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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber & MPM

    Feb 2007
    Melbourne
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    Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April/May/June/July 2011

    Welcome to TTC after Loss or Miscarriage for those of you who have just joined us. We hope your TTC journey is quick and successful. We are sure you will find much loving support from the other women on this challenging journey.

    Please do remember that this a thread for chatter about TTC after miscarriage or loss. Please remember this if you have got that magical BFP. It can get quite confronting for those that have had recurrent losses or are taking time to get pregnant again. We have provided a thread for pregnancy after loss for all pregnancy after loss related issues.

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  2. #2

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
    2,873

    9 dpo...

    Light, but there.

    So anxious I hope this bub is sticky!!!


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  3. #3
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    675

    LnD - congrats on the BFP hun. You checky little beggar testing so early but love when it pays off & you get that BFP. Hope it is sticky & a H&H 9 mnths!!
    Joeve - bugger you are here too. GL on your new journey.
    Just popping in quickly - GL to all those in the 2WW & avoiding BB - totally understand wanting to wig out for the 2WW.
    I am still not ttc after my d&c at the beginning of the month. See the specialist this Thurs so testing will commence after that - not sure when we will get the green light to ttc again so......Still popping in here checking on you chickies though so babydust & stickyvibes GALORE. Oh & Happy Easter all xxxx

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Frankston
    214

    Hi ladies, yes im still alive, AF has settled to a very light thing so im managing. BUT 2 WEEKS FROM HELL!! last week brakes failed and then got fixed so that was all good. Last thursday I got a cold (im aenemic and run down) and friday ended up in hospital with asthma (which i havent had a bad attack in years). came out saturday arvo, worked sunday then WHAM monday morning went to go to work at 5:30am and some LITTLE S*^% has broken into our car, sprayed grafetti all over the windows, broken the small triangle window in the back, broke the ignition barral and distroyed everything else including our battery. Well the idiot left the sissors behind with blood on them and left a nice finger print so was caught a day later. coppers have charged him but his young, unemployed and so we probebly wont get a cent back off him for all the damage. So hasnt been a great time for us but now AF has semi left some good old BD has relieved some stress lol

    LnD- welcome and congrats on the BFP.
    Phee- hope you have a great easter
    to everyone else, welcome and hope the easter bunny bring some babydust lol

    P.S looks like 20th June I will go under the knife for my knee op so we arnt really trying too hard in the TTC til after my op.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    954

    LnD - Congrats on the BFP. You must be so excited.

    Phee- I hope you get your BPF after Easter

    Joeve - Im sorry for your losses. Take it easy on yourself, and I hope that your TTC journey is short when you feel you are ready to ttc again. Huge hugs sweety.

    Bec - Thanks for the welcome. I hope everything works out timing wise for you.

    Shan - What a terrible time you have had! Im glad BDing has relieved some stress for you.

  6. #6

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
    2,873

    Seems I'm staying here for a while. I'm never testing before 10dpo again.

    I would have been 11dpo today but af decided to show. Cd1 for me!

    Cycle 9


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  7. #7
    Registered User

    Mar 2011
    queensland
    696

    Hi everyone - hope ur all enjoying the break.

    Just quickly wanted to let u girls know I'm 15 days post LH surge so maybe 14 days post O and did a test this morning and it was BFP!!!!!! Still can't believe it and still kind of don't want to get excited incase it all goes pear shaped again but im so excited!

    Betta go mobile going to die soon will do persies when back from holidays.

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
    6,772

    Mum2 thanks x
    Shan oh man that's terrible you poor thing!
    Diamond thanks for welcome!
    LnD oh babe you know I was thinking of you yesterday and wishing I had one ounce of your optimism I was happy for you and I love reading how happy you were! I am totally bummed for you chick af sucks it.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
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    Mini yay!!!!!! how exciting!!!

  10. #10

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
    2,873

    Congrats mini.

    Thanks joeve xx how r u going darling?

    Xx happy Easter everyone!

    It's my wedding anniversary on Wednesday and dh doesn't know if he can get back he will be home the day after..

