Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - October 2009

Ferrals - I love a bit of snot on my shoulder. Cry away. (I work in childcare so totally used to it! Actually, on that, I reckon it's a bit of a sign of a good childcare centre - staff with snotty shoulders. That way you know that they are snuggling kids who are sad, although gross about the snot!)
Vitex pumps up your progesterone levels, which is why a lot of folk take it.

We have had the power out for 4 hours here. Lots of candles, very romantic :)

Hi guys,
i think i am in the wrong spot.. so please send me where i need to be lol
I Lost my little girl 2 weeks ago, i was 18 weeks pregnant. My dr has not really spoken to me about anything and i have some questions about TTC again... do you guys know where i can ask some questions??

Mummyof4 youre in the right spot darling X
There is a thread TTC after Late Loss also so feel free to post in both!!
I'm so so sorry that you lost your little girl, she will forever be looking over you X
I'm sure things are still very raw for you ATM, vent here any time you need, we are all here for you.
I'm sad that you have found youre way here, but glad that you introduced yourself and joined in our beutiful family XX
We are all here with you to share the ups and downs of TTC, good luck with your journey, hope we can be of some help and support XX:hug:

Hello everyone,Ferrals-hope your feeling a little bit better today...Ric-hope your up to ttc real soon...Mummy of 4-Ask away ,there are some very knowledgable women on this site.Hope your ttc journey is short.

Mathew's mum- Thanks for asking i am feeling confident i have a bee in my bonnet and i am determined to get my level's down at least a little i have started my liquid vitex (YUK!!!) and will try to eat estrogen inhibiting food and food that help's eliminate estrogen from the body.

Mummyof4- i am a mummy of 4 too i have 3 boy's and i lost my beautiful daughter 6mth's ago at 19weeks 5days one day shy of 20 weeks due to a genetic fault we now have to do PGD IVF to try to avoid it happening again Abbi was our first child for my DH and i (my boy's are to my ex) i know what you are going through i will tell you with time it doe's get easier and you do still get out of bed every day and life doe's go on but you will think about her every day and remember every little thing about her and that is ok because she is your daughter and will be with you in your heart and memories' forever.

Thanks for your replies ladies!
It has been a very hard 2 weeks here, but you girls all know what that is like. It is nice to not have to explain how i am feeling to some people, cause most people just really dont get it even when you do try to explain.
I havent talked to my Dr about any of this ( i am changing Dr lol) but i havent been told if it is ok for us to TTC again, if we shoulod wait, if i should be taking extra folate ect... i dont even know if we are allowed to ... do "IT" yet lol

Ferals, thanks for your nice words! i have been told by many people that it will get easier... but im not sure if i want it to get easier... i dont think i am ready for that yet.
can i ask wat PGD IVF is?? i have not really had any experience with IVF at all..

Hi Everyone,
Been so busy the last few days didn't have time to post, Got the kids back to school now so can chill a little in the day now. Must say the time is passing quickly now for me as Ive kept busy,
Sorry to hear some of you have to wait even longer until you get your IUI or IVF its a long hard journey, I remember it well as my 2nd was IUI as I had my 1st from a previous relationship, Anyhows my DH was told he had hardly any sperm and the sperm he had was not too good mobility wise, anyway after 4 attempts with IUI with his sperm we gave up and at the time 1990 IVF was still new and out of our price range, anyhow we decided to try IUI with donor sperm and after 2 attempts I was pregnant, Couldn't beleive it and went on to have a healthy baby boy in 1991, Went back to same clinic 3 yrs later to use same donor and found out I had fallen pregnant naturally ! so no need for IUI or donor, anyhow the rest is just a miracle lets say, now have 9 kids the last 7 conceived completely naturally with a DH with suposedly hardly any sperm ! So I guess what IM trying to say is NEVER GIVE UP we don't know whats around the corner and even with all the medical advances now adays YOU CAN NEVER BE SURE !

So if your IUI or IVF gets cancelled for some reason then just :bd: anywasys YOU NEVER KNOW !

AFM Still not sure whats going on with me just brown or watery loss mostly when I wipe but no sign of O so I guess I just wait and wait ! My little OP sticks should be here soon so maybe I will use them just to see whats going on Don't want to miss the chance of O and not knowing !

Murraycod hope you get good news tomoro and Ferrals4, Matthews mum still trucking on and good luck to you and all the other ladies on the TTC journey !

Mummyof4 you are in the right place we know how you feel and we will support you as much as we can, Ask away !

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Mummyof4-it took my a while i was in disbelief shock denial how could this happen to me i get pregnant easy have had 3 boy's then this happened i was devastated and wanted to curl up and die but my DH and boys kept me going i still have my moment's and days but i feel normal again (sort of) the PGD IVF is preimplantion genetic diagnosis we do normal ivf then they test our embryo's for our genetic fault (smith lemli opitz syndrome) hubby and i carry the same faulty gene we have a 1 in 4 chance of every pregnancy being effected or 75% chance of a healthy baby and 25% of an effected baby as Abbi was effected we chose to try pgd ivf but as you can see that isn't going to plan with my stupid hormone's.
DH and i were told every human carries gene fault's and many couple's are lucky and it never causes a problem and then you get the one's like me that find the love of my life and we have the same dodgy gene my DH says we are ment to be together but it kills me to know i can have kids to other people with no problem and we cant have a healthy baby together.
May i ask if the hospital asked if you wanted your baby tested to find out what happened if there was a reason it might help.
After we lost abbi it was like a normal birth i bleed for 5 week's and my milk came in so i expect that you would wait until your body heals and you are emotionly ready before ttc again if i can help answer any other question's please ask away i am here for you.

The kids are the only thing keeping me going at the moment too.. but we are all kind of on auto piolt.. we know things need to be done and then the next thing they are done and you dont really rmeber doing it.. iykwim

We sent Kyarna to the major hospital in Perth for a post mortem we are still waiting on the re****s but the Ob and DR are 99% sure that there was nothing wrong with Kyarna, that my placents came away from the wall and there was a blood clot behind it. So far all the test that have come back from the perinatal path have said that there was nothing geneticaly wrong with Kyarna, she was perfect.. My Dh and i have already got 3 healthy kids together as well so apparently putting that all together they are so sure that it was just the placenta.

I have already stopped bleeding and my milk has come and gone. i wasnt sure if maybe your body physicaly needs a break before you try again or if it is ok as soon as you are emotionaly ready.

I read a little bit of your struggle and i am really sorry that your hormones are playing up. this TTC/ pregnancy thing isnt as easy as most people assume is it..


Good luck to all you other lovlies TTC at the moment!

Ferrals-it sounds like your been busy finding estrogen information,good for you...craftymummy-hope you dont have to wait to much longer for o...Mummy of 4-My doc told me to wait for 1st af to arrive but i think he told me that because of my emotional state.Have you got a follow-up appointment with new doc?Hope your ttc journey is a short one.

ferrals4 ahh so sorry about your hormones. what are our bodies doing to us? :(

ric hope you're feeling better, i've been in bed with migranes. not very nice either. dh has been wonderful to me though lol

~mummyof4~ so sorry for your loss. must have been so hard for you at 18 weeks. was hard enough for me at 12 weeks. i'm still a mess really. just hoping to ttc as soon as i am better, well my body is back in working order more like. people on here are really nice, you can ask anything and people are really knowledgeable. hope you find a good doctor.

craftymummy9 get your opk kits out! hehe i'm lucky or unlucky enough to have pain when i ovulate so at least that is kind of good.

Evening Ladies

Thanks Matthews mum I really hope I O soon or get a proper AF just don't know which it will be, got a damn cold now on top of everything so thats making me feels really sorry for myself !
Scarypinkfairy Hi there so glad you are still around, sorry you've had migraines I had a really stuffy head over the weekend and now its turned into a sore throat and runny nose, guess we still a bit run down after everything that we've been through lately,
The weather makes you feel better though especially when I here the UK is so COLD ha ha so glad I don't have another winter to go through.
Been getting a bit of a pain in my right side but at my age it could be anything !
Murraycod hope tomoro goes well let us know I still think you will be ok !
Mummyof4 the days seem never ending at first but before you know it 6wks will have gone by its amazing the first week after my MC seemed never ending but now its just a distant memory life seems to carry on and we just get back into the usual routine and thats the way it goes but its still hard seeing pregnant women walking around. Someone said on the BB forum about not to be jelous of these pregnant women as we don't know their story, and its so true !
Everyone else take care and KEEP POSITIVE !

Loubee are you still around not heard from you this week yet, hope you are coping ok as its still early days for you and I was in bits on and off for at least 6 wks,

:pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust: To all of us

Mummyof4-it's terrible when a horrilbe thing like a blood clot can end a perfectly healthy pregnancy but it is somthing that is totally out of our hands i am glad you at least have some answers you will know when the time is right to ttc again.

