4 weeks, just in time for my sis's wedding. Hopefully i can keep going with it too and have dropped 10 by xmas. Big ask i know but im going to try really really hard.
Thanks for listening ladies it helps to get it off my chest, talk soon
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Twin sister-We need someone to start our BFP run and i also had a bad morning today when a work friend (number 9) txt me out of the blue to tell me she was 19 weeks 4 days pregnant and having her morphology scan this week mind you she has no partner and been with numerous men in the last few months she has always wanted a baby and could never keep a steady relationship to have one so i supose she finally trapped some poor one night stand but the worst thing is she diddnt tell me sooner i have seen her a number of times and spoken about Abbi and our ivf ect and she gave no hint and now today at 19 weeks she decides to tell me i lost abbi at 19 weeks 5days WTF!!
Hi Maddison.
Eliselouise-good luck with the weight loss i have to lose 2kg and i am struggl with just 2 i ring my mum often and break down in tears i tell her i just want my girl back i want my life back i have a good cry then pick myself up and just get on with it i hate it and wish i diddnt have to but with my boys i have to keep going like normal for them why does this have to be so hard?
How are you going murrycod i am thinking about you.
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ferrals4 omg how can people do this to you!! people can be so insensitive and to wait till now makes it so much worse!
eliselouise85 mums are good for talking to, though it does seem that i do cry a lot talking to my mum and it doesn't help she is so far away :( this is normally the time of year she would visit but didn't come this year thinking she would come over may next year... but not anymore :( sounds like you had fun with your db, good to take you mind off things.
Emmy83 hope your investigation goes well for you. sounds like it's worth having a look what is going on in there :)
afm, i am glad it's a new month. i feel like the last two months have been so draining. and what is even better, no more bleeding. so i am very excited. just waiting for my af now....lol
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Ferrals :hug: Thank you sweety X I think I'm doing ok....
WTF is right!!!, hey my Xmas list is getting shorter by the day ATM!!! Atleast we can save on stamps together ;)
Oh the joys, gotta love mates like that.
Hey have you seen the thread called "What Youd Love To Say"????????????? Girls you gotta take a look, Snuggly think Iv'e seen you pop in hehehe!
Elise sounds lke you had a lovely night with DB, having a goal to have for your Sis wedding will make things worth working for X
Emmy83 I love camping, hope you had a great time, guessing you loved your shower though.
Craftymummy hope youre resting up, and hope your head is starting to feel better X
Matthew'sMum I'l be testing on Wednesday B/C I gotta work on Thurs. I usually have AF day before BT is due, so already knew what the last 2 phonecalls were going to be, prob esier though, better than geting sad news over the phone whilst out shopping or something.
Snugglybean 23kg is a huge effort well achieved! Well done!
OOOh Wine!!!............tell you what I'll either be getting stuck into it Wednesday night or not!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TwinSis, ScaryPF hi girls, sorry so vague tonight, not many persies XX Hi to everyone I did miss XXXX
HI MADDISON!! Hope you are feeling great, and all is healthy XXX
AFM, well not much, a bit of a lull, dunno what I feel,....lost? Scared S@#%LESS.
Pretty much at the end of my IUI journey and seriously, am just numb. For the first time I have no idea what the next 2 days is going to bring, I'm sure hundreds of up's and down's, I don't feel enough hope to be excited, but don't think it's over yet either, so I'm just gunna sit on the fence and see which way I fall :pray:
Take care all, thanks girls for the support this month, you have no idea how much you have all helped me get this far X
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Hi girls.. just popping in quickly to see if anyone had tested yet!!!
good luck to all the girls testing in the next couple of days!!!..
we have had a pretty ****ty weekend my 2yr old DD ended up in hospital we still dont know what is wrong with her but she is starting to improve so after24hrs on the drip they let her go home...
just to top it all off though i woke up in a hospital and was greated with AF... i wasnt ready for that i thought i was going to get a BFP but obviously not to be.. oh well today starts a whole new cycle!!!
once i have got DD settled back at home i will be back, have a few questions about OPK's and stuff!!
i hope everyone is doing ok, and i am really sorry for all of you girls that have had yet more pregnancy announcments...
Bobbie
xoxo
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Mummyof4 I hope that your DD is feeling better, and so sorry to hear that evil AF has arrived, I have a feeling she might visit me tomorrow, I can't sleep the cramps are much stronger now :redface:
