Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss October 2010

Forshelby.....thanks! yeah i have been searching the net and they say unless its implanted..(which i dont think so as i think i might have o'd monday/tuesday) then its most likely something else....so i guess we will just have to wait and see...

God the 2ww sucks :boohoo:

Clairesmummy...could it be anything to do with you're ear? or you're hormones?

Mum2romone.......its real tricky with those test. I found the ebay cheap ones have actually been ok, but i have been testing twice a day so i dont miss the surge.....in a "normal" pattern if you could call it that....it will start of nothing or light, then work its way up to dark then back down again................keep all you're tests in a row so you can see...................if you have drank to much apparently the test come out weaker..same as you're not supposed to use early morning urine either because it can come out positive. Were are you at with you're cycle? you havent had a period yet from you're d&c have you?

Apparently some people will always get a faint line on the test, as you always have some amount of the hormone in you're system thats why they say that you only read a positive as dark or darker than the control line....they say anything else disregard.......if it were me i would keep testing everyday because you dont know were you're cycle is at or when you're going to o...things can be a bit shakey after a d&c........Good luck..i hope you get a line soon

atm......well i cant wait to go home, im so tired i cant keep my eyes open or concentrate...got all these symptoms which i think my body is maybe playing tricks with me....or my mind is anyways lol...........hubby wants to try one last time tonight...LOL...then we will have a rest coz were tired!!!!!!!!!

I half feel positive and am thinking yep i think this is it, this is the time, the one....but then i get scared and dont wanna get my hopes up...feels different this time...or maybe its because i think i have o'd...who knows only time will tell...

Well have a good weekend everyone..ill try and get on..but hate using my phone its so annoying....

Thinking of you all

Thinking of you Joeve and loops...i hope you're both ok

Melster- My ear's all good now all cleared up and not to sure about either of them making me feel so hungry though.......I really have no idea at all. Whatever will be will be no use in me stressing over things I have no control over what so ever. I will find out one way or the other one day soon. I have begun the count down to see my gynae can't wait for that to happen. One way or the other there will be either AF natural or drug induced or a BFP, which ever occurs first I guess will win this cycle....lol
Can yahs tell I'm over the stress of it all if this cycle has taught me anything at all it's that I really don't have any power what so ever over what will be will be. So here's to sitting back and enjoying the ride so to speak.......

sorry ladies I'm confused again ;)

When would implantation occur? If I ovulateD oct 25/26/27 would it still be worth it to keep " trying"

Thanks for the lovely thoughts and condolences everyone, really appreciate it. xoxo

Joeve ~ terribly sorry hun that AF arrived, hope you get that miracle very soon.

AFM ~ I have BT tomorrow just to make certain its a BFN, even though I have no doubt in my mind it will be neg. But the specialist makes us get one. After that I dont think I'll be on BB as much for a while. We are also getting very busy at work which is when I had been getting on.
I will float around however and check to see how everyone is going. Ill be thinking of you all and wish you every success.
Will be sending out lots of:stickyvibesgirl::bluedust:

mumtoromone.....implantation normally occurs 6 to 12 days after ovulation if the sperm meets eggie and implantants for pregnancy.....since u dont know if u have o'd id keep trying

thanks Melster I will ;) lol

How's everyone else doing? :)

Clairesmummy - That all sounds really good... I'll be stalking. :)

Mum2Romone - It sounds like you may have o'd already. The surge can be quite quick, and missing a day of testing doesn't exactly make it easier for you. If you o'ed on 25/10 unfortunately it's too late to keep trying. You only have a window of 12-24hrs after ovulation to catch the egg, it dies very quickly. The best way to maximise your chances is to BD before you O (which is where the opks come in really handy.. start when you get the faint test lines showing up, or about a week before you O if you know roughly when that should be.) Basically the sperm can survive for up to 5 days waiting for the egg, but the egg just has such a short 'shelf life'. So, you could very well be pg already. If O occured on 25/10 implantation could happen anywhere between 01/11 and 04/11 roughly. I hope all of my rambling made sense of it all. Do you temp? It might be a good idea to start if you don't so you can kind of 'cross check' your OPKs, and figure out if you did indeed O. (3 days in a row of a temp rise indicates O has taken place in hindsight). Good luck!!!!

Loops - Oh hun, I hope to see you back soon, I'm going to send you BFP vibes until I see you again. All this hard work will pay off, and you WILL take a baby home. I just wish it didn't have to be such a struggle for you. You're such a trooper, I'm so inspired by your efforts. Take care until we see you again. xoxoxo

Melster - I know how hard the 'am i, aren't i' thing can be. But you know what, it won't last forever, one of these times you'll be pg! :)

forshelby.....it drives me insane....i hate the am i.....arent i...im still peeing all the time....but this morning i had to walk out of gym because i felt so tired in my body and felt dizzy and a bit sick and i had to stop.............so maybe im either pregnant or coming down with some thing......