Mathews mum- i am an expert on genetics, smith lemli opitz syndrome,high estrogen levels, pgd ivf,ovarian reserve,fsh levels you name it my head is about to explode.

scarypinkfairy-my body is always good to me that's why i was so upset it has failed me now but i will kick it back into line.

Today is the official due date according to my Ovulation date, for our angel baby. I havent even gotten dressed yet, i just dont want toface the day.

I have mixed feelings about it..making it worse is I am expecting AF now. No bfp this morning and Im pretty sure I AF is coming as I am using the early tests (10mui) and I am 13dpo today, even though FF changed my O date 2 days..

Hope you all have a good day.

Eliza.

Coco - Massive :hug:

Thinking of you !

xoxoxo

Coco - I hope you are able to do something special with your dh today to remember your angel. And know that your angel is watching over you today and sending you lots of strength. You are in my thoughts today. :comfort:

Coco - I've been thinking of you this morning. Yesterday was the day I found out my Angel was gone 1 year ago, so I know the pain you are feeling. lots of big hugs xxx

my thoughts are with you Coco. i hope that you find the strength tho get through the day
Hugs

Coco hun thinking of you girl X
Today was meant to be such a special day, I'm sorry things are the way they are right now, I can only hope that we can all help you get through this.
Special big hugs sweetheart X:hug:

Craftymummy thanks for asking about me, I hope AF dissapears real soon and you find luck with the OPK's X

My scan didn't go very well. I have had such bad stabbing and cramping from my right groin area for a couple days now, very low backpain and woke with eggwhite discharge (a lot of) 'downstairs'.
During the scan we could only find the 2 ,13mm eggies on the left and none on the right, so I have had to have a BT to see if I have spontaneously ovulated the 3 immature eggs on the right.
I won't find out untill tomorrow afternoon, so I have to keep injecting with Puregon incase I haven't ovulated already.
If I haven't ovulated by some sort of freak miracle, I have anoth stupid scan on Tuesday.

What makes all of this worse, I had an argument with DH last night, and he said that he didn't care if the cycle was cancelled anymore out of spite.
I didn't even know if I shouldv gone through with the scan today but I did, he doesn't know, because he hasn't spoken or looked at me since.

Sorry I have not helped in picking up the mood in here today.

And Coco i feel selfish having a whinge, I'm sorry.

Hi Ladies

Coco sorry today is not good for you its so hard when due day arrives you have to greive ! and then try to put it behind you and look forward to a BFP which could be on the horizon you never know, My due day is my DD 15th birthday so I will not be able to forget that its March next year and I just hope I have a BFP before then, If not I will just have to get through the day as you will today,:hug:

Murraycod sorry your scan was not as you wanted, its so disheartening when it doesn't turn out the way you want, sorry you and DH had an argument but its a lot of pressure for both of you and the men feel a bit left out when we are so busy with cycles takes the pleasure out of making babies i'm afraid, try to be patient he wants this as much as you do and probably feels a bit useless as my DH did when I was going through a similar thing many years ago, Send him a txt and tell him how much you love him should do the trick,
Everyone else Have a good day the sun is shining and the sky is blue here in Perth and thats got to make you feel better !

:)

Yay for Perth!! how hot is it today??!!! Thanks for thinking of me Crafty....I hadn't been on for a while as we have had yet more bad stuff to deal with...On Sunday just gone, my DH had the phone call from Germany to say that his sister had finally lost her 10 year battle with brain cancer. Needless to say, he is devastated...less than 2 weeks after our loss.

Luckily, I am doing pretty well, the bleeding has stopped and I am back in my size 10 jeans (yay!!) but it's still been a really rough time. All our friends keep telling us to buy a lotto ticket!! Our luck just has to change soon....:crossfingers:

Hi to everyone, sorry that it has been an about me post...

thinking of you today coco. take care.

Coco, hunny, :hug: It's a big day. Hope you have made it through OK.

MuzzieCods - fingers crossed for this cycle coming good. Nice to hear about someone else's bejayjay for a change :lol:

Loubee - don't fret about your "me" post. With your loss being so raw, it's really good to see you being so positive. Hope you're doing well. You sound pretty strong.

Nothing to report here! AF still not showing up, but must be close. Watch this space for the latest from Channel SVN (Snuggly's Vagina News)

Coco :hug: :grouphug:
I know I never post in here as I haven't being ttc but just wanted you to know Coco that I am thinking of you and shed some tears for all of us who have lost our angels.

coco1411 hope you got through the day, my thoughts are with you. Must be hard for you.

murraycod don't worry about whinging on here. At least we can listen and sympathise, probably the best place to be. At least you know someone is listening :) hope your eggs do what they are supposed to be doing!

