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Hi everyone
lysndan - im sorry youve had to put your TTC plans on hold but i definately think your health needs to be the most important thing right now! and who knows what will happen once the pressure is off!
mummytotwo - i hope everything went well with the procedure although not a fun thing to have to go through.
Shan85 - hope yours went as well as it can too and that it will get everything back to normal for you.
dory - any news on your front?
Matthewsmum - have you and your hubby had a chance to think about what you want to do?
AFM i am still doing OPKs and BD'ing every second night. Havent detected a LH surge yet but im only on day 13 so im still hopeful that the Clomid will work and i will O soon? but on the other hand have not noticed much change in my CM since AF finished still minimal and watery in texture so not sure what that means?
* just noticed some Creamy CM now.. so hopefully things are changing and O might be on its way!!
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Hi Ladies,
Thanks for the thoughts for yesterday. Everything seemed to go ok so waiting now for some testing to start.
Will catch up on proper persies later but babydust to all - & hugs to those who need them (Shan, MM that I can recall.....)
xxxx
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Mini - that change in CM sounds promising..... hope you O and catch that eggie.
mummytotwo - hugs.
Shan - when is your op? Has af left yet?
AFM - am hoping like crazy that my obsession with chocolate and mood swings and headaches mean something on the ttc front.... LOL.
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MM - so sorry to hear about your bfn, :crossfingers: that a stim cycle will be your magic bullet this time.
Mummytotwo - I hope your op went ok today, take care of yourself, try to get plenty of rest :hug: I hope all your tests go well and they can either get you some answers or tell you something!!
Shan - hoping that you're getting sorted out soon you poor thing.
Dory - I hope your obsessions mean something too! lol, it's so easy to overanalyse isn't it.
Lysndan - I hope your results from the lumpectomy were ok and your relaxation works for your body healing and taking its time. Take care of yourself.
I drop in here often to check out how everyone's travelling, and I hope I get to see some bfps in here soon - sticky ones for some beautiful earth side babies :)
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Hi everyone.. not much update for me.. no more CM changes today but still hoping that the eggy will come in the next few days.
dory - when are you due to test again?
mummytotwo - when do you start your tests and have follow up with your doc?
not much to say just wanted to come in and have a quick hello..
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Hi Ladies,
I was wondering if it would be ok that I joined your thread? I am bubbaT, 34 and DF is 37. We had been TTC for 10 cycles when we finally got a BFP in mid March. Unfortunately our LO grew his angel wings at 5weeks 4 days on the 29th of last month. After all the follow up appointments and speaking with my GP we have decided to TTC again straight away. Some of you may have posted to my question yesterday or the day before about bleeding. Anyway after crazy night yesterday my body seems to have said enough everything is done now so here goes nothing for the month. DF can't wait til I give him the go ahead on the BDing front lol. After almost a month of nothing due to spotting/mc he is feeling very deprived (in a good way) lol.
I must say I was touched to hear all your stories and am sorry that any of you have to use this thread.
Mummytotwo - you were in my BB group, I am so sorry to see you here. I hope you are holding up ok.
On other points - we are getting married in just over 3 weeks so I getting very excited for that. All the final preparations. I just hope I can hold it altogether during the speaches as that is when we were going to announce the PG. Every minute of everyday can vary at the moment to how I feel. One minute I can be my normal cheery self and then I may read something or see something that will make me tear up. But in general we are both doing ok.
Anyway enough babbling from me
BubbaT xx
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hi bubbaT!
congrats on the upcoming wedding! i hope the last few weeks go smoothly for you!
I remember the first few weeks after our missed miscarriage and most days i was fine and then sometimes when i was driving home (i think cuz i was alone with just my thoughts!) i would get quite upset about it. I found it a bit hard around the 6 week mark cuz i still have not had AF show up and i was just frustrated and wanted to get back to TTC. Thankfully AF showed up on day 42 i think so now i am waiting (somewhat) patiently for O!
with regards to the bleeding i cant really offer any advice we had to have a D&C so not sure how a natural miscarriage would go?
AFM - have done an OPK today and still negative. still just a small amount of creamy CM but not much at all really.. a little worried that this means clomid hasnt worked but still have :crossfingers: that is just a little delayed. Even if it doesnt work i will still try to catch eggy on my regular but long 39-42 day cycles.
baby dust to those on TWW and positive vibes for those coming up to O!
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Hi ladies, sorry havent been on lately, just had a busy few days. Well AF left for a total of 24 hours, ran out of my primalot N and ITS BACK again :( Called gyno and he said to keep up with the meds and call him in a week. Im sick of pills and just want it to go NOW for atleast a month!! Im keeping libra in bloody buisness!!
Doc doesnt want me to have a D&C yet for some unknown reason.
Thanks for all of your thoughts for me :)
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Hi ladies!
Sorry I haven't posted for a while, I've been reading and keeping up with your journeys, but I've been super busy!
minivini- Clomid can do funny things to your CM so don't count on that as a sign. I know lots of girls in the clomid thread who got absolutely nothing in the way of CM. Unfortunately one of those annoying side effects! GL with catching that little egg!
bubbat- sorry to hear your TTC journey has been a bit rough so far. The wedding will be super exciting! As for the bleeding- I've had 3 m/c at around 5 weeks and all were like super heavy periods, with shocking cramps, but all the bleeding stopped in 5-7 days. If bleeding continues, my GP recommended BT and ultrasound to make sure the m/c was complete, but I never had to go that far for those m/c's. HTH
dory- ooo, cravings could be a good sign. I know my super choc craving is out of control around o'ing! GL
mummytotwo- I'm glad the op went ok, as awful as it is. The testing can be super stressful can't it? Wishing they would find out why, but not really wanting them to find anything bad...it's a fine line to walk. hung in there :hug:
Shan- sorry to hear AF won't knick off! I wonder why Dr wont do a D&C, seems odd after so much bleeding? I hope it's really gone for good soon,
Hi everyone else, I hope you are all in a good place within yourself, and heading towards successful cycles!
AFM: I am awaiting AF, due to arrive tomorrow after taking primolut to induce a new cycle. Then just waiting to start injections again and looking to o over Easter. Could be interesting managing any time to DTD considering we're sharing a tent with our 4 year old in our annual camping trip! At least it's a big tent with separate bedrooms, but I'm hoping I o when we get home! I still madly trying to lose more weight. I managed 12 kg before I fell pg at Xmas time, and have now put 4 back on, so I'm trying to get it all off, and then a few more to ensure a healthy pg when and if I manage to get UTD again!
That's it from me, I off to do the grocery shopping!! Woo Hoo!
Have a good one,
Bec
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Thanks for the welcome ladies, just wanted to wish you all a pleasant evening xx
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Hi all
MM - I am so sorry about the bleeding hun :( hope your appointment is/was helpful
Shan - aww I'm sorry about DH & AF :(
Minivini2b - hope you got your BDing in & you get your Easter present :)
Erybery - sorry hun :( I hope Clomid works for you
Becnxavi - yay! GL with the BDing!
Mummytotwo - aw sorry him :( *hug*
LysnDan - so glad I got to meet you! Your plans are sensible. Hope it all works out! I will be FB stalking, lol
dory - FX!
Bubbat - welcome! sorry about your angel :( yay for your wedding. I hope it goes beautifully & you are distracted enough not to think too much about it being your announcement day
AFM - well a bit of a selfish rant type post here so I apologise in advance. It started when AF showed her ugly face this morning & I knew my work friend was announcing her pregnancy today - after only just beginning to TTC she was UTD!
So today was pretty awful - a bit torturous. I drove to work with all my sad songs playing and some tears falling. I know it's definitely residual grief from my mc coming back to haunt me on the same day I get AF and my friend announces at work and it's also the day I would have been 22 weeks and my mc began on a Friday. All that compounded just got to me.
I mean I loved talking about it all with my friend but then later when everyone else was exclaiming and congratulating her and the other pregnant colleague was telling her what she experienced right outside my office... Well you know. I suddenly found something to do down the other end of the building or found my earphones to plug into my laptop & listen to music.
And then came the 'oh you'll be next' and 'were keeping our eyes on you!' comments from the menopausal women. Aargh! I felt like yelling, 'I WAS next!!'
Plus, this morning 3 women were complaining about menopause & I felt like saying 'but surely it's all worth having it because you all had lovely children!'
Anyway that's my rant. I've decided not to chart this month and only come on BB until O. After that I need to forget about it or I'll obsess and get my hopes up again.
