TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 08 #7

Jen did you test yet ??? I'm praying so hard it a bfp for you ...

Rachel I'm so sorry about AF you should see a doctor asap to see what's going on ...

Ok I will back later for more personal post I'm so sleepy right now I just got off work ...

:bfn: If no AF tonight, maybe I'll test again with FMU... will see what temp does first. No worries, though, I'm good!

YOU GUYS HAVE ME ON THE EDGE OF MY SEAT!!

Jen - I'm still here lurking. I'm sorry you got a BFN but hun it may need to be FMU after all. I'm praying hard for you.

Hello to everyone else - I am here waving, dancing, sighing, crying with you all. Special hello to mollycat and bday buddy. Big hugs to rachel and Van re AF turning up and anyone else I have missed.

Thinking of you all!!!!!!!!!

Jen: to ease your POAS urge use one... but PLEASE use one with FMU!!!!!
If you are pregnant it should show.. but it depends how early you are.. it won't show unless it's FMU.. if you get a BFN (no Bfns..shoo shooo) wait for FMU..that's when you will know for sure if "something's up".

Please use FMU.
Question:

"How important is it to use the first morning urine for an at home pregnancy test and if you don't what is the chances of a false test?
In: Chances of Being Pregnant


Answer:

The reason it's best to take a hpt with your first morning urine is because the hormone produced at this stage is still not very much and as the first urine is much more concentrated there will be more hormone in it than in the watery urine later in the day and also wait until you missed your period to test or there won't be enough hormone.





So keep in mind.. FMU!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!

Jen - I think the BFP is hiding.

mollycat - thanks. Yeah it does seem to be going quick now. I still worry but not as much as I did earlier on. Have my monthly appointment next Mon so hopefully he'll do a quick scan so we can check on bubs. How are you doing? Are you going another round of tamoxifen? Sorry if you've already said but I stuggle to keep up in here these days.

Thanks plc, Ruthie, and AJC! :grouphug: As long as no AF, and no temp drop, then I'll test in am with FMU. The test says it doesn't have to be FMU, so I have a feeling that I've already got my answer, but we'll see how it goes in the am. Was always doubtful that this was the month anyway due to FF changing my O day, so this wasn't unexpected.

Thanks again girls for being my cheering squad!

Jen: FMU! FMU! Keeping my :crossfingers: for ya hon!! :hug:

Thanks, tutmae! :hug:

Jen try again in the am I'm still praying for you ...

Ruthie I'm so glad everything is still going well with you ...

Joey good luck this cycle !!!

AFM I think I might give up on ttc it just seems like its never going happen I see women at my job fall pg everyday and the guys don't even want the babies I keep asking myself why them and not me and DH asked how far along would be if I had not lost the baby when he saw the pictures I took at the baby showers and told me how I should have a lil baby bump right along with them ... maybe I'm just not meant to have a child idk I just want a lil bub so bad and it seems like its never going to happen ... I'm sorry for being so down right now ladies I needed to vent I'm just around so many pg women right now I get depressed ...

Jen - I agree with AJC, that bfp is hiding! Good luck with testing with fmu I have everything crossed for you. Here with lots of :hug: whatever the result may be... and thanks also for your support of my thoughtless midwife experience! Greatly appreciated my lovely :)

And just had to pass on big big :hug: to toccara. I am so sorry that this difficult journey is being a bit tough on you at the moment. All I can do is say that you are in the right place here with these ladies.... be very very kind to yourself and keep that little flicker of hope alive - your little bubba is just waiting for the right time to make its grand appearance

For everyone - Masses of :pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust: and some :stickyvibesboy: too...

Jen- :crossfingers: that you get that BFP with FMU

Toccara- Sorry that you are feeling so down, i know its so hard to be around pregnant women right now. It's been 8 months since my last m/c and i still feel exactly the same big :hug: you should vent all you need.