Loops~ We will all be sorry to not see you in here for awhile darl, it will be good for you to have some you time hun. Let your hair down and have some fun darl you deserve it. You are an amazing woman as Forshelby said and I will be thinking of you and saying gday to you on facebook darl. Take care and hope to hear from you from time to time darl. Sending you some massive :hug:
Forshelby~ I'm glad you think it all sounds really good hun as I have no god dang idea.....lol.....they say ignorance is bliss.....;) So maybe I should just keep being ignorant to it all I might have better results........lol....Meant to say to you the other day as well WOOHOO for your half way mark darl. Love the cantelope.......rockmelon........with ice cream....yum.....maybe it reading your ticker that keeps making me hungry....lol.....just kidding darl.
AFM~ Today I am 8DPO and are you ready for this bit of news I have NEVER got this far after Oing with NO SPOTTING.....:clap: That in itself for me is amazing the longest LP I have had since my MC was 9 days with spotting at 8DPO. But I got to tell you I could of sworn AF was coming this morning just as I got to the horse sale I felt really really wet down there sorry if TMI so raced off to the loo with pad and or tampon ready and nothing but when I wiped (close your eyes and don't read this part if TMI) I had a blob of guey more clear than white icky CM, WTH is that about????? Been feeling wettish down there all day with not alot but some CM same as earlier. Haven't felt as hungry today as yesterday but now I have sat and relaxed i am starting to feel a little light headed and getting the hunger pangs again........I feel like a bottomless pitt atm.....lol....I'm just happy to go this far into my LP with no Spotting at all. Even if AF does arrive it won't really matter as at least now I have a good plan of attack with my upcoming Gynae appointment. So all in all I'm feeling very at ease and very positive about everything in my life right now which really is a wonderful feeling. :dance::leap::dance:

seriously i cant stop peeing...for the last three days i have been going all the time....i almost need to practise my pelvic floor excerises.......there have been a few arrgggggg ummmmm should i say leaky moments.....and my ovaries are hurting.........whats going on....and i just had that shooting type pain up my bits which i got last time........or am i just reading way to much into it....

clairesmummy.....anything more happening babe?

whats everyone else doing....any news

Melster~ Not sure what's going on with you darl, could it be a urinary tract infection at all? I don't know really just putting things out there. Oh maybe you O'd earlier than you think and could be symptoms. FX for you. I'm still travelling along here, still no sign of AF no spotting or anything which is weird for me I never get this far in my LP with out spotting.....hooraah for that I say.....lol

Wow it's really really quiet in here today.....everybody must be egg hunting or keeping busy in their 2WW......Hope you are all having a wonderful Saturday no matter what you are doing?
Stoked~ haven't heard from you for awhile hun, hope AF has stayed away from you still have everything Xed for you tightly.
Minnie~ Good luck with cacthing that egg of yours this week end darl, hope you are having a great time in Melbourne.

Thanks Forselby, Melster and Clairesmummy and everyone ~ really appreciate the wonderful words and encouragement!! Luv you ladies xoxo

As expected BFN on BT - will organise FS appointment soon but we will be having a descent break which will be good for us I hope.

Melster and Clairesmummy ~ :crossfingers: sounding very positive. Wishing you every success.

loops~ Good luck hun, stay in touch and I will be putting out some prayers for you and your DH to get a sneaky little BFP hun. And you are more than welcome darl you are an amazing woman and you deserve all the support we give you on here. Enjoy your break darl hit the chocolate and let your hair down I say. Take care of you and have some fun hun.

Clairesmummy - I knowww, halfway already :) Yay for the cm, that sounds extremely promising. I had the same thing going on before my bfp, and did the whole 'tampon ready' thing too. :) Dare I make another prediction???

Melster - Peeing a lot could be for two reasons. 1. water retention (I always peed a lot in the latter half of my cycle) or 2. PREGNANCY! Don't you hate how pms symptoms are the same as preg symptoms? lol. Keep us posted on the symptom watching :)

Loops - :grouphug: :heartbeat: I don't even need to say it. You know how we all feel.

Forshelby~ I was starting to think I was on my pat malone today in here until Loops and yourself posted it's like a ghost town in here today. lol..... I will leave the prediction decision totally up to you darl....lol....I'm not game enough to call anything this cycle.....the only thing I will call this cycle is totally different to every other cycle I have EVER had in my life........lol......
Melster~ How are you travelling today darl??? Hope the 2WW is flying by for you, FX for a BFP for you.
AFM~ I still have a fair bit of wet goopy CM today but no big globs like I did yesterday, had a headache this afternoon and felt totally out of it like I had been drugged or something just wanted to close my eyes and have a nap but the nap never came so I read my book instead.....have a yuck taste toward the back of my tongue as well today again, could have something to do with being a little off with the flue I'm trying to get rid of. But all in all another day has nearly passed and still no sign of AF......dare I get excited yet????? I feel a little excited just not sure I want to show that excitement as yet. Both times I have MC I have had spotting around the time AF is due, today is 9DPO and CD44 for me. So we shall see what tomoro brings for me, I did have a temp drop this morning though, but I had been tossing and turning in bed for a couple of hours before taking my temp. So could be the reason for the drop, took my temp while chilling on the lounge through the day and it was up to 37.2 and I had been on the lounge a fair while watching a movie. :D

Clairesmummy - Hehehe.... pat malone. We used to use that expression at work. It's hard not to get excited, so I won't egg you on.. (get it, egg?! :D) but.... I'm quietly confident over here.

Forshelby~ Yes darl I did get the EGG part.......:rofl: I'm glad your confident I actually am a little just holding out so I don't get let down if AF arrives........Ive actually been a little sensitive in my girly area today as well from time to time not sore just very sensitive down there IYKWIM. Sometimes it feels uncomfortable to sit on a chair. And I have just convinced DF to cook our dinner tonight, as I really don't feel like cooking but I am totally starving right now. :redface: Starving but also feeling like I could maybe be sick alot like I felt the other day. My belly just feels so empty right now but I have no idea what I would like to eat so DF is cooking hamburgers with salad on them.....yummo.....