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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Sorry, this is going to be a "me" post for a minute... I'm so confused... Just entered this morning's temp, and FF changed my coverline and O day! My score went from "high" to "low" chance of conception! :wtf: Instead of O'ing on CD14 (which maybe I still could've, since I had really bad O pains that day?) it says I O'ed on CD 16--which means we only BD'ed once while I was fertile! :wall: Damn it!
Jen: WHAT?! How can it do that??!! Maybe what it was doing was getting you all positive when baby was conceived, then lowering your expectations after so that when that :bfp: hits it'll be even better??!!
Morning gurlies!
mollycat...I have given AB (lol) the SAME talk
Joey...*chanting* witch stay away witch stay away witch stay away witch stay away
tina_k...YOU GO GURLIE!!! :dance:
WTH...:hug: praying everything will be well for you and bub...you HAVE to remain positive AND believe everything will be okay...negative vibes are a no-no...like Angel Babies said to you...you have to talk to the tummy and let bub know how much you love him/her...it's hard to do when the odds are against you BUT you HAVE to!!! Praying for your miracle! P.S. I know a little something about the age bracket you're in as well;)
pbstar...no one can understand how YOU feel until they've been where you are...don't feel guilty...you know your heart...
KrystieLove...I can ALWAYS count on you for my morning smiles! As for DH getting a BB account...that = you having to fight for PC time...LOL
jen...I am quickly losing faith in your FF chart...seems like every month it is wishy washy...maybe it just means you need to :bd: every day every month until PG...LOL
Okay ladies I gots work to do...
:pink-babydust::bluedust:
:stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
Thanks, Tutmae, you're sweet... :hug: I've had FF change my chart before, but that was prior to temping when I was only checking CP & CM--in situations like that I can understand that there's not really enough info to make an accurate prediction, but I'm at a loss with this one... Seems to me that if it's going by temps, then how can it just change after it's already picked up a thermal shift? I know you're new to temping, I'm not really asking you how it could change, just asking myself out loud in your post! :lol: This really sucks, though, since now I'm supposedly only 3DPO--the TWW is bad enough without having it extended! I just want AF to show up early now to get on with the next cycle :(
Still figuring out personals, so will be right back...
Oh, I just realised I haven't talked nearly anywhere enough about myself today! Sheesh! I'm slipping!DH and I are very very much on the same page when it comes to :bd: (poor thing even suffered through his bad case of the flu for the cause!!). Looks like I'm probably going to o in the next couple of days (early o-ing apparently isn't that uncommon). I just want to see that coverline and know that I am o-ing. I've been having these little pains on my right hand side for to days now, down low next to my hip bone. Could be gas? Maybe? But I'm going to assume it's o pain.
Sorry for the rambling. A girlfriend just put up some pics of her little one on facebook and we were due around the same time, so rambling is better than moping.
:pink-babydust::bluedust: and :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: for all!
Jen, af isn't going to show up!! I've banned her for all of us. Yes. I'm just. That. Good.
:P
WTH-- Oh, hon, you really are such a selfless person for offering congrats to tina while you're so down about your own situation! :hug: You're an inspiration! Aren't there some meds your dr. can give you that will increase your chances? Just seems like with as advanced as we are technologically, there has to be something that they can do for you! I'm :pray: for a miracle for you. Sending bucket loads of :hug: :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy:
Van--Your chart is almost as confusing as mine! Where's your coverline???
pbstar--Don't worry about your SIL, if she has any sense at all she would realize how hard this is for you right now! Your heart is healing, and you have to do what's right for you, and nobody should expect any more from you! And as long as DH is on your side, the rest doesn't matter anyway! Big :hug: for you!
megsmum--Here's hoping the rest of your :2ww: flies by! :crossfingers:
Part 2--
Krystie--I thought Signs was a great movie! Have you seen Scary Movie (I think part 3?) where they poke fun at it? If not, you've got to check it out, it's hilarious! Would be a great pick-me-up when you're feeling down. :lol: that DH left a glass of water out--but he should've left out at least 5--just for the effect! I'm glad you had a talk with your future :babygirl:--I don't think she'll be able to resist the bibs! Maybe you can bribe her with a trip to M.Mountain! (hint,hint!) So DH is going to be the newest member of our little thread? That's great, now I can work on getting him to bring you to M.M.!! Can't your DSS's become members so I can get them all amped up about M.M., then they'll bug you and DH so much, you'll have to come out here just to shut them up! Sounds like a plan to me! :rofl:
jenushka--So glad you're still lurking and cheering us all on! :hug:
tutmae--Are you sure you're using a BD thermometer? I always O pretty early into my cycle, too. In fact, my fertile days usually begin between days 8-10. Makes for a nice, long LP! I can't wait to see your first coverline! It's very exciting! And the pain on your right side definitely sounds like O pain--so bring on the :bd:
Easha--I'm :pray: like crazy for another high temp for you today! Good luck with POAS on Thursday! :crossfingers: for you!
chappas--Sorry to hear you're feeling so down! Here's a big :hug: to cheer you up! At least AF has left the building!! Good luck for this next cycle!