Loubee, how much bad news can you guys get?! Hope you and your DH are coping alright.

Afm, I have another scan tomorrow, 3 weeks now since I took the tablets and non-stop bleeding :( I am so over it. I have to go in fasting to be prepared to have the d&c. I think I am ready for it now, just want to put this behind me so I can look to the future.

Coco-hope you made it through the day yesterday with not to many tear's i was thinking of you.

murrycod-i hope you get better new's on tue and sorry you and DH had an argument the stess ttc bring's on a couple is huge i try and make sure to put us first and if i see DH is getting upset i change the subject we make time for us (dinner window shopping walk's) were we talk about anything except ttc and babie's it is hard i know but our relationship is to important because when we feel like baby making machine's and lose the intimacy the sex become's a sceduled chore and so we need to remind ourselve's what sex and being a couple in love is like before ttc .

Loubee-sorry about your SIL and yah! for size 10 jean's.

Snugglybean-:ROFL: Chanel SVN

SPF-3 week's of bleeding you poor thing i hope it stop's so you don't need a d&c.

AFM-i'm on my liquid vitex (yuk!!!) and on mostly organic no hormome food and i'm avoidind food's high in natural estrogen (very boring) so basicly i'm eating like a bird and i'm starving.

morning everyone,Coco-hope your feeling a bit better today,my af turned up a day after my edd...craftymummy- hope your cold symptoms have left the building,you'll need all your energy for bd'ing.I've needed to bd while having the flu and it wasn't as much fun...Murraycod-sorry this cycle isn't going as well as it could be,fingers still crossed for you.Hope you &dh have made up,people say things they don't mean when their angry,still hurts though.It's been such a long time for you guys with a devasting loss just this year so that has to put strain on the best of marriages.Hope things go well with the results today ...Loubee-sorry for the loss of your sister-in-law,sounds like she put up a good fight...scarypinkfairy-you must be exhausted from all that bleeding,hope things get sorted for you today...

Hey ladies

thanks for the well wishes. I was ok considering!

AF turned up today, the same as you Matthews mum the day after the due date.

DH and I are going to be hanging out tomorrow night and going on a date old school style :)

Thanks again everyone xx

My gorgeouse girlie girls XXXX

SnugglyBean this would be the second time this week you have had me LMAO out loud !!
:ROFL:
Thank you for making me laugh babes you are truly the best! X
PS: Iv'e tuned in ;)
I hope I can return the favour when you need it one day hun.

Matthew'sMum you always have kind words to say everytime you post, you are lovely, AFM is "As For Me", use it luv! We would love to hear how your going and what your up too X Your just as important babes XXX I love that your so kind to everyone, I have read posts in other threads that you have written and I think you have a heart of gold :hug:

Ferrals things we have to do hey!... How long for, do you have to take the Lqd Vitex? What does it actually do? Thank you for the advice you shared, it makes complete sense to me, I need to enjoy our "normal" intrests too, we seem to have forgotten about those, this Fertility Treatment seems to consume you and the rest of your life goes on hold, well not as of tomorrow, thank you so much XXXX
I hope you are holding out ok, this waiting thing sucks big time, you have been so patient X

SPF how did you go today? I pray that your bleeding will just stop already! Going what you have gone through is hard enough, but to be still reminded, everytime you wake up to the bleeding is just cruel. I hope things got sorted today once and for all, so you can start fresh X

Loubee so sorry to read about your SIL, I hope that you and DH are coping ok.
Freezing MAO in Victoria these past few days, send some sun our way! X
Take care hun X

CraftyMummy thank you X I really do apreciate all of the kind support you girls have shown me this past week.

Coco, :hug:

Well I got the results of BT thisavo, seems that I have not ovulated............dunno how not.............. the pains and aches I got on my R side groin were awfull, and I dunno where the 3 eggies packed up and took off to on my R ovary, cuz they not there now!
2 eggies have stuck around for the long haul on my L side, still only 13mm so they haven't grown even a millimeter since Tues, dunno what's goin on there either!
So you could say I'm at witts end and completely clueless!
So Puregon 50iu injection every evening still untill Tues, get to have another Delightfull scan done to see once again whats happening.........
I wonder how far into your cycle you can get before it is seriously too late for an IUI, cuz I recon I'm pushing the envelope on this one!

