Hello Ladies,
Just popped in to say hi and thank you for your thoughts and yet more words of support. As well as being harder emotionally, this m/c and d&c has taken a lot more from me physically too. Have had much heavier bleeding and cramping (sorry if tmi)- quite heavy until last night. Woke up this morning and it has almost stopped completely o/night - down to very minimal spotting which is surprising but def not complaining. Am taking an iron supplement to help as I was feeling a bit lightheaded.
Had a good appt with Dr A last Fri (thank you for remembering Jen!) - results of recurrent m/c bt all came back completely fine which is good but a bit of a bugger iykwim... she explained the additional findings of the u/s, referred me to a counsellor - we also talked about my ob and Dr A said her reputation is that she is brilliant at being an ob but is not renowned for "hand holding". Have decided that next pg (in at least 150 years time) will prob stay with ob but get additional support from Dr A. Not much else to do now than wait until 26 Sept for follow up ob appt and results from testing on bub.....
Just had my good friend pop in - she turned up on my door step with a couple of coffees, yummy cake, tears in her eyes and lots of hugs. We sat and cried together about it all but a few hours later when she left she had me smiling and feeling hopeful. I hope you all have someone like my friend Chez in real life ...
Krystielove - thank you for your comments about going back on the pill - I really appreciate your advice and it def made me take a moment to sit and think about it. I was keen to go back on bcoz it felt like a bit of extra buffer I could put between myself and thinking about ttc but I would hate to go back on for a few months, come off and then wait months to start o again... that would suck more. So thank you again. And I am so sorry to hear witchface AF showed up at your place... I hope you are feeling ok. It sounds like dh is being a sweetie though - hang onto that one he sounds like a gem! Also - hope you were able to get an acup appt...
Jen - glad you are enjoying your holiday and good work at managing some well-timed nookie! How did you make sure ds didn't wake up tho?
sandygirl - sorry to hear af is on the way too... take some time out to look after yourself and find some strength and gl with the clomid for next cycle
Babyfever - thanks for all the info on your supplements ... so sorry to hear about your grandfather too...
Chappas and Rachel - enjoy your upcoming hols. They are the best distraction from the ttc merry-go-round
Everyone else - great bigand tonnes of
- think positive ladies and just imagine sitting down with your future bubs when they're older and telling them just how much you dreamed of them before they were here... it is going to happen
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