Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss October 2010
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Morning ladies..and welcome to the new thread...i hope there are going to be LOADS of people on here so you dont get sick of all my posts LOL LOL LOL.....
Clairesmummy...how are you going babe???? Whens you're next appointment?
ATM..well i have come back from our hotel stay and while it was lovely it has been stressful.....i'm going to test this arvo and see whether o is anywhere close as the last two tests have been light....i am hoping and crossing everything i have that i will.
Im worried about the stress i have had of my daughter having foot and mouth (a common virus thats among kids were they get blisters on mouth and inside, hands and feet and get temp. I have been up all night with her for the last couple nights because she has been really sore and cant eat or drink much..... Then hubby was so stressed yesterday about the ex he vomited, and then now we have the step kids back until sunday. So i am ALOT bummed out as this was supposed to be my happy, carefree, no kids time....i thought i would have relaxed and helped o...so i hope i still o...we have been bdancing, but not toooo much so he doesnt get warn out LOL......
Possum- Sounds like you have a big decision to make darl between work and TTC, I can't offer you any advice on it darl as I have no idea what I would do in that situation either. Great to hear everything is back on track for you again though, great news darl. And it's so lovely to see you back in here.
Melster- Try to just sit back and relax I know it's hard especially when your DD is unwell, I hope she is feeling better soon darl. I know exactly how you are feeling right now I'm stressing out of my tree here with the in laws and all the flamin uncontrolable kids staying here at the moment. I have now had a headache for going on 5 days and it's just from being so over tired and worn down running around after everyone and getting meals ect ect. I can't wait to get my humble little home back. My next DR appointment is this Friday at 9:40am to get my BT results and to see if I have even O'd as yet. I have my doubts though. It's now CD20 for me today so AF should be due in 6 days time or less. Hope you get to O soon hun and catch that egg, FX for you this month.
AFM- Well it's going to get horribley quiet in here and I'm hoping I get some answers soon. So I'm guessing if we want to know how the ladies are going do we have to PM them or can we ask them in here how they are going??? I do send all you ladies that are PG all the luck in the world with all your PGs and I can't wait to hear all about your BA when they come around. I hope I get my BFP soon so I can join you all in the other thread, or maybe I will just stalk you all in the other thread to keep up to date with how you are all going. So you can all be my TTC stalkers and I will be your PG stalker.....lol......
minniemouse - i understand what you're saying and it's probably a good reminder to us PG ladies to tone it down a bit.
this forum is so incredibly supportive that i'm also finding it hard to move on even though i'm not TTC anymore !! plus a little disbelieving that i'm STILL pregnant. FX.
Clairesmummy - GL with your test results. we're all impatient ! but at least you've started the process and things are happening !!!
Melster - praying for you to O very soon. and hope your daughter feels better, how awful for her and you
Just a quick one....today i am having a really mild period type pain, kinda feel wet but nothing really there....normally if i feel anything at o its a stabbing type pain..
My cervix is med and kinda hardish..and no real cm...mostly broken white cm but not much (sorry for the info)......
Loops, don't lose hope just yet.. One of the other girls in here (Kellbell I think) didn't get a BFP til after AF was due. I had quite high HCG levels so that's probably why mine showed up at 8DPO.
Sorry.. I feel bad for saying that now! But it was very early to get a BFP in anyone's books! Xx
Loops~ Oh darl I just wanna give you a really big cyber hug hun, Stay away from Loops Plz AF plz stay away. Good sign that there is no more bleeding though, and please don't stress yet darl I don't get any BFPs until after AF is over due either, when I do get em.....lol....Still praying that you get your BFP darl and like Forshelby said it aint over until the fat lady sings darl. Hang in there hun. xox
Forshelby~ Hello our dear lurking floating friend hope you and bub are all good you must be nearly halfway now....awesome darl just awesome.....
Melster~ WooHoo great to hear about that fabulous +ive on your OPT, keep up your BDing......and catch that egg of yours darl, good luck.
Stoked, Joeve~ Have my fingers crossed tightly for you both how are you going? Any symptoms yet?
AFM~ It's CD38 today and no sign of AF just yet today is 4DPO so I usually get AF anywhere from 5-9days after Oing. Feel really bloated today and still have very tender sore BBs but that's been going on now for 2 weeks. Not much happening in my neck of the woods got my DRs appointment tomoro not looking forward to it at all but what can you do but be brave and face reality. lol....Hope everyone has had a great week end. And I can't wait to read all the up and coming BFPs this week. Just to put some positive thoughts out there for everyone in the TWW. xx
Stoked ~ Oh im so sorry hun I didnt want or mean it to sound like I was upset by it or anything because Im not at all - very sorry for making you feel bad, please dont feel bad.