So still in the game.............atleast for today ;)

Thanks again to everyone for the kind words and support, you girls are delightful, DH and I are back to love'n again thank god, I hate arguments.

Hello to everyone I missed tonight X
Have a great weekend XXXXX

hey everyone :)

murraycod i must say you are a brave person. so many injections. do you have to do them yourself? come on eggies, do what you are supposed to!!!

coco that sounds wonerderful you and df going on dates again. i went and and had coffee and cake with my dh today. it just felt special somehow :)

so, i had my ultrasound today and after all that bleeding none of the retained products have actually come out so i'm booked in for d&c on monday. i am looking forward to it in a weird way, as after this i will be counting down the days till i can ttc again after this. just hope it all goes well :crossfingers:

I'm glad that things are going to work out SPF XX After monday, FRESH START:dance: And no more bleeding! Yay.
Good Luck for Monday babes, will be thinking of you :hug:

DH doesn't mind giving me the Puregon inj cuz we just have to dial it up in a Pen (just like a diabetes insulin pen) so to him it doesn't look like a needle, but he wont go near the Pregnyl.........that is an actual syringe that has to be drawn up, I get one of my friends to do that one. (She a nurse too)

Hey Ladies!
I hope everyone is doing ok today~
i went to visit the Dr and was given the offical aqll clear to TTC again..
I didnt realise how hard it would be to put it into practice tho. Dh and and i decided that we would BD last night and i justcouldnt even do it, i layed there and cried adn i cant even tell you why... i think it was just the thought of actually TTC even tho that wasnt exactly what we were doing... oh i dont know... anyone else have trouble at first?? i really want to have another baby but i just cant seem to do it... any hints??

Murrycod-The vitex is a natural hormone balancer i was on it when i was trying to get pregnant with abbi as i am not a spring chicken anymore and it worked i fell pregnant but as you know the genetic problem has changed everything and with the ivf they said to stop taking it and now my hormones are out of whack i am wondering if it is because i stopped it or that i'm getting older as my FSH level was ok but the FS said high estrogen can push down the FSH level so i am now worried that my true FSH is going to be higher which as women get older is an indicator of a diminishing ovarian reserve but i was pregnant not to long ago so i hope that is not the case anyway i will take it until i have my next BT and see if it has made a difference but i think i have a natural high estrogen level so if that's the case i wont be a good candidate for IVF and will have to go back to trying natural which scare's the hell out of me i don't want to risk another baby with SLO it was tramatic but i am trying to stay calm and eat organic s##t avoid fizzy drink's (MY FAVORITE)because the sodium can increase estrogen so if it don't frikken work i won't be happy enough of me good luck to you i hope it work's this month and i'm happy i could help you to remember you and your DH have to come first and somtime's you need a little reminder of what's important the love of our live's right in front of us.

Hello to all the other ladie's sorry to do just a murrycod reply i hope you are all having a great weekend.

Hi there Ladies
Hope you have a good weekend and all relax and enjoy some quality together time and lots of :bd: must say Im getting a bit stressed now as no sign of a full AF and no sign of O either no mucus no nothing just brown discharge when I wipe and I am so P>>>>d off now all this effort for nothing it seems.
Was reading the last post by ferrals4 to murraycod and was very interested to read about the vitex Do you think this will help me ? I am 44 so no spring chicken but I have had a baby 15mnths ago and I fell pregnant in June this year which sadly I MC in Sept, but as my body don't seem to know what its doing at the moment its been nearly 7 weeks now since my D&C, I wonder if it needs a little help with hormone balancing ? I am taking a Natures own conception support pre-pregnancy supplement and have been for the last 3 wks it has folic acid and other stuff in Ive never heard of but no VITEX so tell me ladies what do you think ?

mummyof4 you need more time, its hard for all of us TTC after a MC but yours was a bit too soon and I think with time you will know when its right to BD again and enjoy it.

Well thanks for listening !

Craftmummy-google everything you can on vitex i have read everything and i know a lot of women having fertility issue's who swear by it the liquid is better then the tablets and with older mum's it help's by keeping the dreaded FSH hormone down it promote's ovulation it taste's like S##T!!! and my best friend went to a natrupath after 18mth's ttc and one m/c he put her on vitex and 2mths later she got preg and is due tomorrow so i say what do you have to lose it can't hurt other than your taste bud's.

