Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April/May/June/July 2011

Thanks Melster x
Wow its quiet in here, hope everyone is well.

Hi everyone I hope you don't mind me dropping in. Just sort of wanted some advice. Yesterday started bleeding at just over 6 weeks and scan today confirmed miscarriage. I am gutted and numb and don't know what to feel as this makes it two mc in two months. I thought I was so lucky to fall pregnant right after my D&C, mostly because it was my first ever BFP naturally. But now I am wondering if it was too soon after the d&c. Google says to wait 1 to 3 cycles. I of course did not and did opk and DTD but never really thought it would work. Now I don't know what to do, especially now I know I can fall pregnant naturally. Do I wait a few cycles just in case? Was this mc because my body wasn't ready? Or is it just bad luck? Or am I out of my mind? And I am scared. I guess also want some reassurance that I didn't 'bring this on myself' by purposefully ttc. I hope this makes sense? Xx

hi everyone,babydreamtime-sorry for your losses,i have heard the wait period dr's give a lot of the time is for dating purposes & also our emotional well being,lots of women have fallen quickly after a loss & they've been okay..

Babydreamtime, I am so sorry for your losses. I agree with MM - it's about dating. There is evidence coming out that you actually have increased fertility for 1-3 months after your m/c - perhaps that's why you were able to get pg naturally. If you feel emotionally and mentally ready to try again, I say go for it. We were pregnant second cycle after a natural m/c (m/c cycle, then pregnant). I'm now 13.5 weeks and all is well. It can happen!

MM - how are you going post transfer??? When are you testing? I'm still stalking you...

Babydreamtime my fs said to me recently these things are quite often determined at conception. Lots of ladies go on to healthy pregnancies with no af after mc. I am sorry you are here but we will keep you company til you are ready to join a belly buddies group :).

I am trying to work out when af will arrive for me it's been 5 weeks since my mc. I am pretty sure I o'd 2 weeks ago so she should be here soon right??? Where is the instruction manual? Lol

hi all ,wannebemum-thanks,bt has been brought forward to monday,having some bleeding,might not be my turn yet again....joeve-has af showed?..

MM glad they have brought it forward for you. Hope the bleeding stops :)
No AF just some brown stuff sorry tmi!

Hi ladies, im enjoying my non AF bullpoopie but wondering if its worth me doing o test??

Hope everyone is well and fx for a sticky eggie MM xx

Hey gals!

Well I'm in my tww. Fx my lp is longer than 10 days this time. At least I'll be kept busy with work I'm doing fulltime shifts instead of part time. I'll be managing a store (eek-nervous!) while their manager is on holidays.

I'll check in for persies very soon x


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Goodluck LD!

Any news MM?

Good luck to those in the tww!

Hello ladies,

Im in need of a little advice if you all would be so kind...

My cycle as been pretty regular since my miscarriage. The first cycle was all over the shop. But every cycle after has been 33 days then the last was only 30. Which brings me to today... CD33... Still no AF. Previous 3 pregnancies.. i found out I was up tha duff.. by getting spotting at the time my periods where due.. then went away the same day. So untill I see that.. im not convinced and not keen to waste hope on a HPT. As anyone knows... im imagining symptoms left right and centre... but what I am now really wondering... would my body do the SAME thing after a miscarriage.. or could it change so that the "sign" im waiting for .. may not come at all???

Im one lost puppy.....

Hi ladies

I'm sorry I've been so scarce lately! Been hanging out mainly in the TTC 1-6 months thread. But as of Tuesday I have got my BFP and am now patiently waiting for a BB February 1st - 15th 2012 thread to appear :)

I really really hope and pray you lovely ladies get your BFPs soon!! I will be stalking!

:grouphug:

Tascha test! I would lol and yes your body and cycle can change after a m/c.
Phebee congrats on your bfp!!!! So exciting may a tonne of sticky vibes land on you xxx

Thanks Joeve... I did test.. after drinking berocca to boost my energy levels.. I had to go desperatley.. so tested .. BFN. Still no AF.. and no signs either. *SIGN* stupid body...!!!!

phee that's awesome! So excited for you :D Enjoy a happy and healthy pregnancy :)

Tascha - was it a fmu? If not, maybe wait another day or two and do a fmu test. Good luck, I hope it's a BFP!

WannabeMum... no it was in impulse POS in the arvo after a large glass of berocca.. Thinking the same thing as you suggested.. Thanks! : D

huge congrats to phee, have a healthy and happy pregnency!!
Im waiting til my operationg end of this month to go see the gyno and get back on track. Would be very upset if i got a BFP test and then couldnt get my knee done and end up in a wheelchair like what was happening with the twins.

But if it happens it happens.