Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 2010
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Hi all - just dropping into the new thread to wish you all some baby dust... you are never far from my mind, even though I don't post much in here anymore.
AFM - all seems to be going swimmingly now - 31 weeks can you believe it? I can't, this is truly a miracle. I won't do persies, as there are so many new names in here at the mo, I need to go back and catch up.
dory - 9 weeks to go - into the single figures sweety...hoping the next couple of months fly for you
wishing all you lovely ladies a great weekend especially those that are about to do the bd bonanza, those waiting to 'o', in the TWW and waiting to test
I'm doing this one from memory so forgive me if I miss anything.
Possum- I am so sorry this has been so hard for you sweetie. I have my FX that this mc resolves itself without you having to take any hardcore drugs. Hugs for you..
Clairesmummy - So sorry, hun... what terrible news. How are you holding up?
Matthews mum - Your positive attitude is wonderful. It must be hard having to wait another cycle for another fet, but I hope the doctors are right and next month you have a MUCH better shot at this.
Hi to Iona, Reet, everyone else...
AFM, ms has kicked in bigtime. I had to go to bed at 7.30 last night because I felt so rotten. Even just watching masterchef I was gagging seeing all that meat prep. Ughhhhh! Today has been pretty good, except for some random bile appearing while I was trying to swallow my massive football sized vitamins. (sorry for TMI, lol..) I did manage not to lose my vitamin though, don't ask me how... haha. Also today at work someone asked me if i was hungover. I must look terrible! Still looking forward to my scan on Monday, but feeling a little bit nervous as well. I guess ms kicking in is a good sign. I don't remember feeling so awful last pg. Anyway, sorry for so much me-ness, I've been a bit out of action the last couple of days, finding it hard to keep up in here now.
I hope everyone is well and looking forward to seeing lots of BFPs in here this month. And remember... Sore Bust in August!!!
So sorry Clairesmummy. I really am feeling for you!! Hugs to you!!! If it makes you feel any better mine was a pos followed by a neg and AF showing up early. Dr said it was simply day 1 of cycle and it wouldnt make this month any harder to get preg again!!
oh damprye - I hope your not feeling too unwell this morn
bons - when are you testing, I'm getting very excited for you
reet - fx that you caught that egg
forshelby - oh sweety, it was the best thing for you, you don't need the stress from work espeially being pregnant and it's their problem for not treating you better...now think of all the things you can do now.....sleeping in, relaxing on couch, being a lady of leisure
kell - here' hoping af doen't show up for you, when will you b testing??
hi to everyone i have missed
AFM - the nausea is doing my head in, the only time I feel ok is when I am asleep - if only I can sleep 24hrs a day for the next 5-6 weeks. Plus not sure if I should drop down to 2 subjects at uni, the tiredness is just getting me and I don't have the energy to keep up at the moment
Kellbell - We can afford it, but I still have this guilty feeling about the money. I know we're a team, and he says he's totally fine with it, but it's a huge adjustment going from a career woman, who was financially independant to a depandant spouse. I guess it'll take time to get used to it. Thanks for your support. How late is AF?! How exciting..... I still don't have really obvious symptoms, except the weight gain and feeling 'hungover' a lot of the time, that's about it for me! Good luck!!!
Damprye- That makes a lot of sense. Thanks for your input, it helps to put things into perspective. And congrats on your job!! What are you doing exactly? So glad things are going your way, that's great news. Oh and I love the drunk post... my friend couldn't even direct me to her house (it's a long way away so I don't visit her there) while I was 'designated driving'.... LOL. Enjoy!
Reet - Thanks, hun. I'm feeling a bit better about it all today, I guess it's just hard to walk away from a job I worked my butt off in for 4 years straight. I'm not going back on my decision, it's too late. And you're right, that's not the way to gain respect. It's time I make my own work. I think I'll start a website or something, I can be a crafty bugger. hehe... Don't worry about this cycle, I told you this is the one so just accept it, LOL. Sit back and enjoy yourself, girlie!
Iona - LOL.. lady of leisure, I love the sound of that. I think I might take up a course or something like that. I want to remain productive. So glad you have hardcore symptoms, take comfort in them. I know you feel crap, but it's just bubby making his/her presence known. Yay! When is your next appointment/scan?
AFM, Thank you all for your words of wisdom. I feel better about it today. I just have to plough ahead and know it's the right choice. I'm skilled in a lot of different areas, have worked in all kinds of industries, and I just know I'll be fine when the time comes to work again. Until then, I'll be creative and make money by selling things I've made, painted, and so on. I always wanted to be an artist... Pregnancy wise, things are going great. As far as I know...
Forshelby- I am so glad that you are feeling better about it today and I think starting a website or something would be a wonderful idea... just look at what happened when kelly started one lol
Iona- I hope that the m/s does calm down for you
Teni- LOL I literally just remembered what I had done last night so I came to delete it lol.
AFM- I woke at like 7 this morning right as day lol. I so cannot believe I done that I don't normally drink, let alone drink that much in such a short time lol. It was good to get out of the house and have some fun with my friends. It has been years since I last went to kareoke And yays I have a job lol, I still can't believe it's real lol
Dampyre your drunk post was hilarous LOL
congrats on the new job too sounds like everything is going great!!!
Forshelby glad your feeling better about things enjoy being a lady of leisure for awhile as you grow your bubba - its getting closer to your 12 week scan all the time. they are so cute at that scan flipping and waving and kicking its so beautiful!
Reet - when are you testing? i see a bfp in your future
AF is due wed so not late yet though last month it came on day 26 so today - im not going to test going to wait it out for awhile yet. i dont think i am at all so well see what happens
I see Princess Mary is having twins soooo jealous of someone i dont even know
Forshelby - I know how you feel.... only too well. But honestly for me, giving up work was the best decision..... DH tells me that almost every day. DH tells me I am happier, less stressed and giving everything my best shot. It's not easy, it's not easy at all going from the life I have built over so many years and from which I gained a lot of my self worth on the work, sport, social fronts. But when bubs comes along there would be changes anyway, just think f it as getting prepared early. But once bubba is snuggley inside this journey is no longer just about me... and if I have to put some of my personal ambition and ego aside then so be it.
Iona - absolutely drop own to those subjects. You and how you feel are more important than some uni subjects. Take the pressue off yourself! Sorry to hear the m/s is bad.
Dampyre - I am just so glad you had such a good night and weren't too dusty the next day. That my dear is just hteperfect combination - a great night out and no misery the next day. Well done on the job. Usually when I can't see because I've drunk so much, it gets pretty messy and miserable after that! Not that I've had that experience for a very long time.
Claire'smummy - well done at the campdraft. I went camping in SE Qld in winter once and it got to minus 7 ( or at least that's what we think because that's the temperature at which olive oil freezes..... it was minus 3 about a metre away from the fire ..... eeek that was cold.....)
Reet, Kellbell and anyone else I've missed. I still get in here sometimes to stalk..... hope your BFP's come soon.
Dory- Thank you, I really did have a wonderful time and getting a fourth topped my week end, I am anly pretty new to drafting I have always competed in Dressage and showing until meeting up with my DF and he is right into the campdrafting. So I thought I would follow suit and give it a go and I am loving it, it's a blast and such a very family friendly sport.
Kellbell- Thanks for the internet site darl, just about to go and have a very good read, it takes forever for the test line to come up when I do an O test so Im really not sure whats going on and if I should just give the OPKs' the flick and stick with my own body telling me when.
AFM- Just when I had given up hope on ever going to O I have massive amounts of EWCM today I have never had this much before and sorry if TMI but I'm as randy as a bull on viagra today...lol......so tonights the night to DTD if I don't ravage DF in next hour or so as its his RDO today......did another OPK test just now and it's now 10mins later and the test is telling me nothing it's a negative from the test.....so whats the go with that??????? But my body is definately saying go for it.....
Oh well now I have totally done my head in with OPKs and temping and CM let's see what mother nature brings in the next few hours.......
Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 2010
Thanks for the welcome back
I have my fingers crossed for lots of BFPs this month!
Well I guess I am in my TWW! I think I O'd on Thursday or Friday.. I have never done charting or temping or anything so who really knows! I do have a very regular 28 day cycle though but as it's only my second cycle since the m/c I don't really know where I am at. I am feeling a little bit crampy, don't know what that means!
I'm on my phone so can't remember what anyone else wrote but when I can get on the comp I'll do persies
Xx
Forshelby - 9 weeks!! Wooww... yeh be an incubator and relax.
AFM... on BB hurting still... Stop using underwire bras... ohhh :sad:... mind still very pre occupied!! Oh well, I am dog-sitting for my parents' 12 yo pug. So I guess it will take my mind off until I test again by the end of the week. And if I still get a BFN,I will definitely see the GP get the BT at the nearest hospital so that I can get the test sooner. I asked myself... what happens if it is another MC? I don't want to go through it AGAIN?
AJELLO- The wait and see game is so hard especially when you have had the exp. of a MC before it never gets an easier I think we will all have the worry in our minds on the what ifs and maybes. I just don't know what I can say to make you feel any better, I am sending huge hugs your way and we all understand what you are going through right now and I am here to try to make you feel a little better if I can darl. Please do try to keep your chin up and try to stay positive, it always helps me if I can look at the positive side of things.
Kellbell- Have you tested yet????? I am waiting very patiently to read your Hope the narky AF is staying well away for you. And Im still sending you lots n lots of Good Luck darl.
AFM- Well what can I say think I may have O'ed last night sometime and yes we did DTD. so I'm praying for the best.....had a temp rise this morning so I guess I have O'd whether or not we caught the egg thats anybodies guess.
Today I was meant to get our washing done but obviously I'm not meant to wash cause it's raining here again, ah well looks like you lovely ladies will have to put up with me today....lol.....Hope you all have a great day.
Clairesmummy- thanks... still no AF. so, i guess there is still hope. ur words have been great comfort! hope that the egg is caught this time round for u! It is gloomy outside. Most likely stayed in door with the doggy. he will keep my mind off!
Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 2010
Hope you're feeling alright tomorrow 
I don't normally drink, let alone drink that much in such a short time lol. It was good to get out of the house and have some fun with my friends. It has been years since I last went to kareoke 
Please do try to keep your chin up and try to stay positive, it always helps me if I can look at the positive side of things. 
Hope the narky AF is staying well away for you. And Im still sending you lots n lots of 
Good Luck darl. 
so I'm praying for the best.....had a temp rise this morning so I guess I have O'd whether or not we caught the egg thats anybodies guess. 
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