TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ October 07

[MistyFying]

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[mammal]

Thanks so much ladies! Every time I start to worry about it, I've been thinking "sticky, sticky, sticky" like a mantra. I hope this run of BFPs will spread to everyone on this list this month!

(Satya-- recognizing that a BFP isn't terribly likely at the moment, how about a financial windfall so you could have a child on your own if you wanted, or a loving, respectful, and financially secure potential mate to enter your life? How 'bout both?! )

[missbelinda77]

Congratulations mammal - that's wonderful news!

[Jayney]

Mammal- Yeah!!!!!!!

Here's sending you sticky thoughts.

[ElleJay]

Congrats mammal!

[butterfly_warrior]

Congrats, Mammal!

Finally feeling a bit more relaxed about the FET, although that will probably last up until I get the phone call which tells me how today's blood test went. Finally got the email I'd been waiting on regarding the autoimmune issues I have, and feel much more relaxed about that aspect of things. Now all that remains is staying calm and hoping my body will do the right thing for the clinic, and withing the timing that is most convenient to us.

BW

[Beaksie]

Grrrr. Just did a big post then lost it. Not happy!!

Hmm. Shall start again. First. HUGE congrats to you Mammal. Wishing you a H&H pregnancy. Woo Hoo!
BW- Glad to hear you're doing OK. Good luck with staying chilled out chick

As for me (I hope I havent doubled up this post somewhere)
Did a HPT this morning, and not surprisingly, BFN. Still 2 days to go till AF, and I didnt even use an early test, but couldnt help myself. Not holding out much hope, as I dont feel at all pg. BUT. Noticed last night stretchy ewcm. Then there was heaps this morning, though we did DTD last night so it might be from that?? (sorry TMI ). Thing is, I didnt notice ewcm at all through the rest of my cycle. Could I only be Oing now? And if so what the?? Hmmm, very frustrating when you 're body isnt behaving.
Hope if no BFP in 2 days that AF at least shows on time, so at least I know. Anyway, sorry about the rant.
Hi to everybody else. Hope you all had a great weekend, and bring on the BFPs!!

[satya]

Mammal - actually a BFP could be on the cards for me. Probably not very likely (nor smart on my behalf) but let's just say I'm going to be a little nervous for the next two weeks as something happened that shouldn't have happened yesterday (and I saw EWCM which I almost never get) and I'm pretty sure I felt O pains today.. It would cause all sorts of complications in my life, but I guess if it's meant to be it will be. I wouldn't say no to that financial windfall though.

[STARRYSKY]

satya- I wish you both if thats what you want........

I am so happy that some of us are finally getting BFPs !! So inspiring for me as right now I am in one of those, grrrr it will never happen moods.
AF today, was hoping against hope that she would stay away but I didnt get my hopes up too much.
hope you are all well, will get back later in the week for more personals.
xxx

[kiwigirl]

Congrats mammal!!!

[cherie26]

Wow another BFP! Congrats Mammal! Everything will be fine and you can look forward to a happy and healthy nine months!
Lets clear this thread out with more BFP'S!

[Dawneee]

Congrats Mammal: That's great news....Hope everyone else is ok? I haven't been on in a while I have been busy at work and worrying I am still Sooo tired and wasn;t too happy with my HCG results of 32 but my Doctor said I shouldn't be as I didn't know for certain how many DPO i was and it was still in normal ranges,I have had some waves of nausea (like before) but not much again I've been told it's too early I am roughly 4 wks 3 days and the last two M/C's were around 5 wks so I am not sleeping and feeling anxious it's awful! I am working for a week in Maternity week after next (delivering babies) I'm sure I will love it so long as all is still going well with me Oh well sorry I seem abit negative but I feel quite down at the moment I'm sure it's because I am so tired!
Here's hoping to more BFP'S and healthy long 9 months

[bunny's mum]

Hi All,

I'm pretty new to this forum, had a m/c in Aug at 7 weeks. I have been reading this forum since the m/c and it has helped me heaps. So a big thanks for that. We have just started trying again and hoping to be pregnant again soon. It's really hard to work out what my cycle is like now, as it used to be 28 with ovulation at day 14. I don't think that's the case now as i had o pains around day 12 this cycle. Hence, not too sure if we caught the egg this month. Congrats to Mammal and the other girls pregnant at the moment.

[mammal]

Bunny’s mum— Welcome to the group. I hope your stay is short and helpful.

Dawneee—how exciting that you’ll be working on the maternity ward for the week.

Oh my, Satya! In that case, my wish for you is that all your dreams come true with the least amount of hassle possible.

Beaksie—I usually ovulate around day 25. If I didn’t temp, I wouldn’t be able to keep track at all. Maddening! (I should mention that I don’t have a one year old to keep me up at night!)

Butterfly Warrior—hope the blood test results came out well. Is this the call to tell you whether this cycle’s a go? Fingers crossed for you.

Hi to LJ, MissBelinda, Jayney, Starrysky, Kiwigirl, and Cherie!

I rang my doc, assuming that they’d send me for a series of betas, but they just said to come in for an appointment at the beginning of November for the full pregnancy work up. I guess that’s normal protocol and I should be happy that they think I’m normal. And at least I won’t be freaking out about my beta numbers for the next few weeks, which is sort of my m.o. Now that I think about it, maybe that’s why they’re not sending me for betas! I’ve been a little nauseous today and tired. Very thirsty for the past three days.

Ohm… sticky, sticky, sticky.

[butterfly_warrior]

Yep, I have confirmation of when transfer is going to be. A little (I have a gift of understatement - make that a lot!) upset about the actual day as both DH and myself are going to get a bit of grief over taking the day off. Finding it very confronting to know that transfer is a go - lot of emotions to do with the miscarriage. Not sure whether I'm more scared of it not taking, or if the embryo takes then having to worry about whether the amount of prednisone I'll be taking is enough to counteract my immune problems.

I'll probably be very quiet for a bit as I work through all of this... but I'll still be reading. Just need to be a little self-absorbed for a bit.

BW

[littlescottishboy]

BW - you take all the time you need hun and know that we will be here for you when you decide to write again. Thinking of you for the transfer and sending all my positive vibes to you.

Bunny's mum- welcome to this lovely group. the ladies in here are awesome. I hope you (and the rest of us!) don't have to be in here for too much longer!).

Satya - ahem! A bit of action never hurt anyone, my love! I hope you get what you want this month.

Mammal and Dawnee - another congrats to you both - just so happy for you.

Cherie26 - can u please sprinkle baby dust on the rest of us? Thanx!

StarrySky - sorry AF came hun. What a cow. Have a glass of wine or two and relax before the big BD fest in two weeks' time!

Beaksie - thinking of you and hoping that AF stays away and that it was too early to test.

Big hi's to everyone else i missed!

As for me, about to enter BD zone. Have had one round of acupuncture (was great!) with another one this Friday, and have started chinese herbs which have made me feel AWFUL. So nauseous and killer headaches. Hope it's bl**dy worth it! We will be trying to BD lots and have put the FS appointment off for a while till we see if this new arrangement works.

Big hugs to everyone.

[charlie23]

Congrats Mammal, here's to a very sticky bubby!

I missed last month's eggy, not surprised though as DH was away at O time....

I am desperately hoping to catch it this month...not sure if it will be remotely possible as DH will be in Perth for 2 weeks come next monday.....please O happen between now and then!

Hi to everyone, I will try and keep up!
Kelly

[Jayney]

That is four of us this last little bit!


I hope to see all of us in the pregnancy threads soon!

Satya- I am hoping for a BFP for you. Did you work everything out or was it temporary insanity? I've done that before