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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08 #2

  1. #181
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    Jan 2008
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    Jen Jen.... The FS is not till next Tuesday...... Goodness.... talk about stress a girl out... i went rushing to my Diary.....26th... that s NEXT Tuesday

  2. #182
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Indiana, USA
    400

    Happy Monday ladies...

    No bding this weekend...Lee went out of town...the truth is I doubt I will continue TTC as I am positive Lee and I are going to end our relationship...it's just not working. The only thing good in it is the sex and that is just not enough...soooo I'll probably lurk around because I really want to know when each of my gurlies catches the egg...

    jen...God I hope you are PG!!!

    *wavin*



  3. #183
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    Jan 2008
    573

    hey you... in the chat room... sound s like you need a girly chat

  4. #184
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Somerset - UK
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    Well i had the 2nd blood test today to see if my levels have risen.

    Should hopefully be able to find out the results either tomorrow afternoon or wednesday morning.

    Keeping everything crossed

  5. #185
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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Easha - Honey I'm so sorry AF arrived Why does this all have to be so hard? It's just not fair.

    Mollycat
    - I caught the cleaning bug and did a complete clean-up of our office which included washing walls and moving things into different positions. It looks sooooo much better. DH and I aren't banging chairs anymore because I moved my computer desk to the opposite corner of the room, lol. By the end of it I was totally over cleaning, hehe.

    Larz
    - I hope the tests went well. Good luck when you get the results!

    Joey - Sorry about your bfn I hope AF comes quickly and leaves just as quickly. She better not be mean to you or else I might have to open a can of whoopa$$ on her!!!
    As for your DH, I think men just cope with things different to us. When I lost my angel I needed to work it through in a totally different way to DH. Luckily we understood each others needs and were able to help each other through. Maybe if you have a chat to you DH just to let him know how you feel, and ask him how he feels and how you might be able to help him too?

    Megsmum
    - So glad the cyst has gone! I still have my fingers crossed until AF shows, just in case I can't imagine what IVF would be like, so if you are not pregnant this month and start the process next cycle, then I wish you all the best. We will all be here for you!

    Smilanatu
    - Oh no! Honey I hop eyou are ok! I'll quickly finish posting and see if you are in the chat room!

    Jen nuff
    - Don't remind me about Jolt! I used to regularly go to an event that was an overnight thing, and Jolt used to sponsor them and give them boxes and boxes of Jolt. I would only drink 2 or 3 before the caffeine would start giving me the shakes!!!

    Angel nuff
    - Seriously speechless. Note the time down for future reference, because this may not happen again

  6. #186
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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Fifi - Good luck with the results!!!

  7. #187
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    Jan 2008
    Indiana, USA
    400

    Gosh gurlies...I am sorry I missed you...I was late getting back online...I am doing fine and all will be well...it is a mutual decision long time coming...no worries.

  8. #188
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    smi--I'm so sorry! But please don't leave us!!!

  9. #189
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Going to start off with an AFM right off the bat (sorry, but I know everyone's wondering)--I just couldn't do it! I chickened out! My temp dropped, and I don't know, I just didn't want to waste the test! I'm only 10DPO, tho, so I'm sure the temp drop wasn't cuz of AF... and I've seen other charts with fluctuating temps that still resulted in a BFP... so I'm not completely discouraged yet. I feel like I've been saying this a lot lately, but if temp is higher tomorrow am, maybe I'll test then. Or maybe I'll just wait until 12 DPO--I don't know!!! And I may just be cruelly being tricked by my body, but I could swear that my bb's feel slightly heavier--and I thought they looked really veiny last night, but today not so much. Weird tingly feeling in armpits at times, too. Sitting here with a headache, eating Saltine crackers cuz I was suddenly ravenous, and it was making me salivate like before vomiting! (I'm never hungry this early) Also not very interested in coffee this am--which usually only happens when I'm pg. Then yesterday, our kitten ran away (but I found him hours later--whew!) and I kept getting dizzy and light-headed when getting up from a squat, or kneeling position. Sooooo, I don't know.... the temp drop just kinda threw me, and I chickened out! *making chicken noises* So, I guess tomorrow's temp is a crucial one for me, cuz if it goes down again, I'm not even going to bother testing.



    Sorry again, Nuff, on the mistake for FS appt! I have the date right, I was just a week ahead of myself! Still can't wipe the smile off my face! I love you even if you do spell like a caveman, have big feet, and get to POAS more!



    Got everything crossed for you, fifi, for your great BT results!!! :goodluck2:


    Krystie--You? Speechless? Is that really even possible? Still about your "carbon imprint" theory! *making monkey sounds* Good luck with getting your A appt. and your tickets!!! You're a sweet talker, so I'm sure you can work it out!
    Last edited by jen805; August 19th, 2008 at 02:51 AM. : grr! typos

  10. #190
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Will come back in a little while to do more persies.... have to get to cleaning the house up before DF comes home for lunch! BBL....

  11. #191

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    Jen- I still think your pregnant darling I really have a good feeling But I'm not forcing you to test lol. Just take it day by day & when you feel ready you can test and let us know. I hope my feeling of you being pregnant arn't wrong cuz I'd love to hear you YELL I got my BFP!! LOL. Hang in there I been praying for you every night your chart still looks great & those symptoms OH LORD so promising sounding...

    Smi- Hunny I hope the best comes for you, And please don't leave us we love having you around.

    Fifi- Can't wait to hear how nice those levels are darling...

  12. #192
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Babyfever--I'm you're right! Thanks for the encouragement! How are you, your mom, and your G-ma doing, hun? You guys dealing with everything ok?



    smilanatu--Hey, hon... Just have to say again that I'm so, so sorry to hear about you and Lee Mutual decision or not, it still has to be tough! Let me know if you need anything--you can always PM me if you need to!

  13. #193

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    Jen- My mom is doing alright she went back to work and is back at her own home sleeping, My grandma is alone at home now and is having hard time but hanging in there. I actully feel that my body wasn't ready to be pregnant right away I have cramps in my back generally start at 8 DPO for AF then my period comes on time, but im only 6 DPO and having them. I just feel with my cramps its over with. We will see... My temps still look pretty good...How you feeling
    Last edited by Babyfever2007; August 19th, 2008 at 06:21 AM.

  14. #194
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Babyfever--Sorry to hear your G-ma is having a tough time, is she going to be ok living all alone? You may be right about your body not being ready, maybe it needs more time--but until AF rears her ugly head, don't give up hope! Your temps do still look good! and sending some extra for you and your family!

  15. #195

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    Jen-Thank you for the support. I told my grandma and mom when my Gpa passed that all of you girls from aussy sent out a group hug and support and she was like thats very sweet of them and thank you. I gave in and tested this morning too, lol BFN atm I surly did test way to early, I did get my bfp origanally at 7DPO last month I seriosuly thought it was an colored evap like I normally get on FREr sometimes (with my bad luck I do) and I go well if its true it will be a little darker tomarrow and it was 8 DPO. So I have 14 tests left and gonna test everymorning here on out till AF shows..I can't wait to hear your results, I really hope this is it for you

    Hi everyone else I hope everyone is having a good day/ or night..

  16. #196
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    I'm actually from California--I'm a stateside girl like you! Wow, you really are a POAS addict, aren't you? Starting on 6DPO?? 14 tests to go?--could you send me a few of those?




    Good morning mollycat! Hope you're doing well this am!!

  17. #197
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
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    Easha--Hey hon, hope you're hanging in there! I'm SO sorry again about AF... I know you're disappointed, please don't give up!



    Toccara! How's it goin'?



    Rachel & chappas--Hope you're both having a blast!



    Van, issy, and Sandygirl--Hope you're enjoying your BB break! You're all thought of often!



    WTH--Hope things are well with you!



    jenushka--Hey, hon! Hope you're taking care of yourself and things are well with you!



    And for all those lucky BFP'ers!! fifi, larz, pbstar, tutumae, Ruthie, tina, plc, AJC, Katiegirl, Nickster, & Canary

  18. #198
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    Hi All,

    This is what I attempted to post last night but the stupid computer wouldn't work


    Feeling a bit better than when I posted this morning


    Joey - the mag is called "making babies" - pretty good. Sorry to hear about your BFN..... I know how you feel but we will get through this together

    Sandy - best of luck during your break, hope the lessed stressed approach works quickly

    Jen, KL - certainly will fill DH in on the star wars accomplishments..... he has all the episodes on video x2, dvd'sx 2, star wars Xmas special, heaps of figurines, , darth vadar this and that, spaceship things.. The powerhouse musuem is also holding an exhibition (which we have already seen) but have to go again in case there is something different. I have also been subjected to Star Wars movie marathons - yes episode 1 through 6. Gosh must love him to put up with it all. I also get regularly quizzed so I can be educated on the ways of the force so he puts it.

    Nickster - great to hear from you - cant wait to see pics of the bub

    Jen - your temps still looks great, how long is your cycle normally? when are you likely to test for you someone else has to get a BFP this month as again it is slim pickings for Aug.

    Megsmum - best of luck with IVF - it sounsd so complex but atleast the steps required will keep your mind occupied from date to date.

    AFM - aaaarrrrgggghhh I was so sure I was UTD this month.... had what I thought was implantation spotting and everything (i have never had that before). I used to think I knew my body so well but just dont know anymore.

    DH has been sweet, I got off the loo this morning in tears and although it was 6am he jumped out of bed and held me until I stopped crying. He then sent me sweet text messages signed DH (thought that was cute using the lingo). He also stayed home from karate and cooked me dinner. DH has asked me to consider getting off BB for awhile but I dont think I can. There is still too many people around that dont understand. It's the TWW that that kills me more than anything so I will have to find distractions to stop me overanalysising. I didn't record symptoms or anything this time which helped.

    Anyway - next step, have appt tomorrow lunch with gyno, he wants to do tests to have a look at my hormone levels so atleast there is something to do that might effect next month.

    Thanks for all your hugs and support -


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