AFM- It's 3.45am here and dont know whats up but just cant sleep:wall:

Toccara--Don't give up hope, hon! I know it can be a bumpy rollercoaster ride, with lots of ups and downs, but it will be SO worth it in the end when you're holding a precious little baby! It's definitely harder for me to see pregnant women than it is to see babies. All the pregnant women probably think I'm a freak for staring at their bellies--especially at the beach! :lol: Chin up, your turn's coming! Big, big :hug:




Hey jenushka! :hello: Thanks a bunch! :hug: back!



chappas--Thanks! Hope you're able to get some sleep--it's so frustrating when that happens! Take care, hon! :hug:




Angel--Too quiet without you, my friend! Missing you! :hug:

I don't knwo what time is your time Jen but as soon as I'm awake tomorrow (eastern time) I'm gunna stalk this post cuz I wanna red your post tomorrow announcing your :bfp:!!!!!

thank you Toccara and Mollycat :hug: You all are amazing friends!!!

I'm rotting for all of you girlies!1 you have yourself a cheerleader here in New Jersey!!.. :cheer:

I'm sendong you all my best wishes! C'mon BFPS!!!!!!! Af?/.. freaking SHOO SHOOOOO!!!!!!

Rachel hun how are you doing?.. is it AF full blown??? Darn Af! you are so in my prayers.. please do ask your doc cuz as son as I saw your pic I was like "that' a BFP for sure!!" So I don't know why AF didn't bug off!!! Don't give up this dream momma... hang in there!!



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♥ Ruthie

Jen - i think the test is just not working - :pray: that your temp is still up in the morning and you get a great result with FMU. Maybe you just drank too much this morning.

Tocorra - It will happen - your special little one just hasn't been picked yet. He/she is waiting with mine. (Hopefully they won't wait too long). :hug:

AJC - All the best with your appointment. Hope the Dr will give you a scan so you can have a peek at little bubba. I've finished the tamoxifen for this cycle, now just waiting for O. Don't know if i'll go again with tamoxifen next cycle or have a break, the side effects aren't too bad, but DH doesn't want me to take anymore. Mainly headaches and hot flushes. I walked around last weekend with a bright red face, feeling like my cheeks were burning. NOT a good look. Just don't know where else to go from here. We don't want to do IVF (gyno would love us too - i think we share the same gyno). Maybe I just need a break for a couple of months

PLC :hello:

hey mollycat. Yep same gyno. I think ttc is emotional enough as it is & IVF would be 10 times that so can't blame you for not wanting to do it. Doc discussed it with us too after DH's not so got SA and the main thing that worried me was the emotions. Plus - you hear of so many people have a 'break' and well BFP!!! :pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust: Really hope that is what happens for you (other than this cycle of course).

Jen - Am sure next time I log on I see a BFP for you! ! !

Toccara - Big Big Big :hug: You are meant to have a child and falling pregnant is your body's way of showing you that you can do it (cruel way of doing it but....). It took me a long time to stop myself from believing that my body was designed to have a miscarriage not a baby if that makes sense. It's so tough and life isn't fair sometimes & I'm so sorry to hear you are surrounded by constant reminders of that. :hug::hug::hug:

:cheer: This is the first time I've been able to get on here all day long! Looks like everyone else is having the same probs.......


So.... temp went way down this am, and I'm so glad I didn't open that second test, because AF showed her fatty fatty fat face (:lol: Krystie!) Of ALL the days to be unable to log onto BB--this was NOT the right one for me! PMS and no BB just aren't a good combination!!!

mollycat--Your temps are looking great this month, seem to be behaving so far! I know you don't have a coverline yet, but do you think you O'ed on CD13? Looks like your temps are heading up! :dance:



Angel--It's been far too long, my friend! I'm having Angel withdrawals! :hug:




Krystie--Have you finished that book yet? Wondering how you felt about the end of it....



tutmae--Where is today's temp, missy???

:hello: to plc, AJC, & jenushka--- Hope you're all doing well and getting lots of :bellyrubs:



tina--How's it going mama? How's those symptoms coming along? Hoping things are well with you! Lots of hugs and :stickyvibesgirl:



Ruthie--Never too early for some bellyrubs for you! :bellyrubs: and :stickyvibesgirl:



WTH--Still thinking of you everyday! Saying lots of :pray: that you're healing physically and emotionally! :comfort: