Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 08 #3

big hugs to you Angel, try and stay positive, some things happen for a reason, you just got to believe that it will happen for you, stay strong lovely lady, there's a bub out there with your name on it!!!

Milla - I too got a chinese herbalist and acupuncturist, I believe it truly does work, I started in May this year and I believe I fell pregnant on my second attempt because of it, even though I did m/c but so many women here in Cairns have gone to these ladies and fallen pregnant its amazing...I def am a strong advocate of natural medicine. Goodluck with ttcing....

hey girls Im off to bed now am tired its late here in Oz and need to work tommorrow, throwing lots of babydust and stickyvibes...

I'll be thinking of you Jen this week as we will both be DTD LOL....goodluck girl!! xxx

Oh, Angel.... to say "I'm sorry" would be such an understatement! :( I'm completely devastated for you! My heart aches for you knowing what you're going through and how you're hurting! :hug: How will they get rid of the toxins from the cysts? Do they think it's caused from the meds you had to take? You know I'm here for you whenever you need me--you even have my cell number, so feel free to call me if you need to! I wish I knew what else to say.... other than I'm glad that you didn't get too sick from all those toxins being released inside your body! Did they put you on some sort of antibiotics to help get rid of them?

I'm so very sorry that things didn't turn out as you had hoped! Wherever you decide to go from here, I'm behind you one step of the way! Don't give up.... I know you feel like you want to at the moment.... whatever is meant to happen will sort itself out.

Love you lots, hon! :hug: :comfort: :hug:

CRAP! So very, very sorry Angel :hug:
I'm so gutted for you and all the things I want to say seem so lame...and useless

you're the only one who knows how much you can take, and I guess you are at the lowest of the low right now, but Angel, if I know you at all you will go MIA for a while, regroup and (hopefully) feel in a position where you feel more able to stick with it... a bit longer, another chance...hang on to that glimmer of hope. You yearn for this baby, and you deserve it after going through so much. Hang in there buddy, do your grieving and stamp your feet, shed your tears... But DON'T write yourself off!
It wasn't ectopic, therefore you have your mechanics in (bruised) but working order. That's 50% more than some others in here. You have guts and determination that not only supports, and bullies (in the nicest possible way xxx!) others to keep going, but reminds us that there IS hope... even though YOU have your dark times too- this shows that you are a truly remarkable, inspirational role model- but just because you've been knocked down does not mean you have failed. Not to us, and certainly not to yourself. You would never give up on us.
So when you're ready to tentatively pick up these threads, and receive the love and support we want to give YOU, and when you feel able to show that steely determination again...well, we'll be here.
All for one amd one for all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx :grouphug:

Luv n hugs mate :comfort:

Oh, nickster, you have me :cry: reading your post to Angel! I know your words and support will mean the world to her! You're SO right--all for one and one for all! :grouphug: If there's ever any blessing to be found in the losses that we've suffered, I'm truly grateful to have found, and to be able to witness through others, the loving support of the friends that are made on this thread! :hug:

Easha-- :SAAF: :pray: :noaf:



WTH--Oh no! Sorry to hear about DH's accident, but glad to hear he'll be ok. So did you think of it this time since I mentioned it last time? Now is your chance to slip on a cute little nurse's uniform while you're playing nurse to :dh: I'm sure it will help his recuperation process! ;) Good luck with Tuesday's BT and Friday's u/s! Will be praying for you! Hugs from me to you!



plc--No worries, BB was nowhere on my mind... and if BD'ing wasn't on my mind, it was certainly on DF's mind! There's no where in the BD stats where you can click on 3 times!! :redface: Two of those times were before 9 am! And I still had to decline twice! :o OMG... Wheelchair anyone? :rofl: These BD'ing shoes are killing me!

Ok, enough with the rainbow.... looks cute, but kinda makes it hard to read! Sorry!

Moving on.....


mumstheword--:welcome: Of course pre-TTC'ers are welcome to be here! Our little thread is much more than just TTC! I'm so very sorry for the loss of your :angel: I :pray: your stay here with us brings you healing, comfort, laughter, support, understanding, and friendship!

Not too sure about the conception tab's, I've never taken them, but I would suggest you at least continue taking your prenatal vitamins, if you aren't already. Oh, the coverline on your chart indicates when you O'ed. Pull up a seat and find a comfy spot... look forward to getting to know you! :hug:



mollycat--I DID remind you, you silly girl!! :doh: See what happens when you don't listen to me? We Piscean's are very intuitive! Hey, that's a mighty nice temp jump that had yesterday!! :crossfingers: Your force field is still firmly engaged!


tutmae--You HAVE turned into a horrible chart stalker! And I had such high hopes for you! :nahnah: Hey, I want my house to be reflective!! Will you do mine next since it appears that you're in nesting mode already? My cleaning fairy appears to have gone AWOL!! Good luck with your inspection--seems like you just had one of those! How often do they do that? Hope you enjoy your quality time with DH! *kiss*



Tam-- I did and I am! LOL I'm thinking I should be getting my coverline tomorrow... Sorry to hear about the acupuncture. If it doesn't work out this month, then I hope the B6 helps for next month. Don't give up yet, though, it' s not over 'til AF shows her fat, ugly face! :noaf: vibes for you!

Milla--You're welcome! ;) Glad to hear the TCM is working for you. Several girls here do it/have done it, and I've heard lots of good things about it. I've heard great things about Acupuncture, as well. Good luck! I hope it all helps bring you your forever baby very soon! :pray:



Mannie--Just don't think of me while you're DTD! :rofl: :nahnah: Good luck catching that :egg:



Krystie--Stop being :sick: already!! Have you forgotten about my horrible withdrawal side effects? They've made an actual name for it now... Pill Girl Deficiency Syndrome.... the doctor says it's curable, but you're my only hope! It's all up to you now.... I'm withering away into nothing....*whispers* goodbye.... :rofl: I should've taken up drama! Hope you feel better soon, I'm missing you! :hug:

:grouphug: for my girls Toccara, jenushka, issy, Van, Chappas, & Megsmum(forever my cycle bud! ;) ) :pink-babydust: :bluedust:



smi--How's things going with Lee? Have you made any decisions yet? Hugs and good luck with your decision!



Ruthie--Hope your move went well, and you're getting settled in to your new place! :hug: Thinking of you!



dellydoo, hannah, jade, anneebee, Emmykate, babymiracle, Abbey, Rachel B, babyonboard, mummyO3B.... you're all in my thoughts and :pray:



To all those BFP'ers out there: Krystie, joey, fifi, larz, pbstar, tutmae, tina, plc, Katiegirl, nickster, Rachel S., and Leyza.... :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy:

Hey, Krystie, I forgot to ask you... before you got your BFP, you said you were going to try the lunar conception thing... did you? Just wondering if it actually worked--if not, then you should go back and figure out whether or not you got pg during the time when the moon was in your lunar phase. It says you can tell what you're having depending on the position of the moon, and whether it's in a male or female sign of the Zodiac. I'll bet if you check it out, it will end up being in the female sign!

Mine for this month says Oct. 12, at 4:09 pm for a GIRL..... so that means :bd: beginning Oct. 11 at 4:00 and ending on the 12th at 4:09. Obviously, it won't be for 24 continuous hours, but you know what I mean! :rofl:

It says it was discovered that on the lunar phase day a woman is usually significantly more fertile than on the day of ovulation in her hormonal cycle. So I'll be past O, and I'm going to give this lunar thing a shot this month! That's what reminded me that you said you were going to try it the month you got your BFP....now I'm really curious whether that's when it happened for you! Let me know what you find out! *kiss*

Jen - Yeah, yeah, I know you did tell me. I just never listen. Oh my, I'm still sore. I guess that's my exercise for the weekend. The poor dog, she's been sitting at the back door, whining, to go for a walk and I just don't have the energy to take her.

The boys will be back at sometime today. I'm sure they'll mess this place up within 10 minutes.

AngelBabies -What can I say. Nothing I say will make any difference. Just remember you are a strong woman. You have made such an impact on many of the women who have come into this thread, your support has helped so many. And you've made some great new friends. Take the time to grieve for this lost dream (that doesn't sound so good but that's what it was). Don't rush in to any decisions. One day you and DH will have your little bub (as Ruthie says - they're up there bidding on baby-e-bay) I once said to AJC (if you remember her DH had problem swimmers) that it only takes one - and not long after she had her dream come true. It's still possible for you. Just want to give you a :hug: When you're ready..... we'll be here (or somewhere close by).

Oh Angel Babies - I'm sorry I don't have any words..... just a big - huge - giant :hug:

mollycat - you were right about the swimmers. It only takes one.
:hug: for you too - hope you're staying nice & dry today. Good for the garden at least.

AJC --- Stuck inside - I'm working (got 2 kids in). We won't tell anyone I'm actually on BB. But i'm really watching them. Miss 2yo is toilet training her doll and Mr 4yo is watching a DVD.

mollycat - what they don't know wont hurt. Have had a dose of children today myself. We had the IL's & DH's cousin's two littlies (3 & 5 y/o's) for breakfast this morning. MIL asked the 3 y/o if he wanted a muffin & his reply was F*** off. Geez - after that he didn't just have a muffin but he had a little taste of the hand soap too. MIL was not impressed. LOL at 2 y/o TT her doll - how cute!

Hey ladies
My sincere apologies for not posting in a while, but I have been battling nausea for weeks now. Not so much vomiting, occasionally, mostly just a feeling of wanting to be sick all day. YET, feeling like wanting to eat all the time. I tell myself everyday, that all this is a good sign things with bubs is going well. It's hard to function atm, with the sickness and I am just so darn tired all the time. Blah.. I will stop complaining. I know how very lucky I am. I still haven't seen my doctor, she has gone away for a few weeks. So I will probably just be seeing her for my 12 week appt in a couple of weeks. Time seems to have flown by with this pregnancy, whereas with the twins it seem to drag on. No more bleeding thank goodness, but I am feeling those stretchy cramps at the moment, and have to be careful when I get up off the sofa and stuff.
Anyways, sorry for me post. I am thinking of you all and sending all the :pink-babydust: :bluedust: I hope there are some more :bfp: this month.
Sending lots of love and hugs :grouphug:

AJC - 3yo sounds like a charmer. Hope he enjoyed his breakfast. He would have been hungry around here if he'd answered me like that.

I just wish I could tt miss 2yo. She's just so not interested. I've got six in nappies here all week (soon to be 7) often have 2-3 a day in nappies. I'd like to get one or two out of them. They're old enough, slightly interested just the parents don't help me out by working with them at home. I've got one little boy who will do something everytime I take him to the potty, but mum doesn't do anything. Makes it hard. One day..........

Enjoy the rest of your day.

Ruthie - just wanted to say hello in case your able to be on-line. Thinking of you. Hope the move went great and you are still having fun re-decorating.

Smi - Any decisions yet?

Angel babies: im so sorry to hear what you are going through my thoughts and prayers are with you.