I'm sorry it's such a selfish post. I know many of you have been through way worse than me and I dont really deserve to complain, but I can't help feeling how I feel. I hope you'll understand.
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Phebee- honey xxx big hugs chicken!
Loved meeting you too :) we will have to catch up very soon so I can give ya another real hug. I hate that you and so many other girls are hurting.
Xxx
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Hugs pheebe
I for one think you did a great job of holding it all together at work and of course we understand needing to step away from bb a bit.
I am blessed that mine all happened right before the wedding as it has been a great distraction, I have my hens day starting in a couple hours so again another distraction. We are off to the country races and it is going to be a lovely 27 degree day. I can't believe today has finally got here yay!
Lysndan - just want you to know you've been in my thoughts with all the tests/ op etc.
Hi to everyone else
BubbaT xx
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just a quick message to let everyone know i just got a positive OPK!!! i am so excited!! even if we dont catch the eggy this month at least clomid has worked!! so excited!!!
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Oh well done mini!
I have had my first blood test today for OT (ovulation tracking)
And was late for work :( so yeah hmmmm great. Work now knows were ttc :( grr! I stupidly told someone we were ttc though. And they've put 2 and 2 together... Not happy and the trust has left the building with this lady I told. Not telling her anything anymore!
So nearly o time. Been bd-ing with preseed and I'll start the opks on cd9 which will be Monday.
Fun!
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:goodluck: Minivini and LysnDan!! YAY we're all o'ing around the same time.
I'm on CD 13 bd last night and hoping to catch DH tomorrow and should O on Monday. Havent done OPK but I know my "normal" cycle is 29 days and also I've had plenty of clear CM lately which is a good sign.
Its my first cycle after the m/c in late Feb, my bleeding lasted only 7 days with bad cramping though I didnt need a d&c. It took about another 6 weeks to get AF again hence why I'm only back ontrack with my cycle now :)
Anyways good luck and have a great time bubbat on your hens! How exciting!! Your wedding day will be amazing and I'm sending ALL my :loveshower: to you and you may have a wedding bubba before you know it! Enjoy it cos the day goes like the breeze!
I got married 2 1/2 yrs ago but it seems like yesterday :dance:
AFM trying to relax and just do things around the house. Caught up with some friends today :D Last night my DH told me I should stand on my head LMAO I thought "well why not give it a go". I usually just put a pillow under me and we did conceive our angel that way but I thought why not, anyways shuffled along the bed stuck my head over the side and hung there for 2mins before I cracked myself up at how silly I must look! Anyways not sure if it will work or if anyone else has tried this but, hey couldnt hurt right?! LOL :pray:
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hi girls. thanks for your GL wishes - i hope we all have a relaxing but quick TWW. I will be busy at work but thankful for that as it will make the time go quicker i think (well hoping!!) and i definately hope we all get a BFP at the end of our TWW!
mia01 - i know my husband thinks i am a bit weird sometimes cuz i turn around and lie with my legs on the wall trying to give the boys a little help finding their way to my eggy lol but i dont mind. if it helps us get a BFP ill do anything!
Lysndan - i hope the blood tests arent too bad for you. and i hope your O comes soon. it is annoying when you confide in someone and they break your trust by telling other people.
phebee - dont feel bad about any feelings you have and you dont have to apologise about having a rant and thinking you dont deserve to. we have all experienced loss and to each of us it is devasting no matter what the circumstances are.
hugs to all
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Hi :)
I hope that you don't mind me joining in on this thread. I've been posting mainly in my TTC buddies thread and in the Conception areas.
I had an early m/c very early the first time that I fell pg. I stopped taking the pill in December 10 and we have been TTC since. I started to experience nausea, fatigue and generally feeling "off" in early March so my DH suggested I take a hpt and I got a BFP. Five days later I had a m/c. My GP said it was way too early to confirm how far along I had been but I would say only by a few days because I never missed af.
Anyway I'm on my next cycle following the m/c and I'm now 4 days past the date I was expecting af but I haven't had any spotting or cramping. I have instead been very tired for a good 5 days now, feeling nausea, headaches and last night I was feeling weepy. I took a hpt this morning thinking that I may be pg but it came back negative. I'm so very confused about whether these are pg symptoms or if these are normal following a m/c.
Has anyone here had similar symptoms and what result did you get in the end? Do you think I should be slowing down on thinking that I'm pg and just assume that my cycle is just now irregular?