    Yay the great news just keeps rolling in doesn't it ?


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  11. #11
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    Melbourne
    534

    Hi ladies!
    Congrats mini! That's awesome! Praying for a H&H 9 months for you.

    Lysndan- welcome! A bit rough hubby being away for your anniversary, hope he makes it back in time. Hopefully your time in here is short and sweet!

    Shan- you have had such an awful week! I hope things are looking up

    Diamond Girl- hope you're well.

    Joeve- Welcome, although sorry you have to be here. Sometimes moving forward is the only option, and I know I actually feel better now I've made the decision to TTC again. GL.

    Mumtotwo- I hope all the testing goes well and you get some answers. hugs for thursday.

    Hi everyone else!

    AFM: I have just got home from our Easter weekend away, and I've had a great time! I'm almost positive I o'd last Thursday night, but scan on Friday showed a good follie on my right and a smaller one on my left so FS decided I needed to trigger on SUnday just in case. SO now I'm feeling icky after the shot and I'm not even sure it was necessary! Either way, I'm officially TWWing for the first time since m/c...whoa...here we go again!

    Have a good one!

    Bec

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Frankston
    214

    congrats minni, sticky vibes for you.

    AFM: crap, thats the quickest and easiest word to write. 54 days of having my period, 54 days of being moody, 54 days of not being able to wear a nice pair of undies, 54 days of feeling like death warmed up and 54 days of cramps.

    I hate my life right this minute

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
    6,772

    Shan - oh I am sorry that sounds awful

    Hello everyone

    Today I threw away my 12 positive pregnancy tests, they went in the garbage truck and are gone forever. I keep looking at them so they had to go. What a complete crap place to be, not pregnant, not able to ttc, not sure if I want to and totally not wanting to have to start over.....

  14. #14
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Frankston
    214

    hi ladies, well had my ultrasound this morning. took 2 hours!! anyways should know what the go is by 9:30 tomorrow morning i hope

    have a great evening

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
    6,772

    Bec yay fingers crossed!!!

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Brisbane
    375

    Thanks phebee, FX this is your cycle, goodluck!

    Anyone else who can give me info on their cycle lengths after m/c would b great.

    Bec - really hope its good news & you start down the road of a healthy pregnancy.

  17. #17
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    675

    Hopeful girl - sorry you had to join us in here. A thread like this can make you sad but for me the help & support far outweighs this so....Hope your stay here is short anyway.I have had 3 d&c's & after the 1st my cycle took 6 wks to come back, after the 2nd 28 days (my regular cycle length) & the 3rd 30 days. My period came back pretty much the same as before the m/c's so no major changes there.
    Bec - woo hoo - hope the results tomorrow are good ones!!
    Shan - whats happening with you now? Hope it is all good!
    phebee - I hope this is your month too - you shouldnt be made to wait once you've had a m/c - it doesn't seem fair & as if the stress isn't bad enough already....lol at getting the mods to ban you!
    Hi to everyone else also - haven't posted for a while but have read everyones news.
    AFM....Have started my recurrent m/c testing - had a internal scan yesterday, have another one with saline inserted into the uterus tomorrow & lots of BT's coming up. Fun, fun, fun. If it turns something up though it will be all worth it.
    Anyway, hugs, babydust & sticky vibes to all x

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Nov 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    707

    Oh bec Hope hope hope hope this is your sticky one!!

    hopefulgirl, my lengths probably don't help much - I had a natural m/c rather than a d&c, bled for 14 days, my first cycle was a bit longer, but my LP was still normal. After that I was on herbs to decrease the length of my cycle which worked - but my cycles were soooo long, like in the 40s, and never as regular as someone like phee's. One or two days I wouldn't have considered early or late, just a normal variant. I think they're generally pretty normal though. Good luck - may your journey be short. We got pg pretty quickly after the m/c and so far so good, so there is hope

    mummytotwo, I hope your testing either shows you're good to go or that there's something they can do big :hugs: your way.

    Good luck guys - I'm obviously still stalking you guys, can't wait for some big fat sticky results in here.

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