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thread: TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08

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    TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08

    Welcome to TTC after Loss or Miscarriage for those of you who have just joined us. We hope your TTC journey is quick and successful. We are sure you will find much loving support from the other women on this challenging journey.

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    YAY I'm first !!!




    for some August BFP !!!

    OK now I'm off to nap for real !!!

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    Jen Jen..... I m SOOOOOOOOO sorry..... Last night I was a male.. I have no idea what came over me.......

    I went upstairs to BD.......and ummmmmm fell asleep straight after.....

    Sooooo embarrassed and soooooooo sorry Jen Jen

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    Ugh, I wish that my TWW was over already! I'm 5DPO and I'm getting twinges and niggles which are driving me insane!

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    good morning girls,
    there is no way i am able to keep up with what happened in the 5 days i was away! so im going to start fresh with this new thread...however, i did see a BFP for August already! thats wonderful! CONGRATULATIONS TUTMAE!!!!!!!

    well im back home, and having a rest today. had a really busy weekend...had 5 different events to attend on Saturday, and 3 on Sunday and i managed to make it to all of them! Needless to say im so exhausted and spending the day sleeping today!
    So, i had my first OB appt on Friday, and i got to see a HB!!! that was the most amazing moment, as i didnt get that last time! it was such a relief, it was so magical

    hope all the rest of you are doing wonderfully

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    Hi Ladies,

    Well I have been lurking (thanks Jen! ),

    First of all, CONGRATULATIONS TUTMAE!!!!!! Wishing you a very healthy and happy 9 months ahead.

    Jenushka - Im so very sorry to hear of your loss. I was shocked to hear that this happened and so very sad for you. Please look after yourself and allow yourself to grieve. We are all here for you, standing strong by your side...you can lean on us in this difficult time

    Tina - CONGRATULATIONS on seeing that beautiful little hb. What a joy it must have been.

    pbstar - my cycle buddy....how are things going for you? I am sorry that you had a difficult day the other day on your angels EDD. I hope you are doing ok and looking after yourself

    Big hello and to everyone else! Im thinking of you all.

    AFM - DH and I were supposed to use contraception this month, but forgot to .... So I guess im now in the TWW....BUT, this has got to be the last for the year, I have to make an effort to stop until next year, its for the best. But for now, I once again join all of my ttc buddies, and the tww'ers!
    You know how I was bleeding for 16 days straight...well its finally stopped! THANKGOD! It stopped just about as soon as I ovulated I think...weird! Anyway, Im that there are a lot more BFP announcements to come this month...here's some and for us all.

    Issy

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    Morning (or night) girls!!

    Tina K: Thankyou so much hon!! So very very excited!! A HUGE CONGRATULATIONS on seeing the HB darlin! That's such a wonderful experience.

    AFM: Got a few strange looks at the chemist this morning when I went and bought two different brand tests (after explaining I'd already tested twice and got a +ve). But raced home and got to poas-ing.... Bot positive still! Ok. Maybe now I'm starting to believe it. I've managed to get an appointment with my doctor this afternoon (called just as a cancellation had been made) so I should be getting all the tests and whatnot done then! YAY!

    for all!!!!

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    Hi ladies,

    I'm going to be like Tina and cop out of personals today you ladies chat too much and after a couple of days away I just can't catch up! But I hope everyone is well and congrats tutmae

    AFM, went in to the clinic for blood and a scan today and I have a nice big follicle, so should O in the next couple of days. The bad news is that I have what is probably a cyst as well on the other ovary. Although the nurse said to me that it isn't a problem, I can't help but be a little worried. I hope it doen't affect our chances this month, not to mention if we do have to go on to IVF, I hope the cyst doesn't delay us starting it. Oh well, I guess we'll check with the FS when we see him next week to talk about going to IVF next cycle.

    Good luck to everyone in August!!

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    Issy: Whoops we posted at the same time!! Thanks for the congratulations hon and for your tww!! I still can't believe you bled for 16 days!! Don't know HOW you coped! I'd be crazy!!

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    Hi girls,

    Once again...I had to make another appointment to see my FS . The 11th Aug was the date for the appointment, but I start my prac on this day, so I have had to make another one, yet again, so its now on the 22 Aug at 12:15....AGAIN, DONT LET ME FORGET!!!!! Grrrrrrr!!!!!!

    OMG....This never ends......

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    hey girls

    for the new thread

    hope everyone is doing well and had a nice weekend

    i can only be on here for a short time because i'm at work. bb has blocked my ip address on my home computer again so hopefully it will be fixed by tonight and i can write more then

    just wanted to say issy i am so excited you are on the tww too, would be awesome if you got a sneaky bfp when you weren't supposed to be trying...

    everything is going well with me, am dying to test though and trying so hard not to. am pretty sure i am not UTD but still hopeful...

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    Hi pbstar - Glad to hear you are ok I soooooooooo hope we both get our BFP's together! Wouldnt that be great...to go from cycle buddies to belly buddies! Im for us hun.

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    thought I'd pop in a say :wave:
    I have had 1 ectopic m/c, 3 m/c and s/b @ 21 weeks due to anencephaly and a healthy pg all this since oct 02

    we have been TTC since nov 06 this time we have had 1 m/c since then in May this year

    hoping it doesn't take me 5 years and 5 pg to give Jack a younger sibling

    Rach

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    Tina - congrats on hearing the hb. It is so exciting

    Issy - Tell the truth - You'd just miss us, if you didn't TTC (even if you are pretending that you aren't). that this is your month.

    PBStar - my IP address was blocked too this morning, so yours should be fixed at home. It's just so annoying, can't get my fix of bb. I sent an email to the provider company complaining about it, it just happens too often and i've asked bb about it and they say i'm not blocked on their end.

    Rach75 and Babyfever - So glad that you found us. This is a very supportive bunch of women, we've all been through m/c in many different forms (and times) and we're all out to help each other. Hope that your stay isn't too long and you get to move onto the PAML thread (that's our dream destination). Some have already moved over, some still pop in and visit and the rest of us have our seats lined up (we're just waiting for the right time).

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    Rach75 - Im so very sorry to hear of your losses. How hard that all must have been...my heart goes out to you You have come to the right place...the women in hear are all soooooo amazing! We all support eachother through every high and low, and they have helped me through some of my most difficult times during this ttc rollercoaster. I that is doesnt take you 5 years to conceive a brother or sister for your little one. I have been waiting 3 years, and am very hopeful that another year will not pass me by without a new baby in my arms.

    This can be such a difficult journey for some, it can bring so much pain and dissapointment, but finding other women to support you through it is the best gift you can give yourself. When you dont feel you can stand another minute of it and would rather curl up in a ball, these women are standing there by yourside, holding you up and shining the light for you when your own becomes becomes so dim you cannot see the path ahead. We do what women are best at...we gather around eachother and offer support, love and guidence in a way only women can.

    I wish you all the luck in the world for you ttc journey...may you be blessed with another child very soon.

    Issy

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    Oh and Mollycat - yes.....you may be a little bit right (or a lot )....I do miss you all....just cant help myself

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    Krystie--How come I feel like even though I'm at the top of that list, I'm really at the very bottom? Ooh, for implantation dip! Sure did miss our chat this am--was all by my lonesome except for 5 min. with tut! Snitch dogged me....she turned male on me and fell right to sleep after And I must have just missed you when I went to get ready for DF's skydive--though at almost 2 am, I'm sure you weren't up for chatting! Will look for you tonight/tomorrow! Big pill girl!



    Ruthie--What a sweet DH to go out at midnight to bring you ice cream! My DF would look at me and laugh if I ever asked him for anything at midnight! Consider yourself very lucky, my dear!



    Babyfever--I'm so sorry for your losses! I pray that you find peace and comfort from all the amazing girls here... My thoughts and prayers are with you during these dark days. Please feel free to share your struggles with us, as we've all been there--and it's a journey nobody should have to travel alone. When you're ready to begin your TTC journey, we'll be here cheering you on! Take care...

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    Rach I am so sorry to hear of your losses and I wish you luck ttc I also had a m/c in May it was my first and only pg so far I'm hoping to get pg and stay that way for 9 + months soon !!! Again I'm very sorry for your losses and you get a BFP soon ...

    KL hey girl did you cave and test yet or are you going to wait ???

    Jen where are you hun ???

    Pbstar big sweetie ...

    Ruthie I'm glad you still have m/s and everything is still going well ...

    Rachel how are things going with you ???

    Issy I hope you got the egg by mistake lol ...

    Ok I'm on my cell phone right now and it almost 12 am so big to everybody else ...
    *stickyVibes* *babyDust*

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