Hi all,Coco-Have a great date with hubby,how exciting...Scarypinkfairy-I've heard the d&c is a very common & small procedure,I'm sorry you haven't been able to avoid like you wanted but you've done all you can.Keep thinking that after Monday you'll be so much closer to conceiving again...Mummy of 4-I remember the first few times,dtd after my loss& there were lots of tears, that part got better for me in time.I found trying to keep in my mind that i wanted to be pregnant again helped me but i was still upset because i still wanted to be pregnant,should of still been pregnant with the baby i lost.You are going through such a devastating time ,hope you're getting lots of supportive cuddles from dh,sometimes,I know it is hard with 3 other children in the family,those cuddles can naturally lead to more intimate moments with hubby...Ferrals-Keep up the good work.i'm going to talk to my FS about 'vitex',see if it might help with my issues...Craftymummy-I wouldn't think it could hurt.I'm only asking my doc because he has already put me on clomid,metformin &baby asprin...Murraycod-last but never least,thank you for your kind words,sounds like your in a really good head space,hope your having a great start to the weekend,here's hoping for Tuesday...afm-FS has put me on 5th round of clomid 100mg,put me on a different bding schedule,if not successful he going to up my clomid to 150mg for the 6th round,if still not UTD he has said he'll check to see if my tubes maybe blocked.

Mathewsmum-just remember some FS are more into science mine said vitex is great for natural TTC but when going through ivf she said it can interfear with BT so recomended i stop taking it and look what happened to me so my acupuncturist said to go back on it so i am like i said to craftmummy google it do your research and ask your FS if your ttc naturally it should be fine.

Hello to everyone, i am officially back, got back from magnetic island yesterday and had a ball. I think it has done me the world of good, it really took my mind of TTC and has put me in a better frame of mind and am alot more relaxed now. Have decided to stop stressing as much and just let it all happen. I think i ovulated while i was on holidays but couldnt be 100% sure. When i got home yesterday i hadnt seen db for 3 weeks so needless to say there was plenty of BDing happening :lol: I think AF is possibly due in the next 3 or 4 days so ill just wait and see what happens, but im pretty sure she'll show up, which im completely fine about this time.
Hello to all the new ladies that have joined this incredible bunch of women, you have definately come to the right place for all the support you need.
So anyway no persies for me at the moment as ive missed so much and have just spent the last half hour reading over all the posts.
Good luck to anyone who is testing soon and :pink-babydust: to everyone else.
Talk soon

eliselouise sounds like you had a good break. glad you are feeling refreshed and ready to start ttc again :)

just after a bit of advice here today. i have my d&c booked in for tomorrow but now the bleeding has stopped. just think that the rest of the retained products might come out in my next af, rather than having the d&c tomorrow. i am so confused about it all. i will have been 3 weeks 5 days tomorrow since i had my missed m/c induced by misoprostol. any thoughts?

Hi Ladies
I'm a newbie to this site but after reading your stories I thought I would share mine aswell.
I'm 29, Married to my sweetheart of 10 yrs, Mother to our beautiful little girl Emma (4) and have been trying to concieve our 2nd child for 20 months now with no luck.
In 2003 I has a m/c, thought I was 14 weeks but after some bleeding had an o/s and had actuallt lost baby at 7 weeks, had d/c same day, had 2 periods than fell again straight away which ended up being an eptopic pregnancy.
This was horrible, we were so happy that we had fallen again so quickly after our lose, than only 4 days after finding out I was pregnant again I had really bad pain on my left side followed by bleeding the next day, had o/s which show that the baby was in my left fallopian tube. I needed to have surgery straight away and left tube was quite damaged so they had to remove it.
After this we decided to wait a while before we tried again.We waited for around 6 months than decided to try again but with only 1 working F tube we knew that it would not happen as quickly as before. We trying for around 6 months than were sent to a fertility specialist but 4 days before my app I found out that I was pregnant again ( was 8 months after we started trying).
We were so happy but so anxious at the same time, I just kept thinking that something was going to go wrong again, but thankfully this pregnancy resulted in daughter Emma.
In March 2008 when Emma was 2 1/2 we started trying for baby number 2 and are still trying now.It has been a rough ride.
After 12 months of trying with no success we were sent to fertility doc and I underwent a laparoscopy and hysteroscopy which show up that there was nothing wrong, hubbies sperm count is fine, so now we are at the next step which is a fertility drug clomid.
I start taking the pills in about a week or so on the 5th day of my cycle. We are going to try this untill feb or march 2010 and if we still have no luck the next step is IVF. But hopefully the pills will do there job and we will be pregnant again in the next few months.
Well now u know a little bit about me I am looking forward to getting to know u guys and sharing all of our up and downs.
Thanks for listening
xoxoxoxo
Debbie