We've really gotta stop writing at the same time!!
I hope I'm using a bd thermometer. I was told thatdigi thermometers are fine, and mine seems pretty darn accurate. I guess we'll find out soon. :crossfingers:
Part 3--
tina--So are you still waiting for Friday to get your BT's? "sigh" You'd think I was waiting for my own BT's, I feel so anxious about yours! :lol: Between you and joey I'm going to have premature gray hair! :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy:
Angel B--I've noticed that everything you say comes right from the heart, that's why we love you! Lotsa :hug: for you!!
Sandygirl--If you find that switch to turn off your mind, please tell me where it is so I can turn mine off!! :confused:
Acria--Welcome back! Of course you're still on the list! Oh, and I found your pics in the photo gallery! I've added you to my favorites! :hug:
smilanatu--OMG, every day of every month? I can't even comprehend that! I'll have to check on my other chart, because that one gave me the same O day as FF originally gave me, which was CD14. I'm going to scream if that one changes, too!!
tutmae--I'm sure your thermometer is fine then... FF says if your temps seem off (although we're new to temping, so how can we be sure it's off?) it could be the wrong thermometer, or even the battery. Damn, so I didn't have to wait for my BD thermometer to come in the mail last month, I could've just used my normal thermometer??? :wall: It figures...story of my life!
Jen- The FF details thingy says that my temps are fluctuating at a good level, and I figure as long as the temps are consistant and have the good pattern that they're supposed to then the type of thermometer shouldn't really matter (ours is pretty accurate). Then again, I could just be justifying my cheapness.
I just want to send bg :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: to all you girls who are feeling down. Thankgoodness we have eachother (and our lovely DH/F's) for support!
OK--have entered this am's temp into my other chart, and it still shows O on CD14 (whew!) AND that one still says my overall conception chance is high! Sorry FF, I'm going to hope and :pray: like crazy that you're wrong!!! Maybe I'm not out yet for this month--I would hate to be 3DPO and feeling like there's already no chance!
Jen Jen Jen.... lets not go giving up yet....Just because you entered a temp that a computer programe didnt like doesnt mean you have no chance this cycle........ I personally dont use FF.... I use a programe that I brought and is on my laptop.... that s why you dont see a link at the bottom of my name......but thats beside the point..... Your on this TWW with me girl.... and I m not prepared to leave my TWW buddy behind.. so come on.. pick up you socks.. ignore that damn programe.. and think positively...... Besides that, you know your DH is a competitive thing....I bet his swimmers are too.... so even if you did "o" on the CD16 instead of CD14 and only BD once you still have some very competitive swimmers still freestyling :sperm: to find the egg, regardless of whether or not the egg was hiding at the time.
http://img395.imageshack.us/img395/1...handzl4.th.jpg So here you go... my hand s out to you.. grab it girl... we will get through the TWW together
Jen- Ooooh. Maybe it's cos your temp dropped a bit the day after the peak THEN had 3 subsequent days of rising? I dunno, could be newbie talk! But, hmmm, looking again it's become clear I have NO idea what I'm talking about. I'm with Angel. I reckon you DF's little guys are butterflying their little hearts out right now!
Angel--Thanks for not leaving me behind! You've brought me to :crying: You're always there bringing everyone up when they're down! Thanks so much for the helping hand--I've grabbed it and am holding on for dear life! :hug:
Thanks to you too, tutmae! You girls are my early morning pals, and now I know why!
Tears are fine sometimes...they release the pressure that builds up.... and besides, you're the one out there making sure everyone else is fine... its completely normal for you to occasionally need a "hand".... we all do from time to time.
As for early morning..... too bloody early... its nealy 2am here so I m off to bed now....Hugs to all.... we need some serious cheering up in here... Group Hug... Group Hug :grouphug:
Thanks for the :hug: and the hand! Sweet dreams! :grouphug: