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Jenuskka.. I'm extremely ****ed off that the doc told you you have to have one more for a simple freaking tests. ( I have no doubt in my minnd you had the same thing both she and I did.. low progesterone. Easy freaking fix. Stupid doc wants you to m/c again so he can run the simpletest of test..I'm sorry but I'm not having happy thoughts for that doc!! :angry:
Let me tell you..this is quoted from a friend of mine..please read:
"I've had 2 miscarriages in the past and this last time when I found out, I went right to this new doc (midwife) that I'd heard great things about and as soon as she'd heard I had had 2 previous miscarriages, she ran 2 tests: one to check my HCG level (which was normal) and another test to check my progesterone level (which was incredibly low). She put me on progesterone suppositories that I had to take for about 2 months, but... I'm still pregnant. : ) If it weren't for her, I KNOW I wouldn't be pregnant right now. The last doctor I had went to said he wouldn't run tests for miscarriages until I had had 3 of them. I couldn't BELIEVE it! He expected me to go through losing another baby before he saw fit to run a SIMPLE test. Anyways, I wish the best of luck to you and your baby. Take care.
** **I erased her name*** "
Get another doc... My doc strongly told me that as soon as I became pregnant again I need the darn prog. Shot.. I really don't have a doubt in my mind you had the same thing. If that doc tells you he needs you to m/c again in order for him to run a simple test PLEASE RIP HIS EYES OUT FOR ME!!!!:rolleyes::angry:
I am praying for you.. I know your pain. And My biggest worry as well as it will always be your too is this painful thing happening agin!!! IT WON'T!! MAKE SURE IT DOESN'T!!
Doctors today...**I have my own stories..not too god either!!!!!***:rolleyes:
Sending you my deepest thoughts and prayers. You will be blessed ..You will heal.. but never forget. Those babies are painful to remember but too precious to forget!!
My bubs were tiny but the hole they left in my heart is larger than life!
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Ruthie
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Jenushka
I am so so so so sorry ... Huge hugs to you. I can't find the words to tell you how deeply sorry I am. If you ever need to talk I'm here.
Rach
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Jenushka please get a new doc you should not have to m/c again to get some test done that's crazy talk ... I'm praying really hard for you girl my heart goes out to you and please please stay strong !!! :hug:
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jenushka - I just can't stop thinking about you - i hope ur ok (well, i know ur not). It just highlights how unfair m/c is and that no one should have to experience it. Oh sweet, pls look after urself - feel what u need to feel this loss but do u, ur bod and ur family a favour and seek another opinion re ur tests - when ur ready. Big hugs sweetheart.
smilanatu & pbstar - my thoughts and prayers are also with you both at this sad time :hug:
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jenushka - thinking of you today. :hug::hug::hug:
That is really sad that you Ob is not interested in helping you have another baby. After my m/c my Ob was so supportive in helping us achieve our goal to have a baby. After my second m/c my Ob actually offered to do some tests with DH & I. I know there are alot more he could have done but he still did quite a number with us. I did lots of BT's and also a into hossie for the day for a hysteroscopy.
Although the tests didn't give us an actual answer for my previous m/c (although he did find & remove uterine polyp during the hysteroscopy) it made me feel more confident when we started trying again. When he found out I was pg again he was so excited (in a professional doctor way) but that kind of stuff meant alot to DH and I. There are Ob's out there who want to help and I hope your GP can refer you to one. Our Ob has made such a difference to our ttc journey, although he is not a miracle worker having his support & guidance has been wonderful.
:hug::hug::hug:
pbstar - hope your day is going ok.
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Ladies - again you have me just so appreciative of your support. I just read all of your posts out to dh (who actually got a bit teary) and he wanted me to come on here and thank all of you for your words of kindness. Whatever bad things are going on for you at the moment, just know that you have done a good thing by taking the time out of your day to post those words for me.
Doing kind of ok - my face was sore last night from crying so much, and my beautiful ds gets so worried now when he sees me cry that I am trying to keep it together for the most part. Have had a bit of cramping and a bit more spotting, so :crossfingers: I can hold out until Tues...
I went with Dh to an appt he had this morning with my lovely GP (now to be called Dr Amazing). DH told Dr A what happened yest and she was genuinely shocked and upset. I told her I wanted to come and see her next week after the d&c so she could explain the additional ultrasound findings ("bulky uterus"? Disinhomogenuity of the decidual layer"? etc) to me and she said absolutely. She also said we will talk about what we can do next and be proactive about this. And she will ring around and find the best counsellors in the area that will help with our situation, and have the details by the time I see her next. I wanted to hug her. So next Fri at 10.15am I have a date with Dr A.
Oh, and she bulk billed the 45 minute visit - single appts are normally $60.
I did have a smile earlier - I thought imagine if all of us came to each other's appts? I would love to sit in my ob's office next time with every one of you standing behind me with arms crossed glaring at the dr and just daring them to say - "there's nothing we can do, but just wait and see" :)
Oh and pbstar - thinking of you on your angel's due date too ... :hug: let the tears flow and be close to dh during this difficult time...
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jenushka.... looks like time will also give you a new OB..... My experience with my FS was just the worst. But I was new to IVF and knew no different that what he was telling me. I have learnt so much since my MC that I feel sorry for my next FS. I had Terry Sheehan strongly recommeded to me by my Accupunturist/Herbalist. She also knew my previous FS and knows EVERYTHING that happened. Terry Sheehan is on the North side of Brisbane. I have had to wait to get in there but if he is as wonderful as I ve been told then I will wait... my other FS was a monster.
The big thing I have learnt... change. There is no way in hell i would ever return to this other FS other than to abuse him, and even that he is not worth my effort. If you dont like how you are treated... leave... if you dont like their lack of compassion... leave... if you dont like bloody anything.. leave..... use this time to research ... speak to other people on here that are in Brisbane and ask who they see.... but dont... dont be where you arent happy.
Huge Hugs hun :hug:
Ohhh jenushka you must have been posting at the same time............
I sooooooo laughed at your idea.. I can imagine me sitting in the chair with my old FS... with my arms crossed.... "you want me to what... i m sorry I may not have heard you correctly....(spinning my head around to where you are all standing and having you all say nope.....bugger that... spinning my head back around to him).... nope... we decided bugger that and think you should pull your head out of your ar$e"
ROFL
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jenushka - :hug: i like ur Dr A - a good egg.
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jen - I'm sorry I didn't chat last night. Tbh, I forgot :redface:! So it wasn't mamma tiredness but good ol' momnesia!!!!!! sorry hun..... i'll just take my chances over the next few nights and hope to bump into u :)
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Smi: Sorry the dreaded witch showed her face hon!!!! I was sure she was banned! I hope you're doing ok :hug: I kep having dreams she shows up. Would be nice to switch of when I go to sleep but, alas, my brain has been highjacked by ttc.
Jenushka: I so glad you've found a decent doctor! She sounds like the kind of doc who would know all the right ob's too. I'm keeping my :crossfingers: that they all help hon.
You astound me with your strength! :hug:
Jen: Where were you last night? I even checked the chat room? Don't tell me you had a better offer?! No. No way!
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Cycle List
Smilanatu - CD1 NO FAIR!!! :hug:
Jen - CD5
Rachel - CD7
Megsmum - CD7
Vanaithi - CD7
Acria - CD10
Angel Babies - CD11
Sandy - CD13 (ish)
Easha - CD13
Joey - CD17
Issy - CD20
LizJessie - TWW
Chappas - CD25
Jodsan - 5DPO
Mollycat - 5DPO
pbstar - 5-6DPO
Krystie - 6DPO
SandyGirl - 6DPO
Larz - 7DPO
Toccara - 9DPO
Tutmae - 11DPO
Wow! There are 6 of us between 5-7DPO. I think there will be a lot of peeing going on when we all hit testing time!!! :dance:
Ruthie - 4w4d
Tina - 7w1d
Bettyboop - 8w3d
SaraJane 11w4d
Laura - 12w3d
AJC - 14w5d
Mel A - 14w3d
mmteacher- 16w
Canary - 16w3d
plc - 17w
Katiegirl - 26w
Nickster - 28w2d
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jenushka........I m going to put this in here and I really really hope the moderators can see why I did it and not spank me for doing so.....
YouTube - My miscarriage
Na na, na na na, na na
I miss you, miss you so bad
I don't forget you, oh it's so sad
I hope you can hear me
I remember it clearly
The day you slipped away
Was the day I found it won't be the same
Ooooh
Na na la la la na na
I didn't get around to kiss you
Goodbye on the hand
I wish that I could see you again
I know that I can't
Oooooh
I hope you can hear me cause I remember it clearly
The day you slipped away
Was the day I found it won't be the same
Ooooh
I had my wake up
Won't you wake up
I keep asking why
And I can't take it
It wasn't fake
It happened, you passed by
Now your gone, now your gone
There you go, there you go
Somewhere I can't bring you back
Now your gone, now your gone
There you go, there you go,
Somewhere your not coming back
The day you slipped away
Was the day i found it won't be the same noo..
The day you slipped away
Was the day that i found it won't be the same oooh...
Nah nah, nah nah nah, nah nah
I miss you
jenushka..... this song still helps me.... when i hear it I just stop what I m doing and just reflect on everything... I soooooo hope it helps even just a tiny bit.... I also hope I dont get into to much trouble :crossfingers:
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Smilanatu - Oh how unfair! I'm so sorry that this was not your month :(
I hope you gambling night was sucessful... :hug:
Easha - Hope you're having a ball skiing! I've never been skiing before. Actually, I've only ever seen snow once in my life and I was too young to actually remember it. I'd like to go to the snow, but at the same time I realllllly hate the cold...
Jen - Think yourself lucky. I just did the conversions (from litre to gallon and from AU to US dollars) and it works out that I am paying $5.35US per gallon over here :( Plus, that's after it went DOWN recently!
Rachel - No word about the test results at all? I laughed when I read you went to your old bedroom at your parents house, lol.
Pbstar - How did your day go today? I was thinking of you and hoping that you were coping ok. Did you do anything special? :hug:
Tutmae - I am soooo with you on the "even days" thing! Lol, and this month I am trying to hold out until 10DPO to start testing...
Ruthie - That's one fabulously dark line you have there! :)
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Jenushka - Once again I just wanted to wish you well and let you know I am still thinking of you and your DH. I'm glad your GP has been wonderful and I hope you find an obs that will be just as helpful. :hug: And I agree with pbstar, no need to lurk if there is anything you want to talk about. We are all here for you :)
Angel - I just had to laugh out loud when I pictured you shaking your head in the doctors office and saying "nope... we decided bugger that and think you should pull your head out of your ar$e" with all of us behind you in the peanut gallery! :ROFL: :ROFL:
Just saw the youtube video you posted. That song is so fitting to all of us :(
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LOL... dont blame me though... jenushka came up with that.. I just adapted it... I soooo laughed as I was typing it... could picture it.... still sitting here with a smirk on my face thinking about it.:lol:
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Hi girls,
Just popped in to say hi. I pop in every now and then to see how everyone is going. I just find it so difficult keeping up with everyone, working full-time and having a 2yr old takes most of my time (& I can't get on at work). I do think of you all often.
Jenushka- I just wanted to send you a huge :hug:. I am so sorry you are feeling such pain at the moment.
AFM- 6DPO & feeling lots of symptoms. However I did the last 2 months as well:(. I will test next Sunday. Once again, will be devastated with a bfn & petrified with a feint pos.I try really hard to keep postive, but it is way too hard.
I may be around a little more in this tricky week. :rolleyes:
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Well girls, I caved. I know it's night time and not my FMU and I should know better, but I'm weak. I poas.
And I'll be the first (I think) TO CLAIM A BFP FOR AUGUST!!!!!!!!!
Yep! 2 beautiful strong lines at only 11dpo. The picture is below.... here's hoping it works. I need to hear what you think so I know I'm not making it up!!!!
http://i106.photobucket.com/albums/m...P8020040-1.jpg
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tut.... well it looks crystal clear to me... the only thing I would ask is what brand is the test...... having said that, my test with DS (now nearly 17) was the faintest of faintest things... if the actual brand has nothing to do with anything I would say... YOU GO GIRLFRIEND.... WE HAVE OUR FIRST AUGUST BFP
