Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April/May/June/July 2011

Hi everyone,

Well I never thought that I would be here again, but I am.... We lost our baby boy Hugh at 14 weeks he had T21 and various other problems ..... It has only been two weeks since we said goodbye but some how it seems like 2 years..... We would love to be pregnant again... I am terrified that it won't happen or something else will go wrong.....I am seeing a counsellor on Monday.... Gee sorry for the rambling post, I guess I am still all over the place mentally/emotionally..... I just wish things would have worked out differently and I would be 16 weeks pregnant and enjoying those kicks!!

But I am lucky I do have two amazing little ones who keep me going, otherwise I would still be in bed hiding from the world

This sucks. I am miscarrying AGAIN. SCREAM.... SCREAM...and TRIPLE SCREAM...
We can't try again for a while. My body hasn't figured this out yet. I don't even know when. There was no heartbeat, "not viable" at 6 weeks...
Man, I am trying to be positive but really, how much can a person take?
Reality: I am 42. Reality: older women have miscarriages even with younger sperm. Reality sucks.

Oh S & S, i am very sorry for your loss.

Reality: sometimes is just too mean :(

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This sucks. I am miscarrying AGAIN. SCREAM.... SCREAM...and TRIPLE SCREAM...
We can't try again for a while. My body hasn't figured this out yet. I don't even know when. There was no heartbeat, "not viable" at 6 weeks...
Man, I am trying to be positive but really, how much can a person take?
Reality: I am 42. Reality: older women have miscarriages even with younger sperm. Reality sucks.

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That is so sad, I am so sorry to hear it.

Sunshine I am so sorry x

Hi All,

I haven't been in here for a while as I was trying to ignore my pain but I need to rant and let off steam with people who understand and do care!

Still no conception... have had nothing since the last miscarriage on 16/05/2011. Everyone I know is falling pregnant...except me. People who have crappy marriages, don't really want kids, and people who don't really even care... I who actually desperately want to become a mother to living children... no such blessings :(

I am so sorry for all the losses! They are sooo horrible and sad and crap.

Praying for all of you to get your miracle.

xx