I guess its more that I keep thinking that if I do end up with a BFP later that it might not stick i.e. might end up with a m/c like last time, but then thats not necessarily going to be the case. I think I just over-analyse everything way too much, dont I lol. Ive always been like that. I truly hope you will get your BFP and tight!
Clairesmummy ~ tight for you too, definitely your turn I reckon, good luck
AFM ~ I am feeling a tiny bit more hopeful. Because when I think about it Ive really only had bits of pinky/brown mixed with the Crinone gel (sorry if TMI), so that could have very well been implantation blood. Also my temp has gone back up again this arvo to 37degrees. I do have a headache but I guess that could be PG related, not necessarily AF headache. Thanks for encouraging me everyone - you ladies and others on BB are the reason Im not giving up all hope just yet xoxo
Loops~ I'm not even thinking about me at the moment, to excited about reading all the BFPs that you are all going to announce soon. So it could be implantation you had then, I so hope it is. And they all sound like PG symptoms to me darl. FX
Stoked - Ooh, good luck.... can't wait to hear your results.
Loops - Remember everyone is different. I didn't get my bfp with my first preg until after af was due. This one was only a couple of days before it was due, so even the same person can be different Keep on truckin', hun. I'm hoping it was implantation, too.
Clairesmummy - Yep, halfway tomorrow actually. I left my ticker all hanging out for you How are things going with your new dr?
Forshelby~ WooHoo for the halfway mark to parenthood how awesome hun. Can't wait to see how big bub is now on your ticker.......what's after the mango??? I will have to check it again. Not long now and you will be holding your precious little bub in your arms darl. Things with my new DR is going ok apart from having problems trying to get a referral off of her to go and see an OB/GYN. She is pretty certain there's not much wrong with us as I have had 1 healthy very happy DD before and she said to me obviously you can do it and you will again, DF hasn't had his SA done as yet as when we went in there for him to have it done the only room he could get his sample in was the toilet at the hospital and after a good half hour/hour of trying he just couldn't get it done as he was freaking out about someone wanting to use the loo and being in the loo wasn't exactly enticing to him at all....lol....so next time which will hopefully be in a fortnights time we shall go a little more prepared for him and get him in the mood first IYKWIM.....lol.......DF was pretty annoyed that he didn't get it done and I had to reassure him that it's all ok. DR told him not to stress to much he has got me PG twice before so there can't be to much wrong with his swimmers. So we shall see what happens when we finally get in there to have them checked. FX all is good and maybe it's just my body not cycling properly just yet.
Hope everybody in here is heading for a great new week, I'm feeling pretty nervous about going to the DR this morning just feel like hiding and pretending nothing is happening. So scared that I won't get that referral today from her.
Stoked~ How are you going hun? Hope AF is staying away from you darl.......Do I have symptoms??? lol....I haven't been thinking about symptoms at all just praying AF would hurry up and get here so I am in a new cycle before I go to the gynae in just over a week........lol...sad hey while everyones waiting and wanting thier BFP I'm sitting back telling AF to get her butt into gear and pay me a visit.....lol... Oh well either way I hope this Gynae can get some answers for me......
FF tells me I am 7DPO today so I have never had an LP longer than 9days so only a few more days to go to see if I start spotting again, my LPs usually on ever 6-7 days by FF longest was 9 and that has only happened once....lol.....
Well I had better go and have something to eat cause if I don't eat I'm gunna feel crook again.....
Good Luck Stoked, FX for you to get your BFP darl.
Where is everyone it got quiet in here again.......please don't let me chat to myself the white truck will be pulling up to take me away.....lol.....have a great day girls...
xox
Morning ladies.....clairesmummy, can you stop the white truck by my house then LOL
Stoked...good luck at you're dr's app
Mumtoromone...the line has got to be the same as the control line or darker to be positive...even if there is a darkish line its not positive until it matches....you could be gearing up to o....so i would keep testing...just remember too it can take a while for you're body to go back to normal...mines still doing wacky things 4months later
Reet....i hope you're doing well!!!!!
Clairesmummy.......i will for you that AF comes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Joeve.......im so sorry....are you ok?
Minniemouse....how's melbourne going???? Im about 2/3dpo i think....i think i geared up to o on monday when i had the positive test...
Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss October 2010
tight!
Keep on truckin', hun. I'm hoping it was implantation, too.
Oh well either way I hope this Gynae can get some answers for me......
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