Two Week Wait Support...

Hey, everyone it's been a while since I posted hope everyone is well. I see theres been alot of new people in this thread. As for me I am sooo stressed. According to my calender i o'd on the 21st I suppose to get my af on the 4th of september i figured i do a hpt on the 31st before i went away for labor day weekend andcame back neg. I tested again on the 3rd and another neg. my af is due today and no sign of it. i have no symptoms except alittle nausea and heart burn and some slight discharge (sorry for tmi). I really don't know what to do?? any advice could these symptoms be something???

Well it looks like AF has started early for me. Although its very different to normal, i guess it just wasnt meant to be this month. :(
Im starting to wonder if something is wrong, i am never early, always on time. And it started off really brown and now is very pink and not that heavy. I have tested again and still BFN. So i dont know what the deal is.
Guess its back to the drawing board...goodluck to everyone else.

hugs
treelo :wall:

Hi all!

This is my first attempt (ever) at writing on a forum...so please bear with me!

I want to start by saying that I have been reading the different threads re TTC after M/C & Loss since July 07 following my miscarriage (first pregnancy) on 05July 07 - and I am now hooked on reading your updates/comments! I can say that whilst I've not even met any of you, your words and thoughts to each other have been an absolute blessing and encouragement to me during this time. I have also found relief in the words that you share with each other, as I know that I am not alone in what I have felt after the M/C (ie the grief and devastation), and what I am now feeling as I go through the TWWs.

I am now on my second full cycle after M/C, and am currently waiting for 'O' again. I am terrible at the TWW thing, as I fixate on every little symptom that my body has - during the last TWW, I had really convinced myself that I was preg again - nausea, bloating, changes in taste.... I went through so many HPTs leading up to when AF was due thinking that surely I was going to get a +ve any day...but it wasn't meant to be. My DH has been extremely supportive and understanding. I think he was initially surprised when I had told him that I was reading these forums every day (because that's not something I would usually do!), but he now thinks it is a good thing because I've found people who are going through very similar experiences (physically and emotionally) - I think at one stage he must have thought that I was the only woman in the world to be charting temps, testing saliva every morning etc. I do thank each of you for sharing a part of yourself and your experiences on these forums. I have no doubt that there are many more people like me who have been (or are) 'on-lookers' who are drawing encouragement and hope from what you share. I will soon be in the TWW again (next week)...but my prayer is that we will all be out of the TWW repetition very soon.

kaib

Hey Treelo,
I am sorry af came early :(
The same thing happened to me last cycle I got mine two days early and started out similar to you then got heavy for two days then two days of spotting and that was it. My af usually goes for at least 4 to 5 days of bleeding then spotting so this was a suprise. I just think after a miscarriage everyones body does different things in order to get its self back to normal so this is probably a one off thing. If you are concerned though see your dr. Are you temping? if so did your temp go down or has it stayed elevated?
I know how frustrating it is just when you think things are getting back on track you body gives you another suprise. I hope it all sorts its self out soon and hopefully next cycle we will both get BFP's!

Thanks Cherie,
Yes AF is in full swing this morning. I dont know why im so upset, i thought that it would come, but im sitting here with tears in my eyes. Maybe its because im trying so hard.

hugs
treelo

*bighugs* to Treelo. I know how you feel. I suppose we all do in a way. Last Wednesday when AF was in full flow, I just cried and cried at work. My boss ended up sending me home. We just have so much hope and happiness, and our futures, tied up in whether or not AF comes, so it's natural to be upset when she does arrive. Just try to take care of yourself.

I'm not actually in the TWW just yet (hope you don't mind me posting ;)) but I will be in a few days. Trying so hard to not think about it (as it seems to be the best way to fall pg!), but I'm checking cm, making sure we BD every two days (today will be tricky as DH has football training and is always tired and grumpy after that), and keep logging onto FF and here! So much for not thinking about it...

Lisa xx

Hi - where is everyone today? Its been so quiet in here and the TTC Sept thread for days! Getting lonely.........

Im here hun

That'd be right!(lol) Baby girl has just woken up from her arfternoon nap, and i can hear Mummmieee, Daaadddiie coming from her room, which means Id better go and get her. Ill try and get back later tonight. Hope you're well Treelo. Miss chatting to eveyone. Please come back... (do I sound pathetic enough?) :boohoo:

Hi Ladies,
I am new to this forum, although I have been reading the threads for a little while. Firstly there are so many kind souls in here, with so much love and support for each other it is amazing. I also am comforted by other peoples stories and have already cried several times reading the heartbreaks.

I have had 2 mc's this year and would have been due next week with the first of them. As the time draws closer I feel very emotional, and have avoided talking about this to most of my friends and family for fear of totally bawling my eyes out and not being able to get the words out.

I am here in TTW because my AF is due in the next couple of days, and I have been TTC. I have only just discovered Fertility Friend this cycle and started charting half way through. So I have my fingers & toes crossed like everyone here that there will be a BFP sometime soon...:pray:

Kaib~ It seems weird to ever "welcome" someone in any of the miscarriage threads but its nice having you despite the circumstances in which we are all here! I am glad its helped in lurking for a while I did the same exact thing until I couldn't help but post to at least say thank you to the women for being so supportive and great it really touched me watching that between everyone! I hope your month comes soon, good luck

Cherie,

I just realised that i didnt even answer your question, i do apologise, i was not with.
No im not temping, i dont even use OPK's, so im not sure what my body is doing. I never remember to take my temp, i always remember half an hour after getting out of bed...so thats just not for me.
If nothing happens in 3 months then i will. Im just waiting because DH had chicken pox and apparantly that reduces sperm because of the temps he had. And sperm takes up to 90days to regenerate, so its only been 2 months, ill give it a bit longer before i totally flip out.

treelo

Treelo: My understanding is that sperm take 7 weeks to regenerate. So you could be good to go?

Hi everyone! Anyone around? Hmmm. Im at 10dpo and trying, trying, trying to not use those Hpts in the bathroom. Dont want to waste them at 10 bucks a pop, and I know it's probably too early anyhow. Anyway....must resist, be strong etc. Not feeling too optomistic anyhow, as have no symptoms. Oh well.
Hope everyone is great, and catch up soon XX

Hey Beaksie - if you can't resist testing you are going to have to get yourself a stash of the cheapy internet ones. I can recommend the lullaby conceptions ones, they are reliable and cheap.

Thanks for the tip, but I really think I need to test (and stress) less, not more! (lol) Hope you're doing Ok Satya.

Hi everyone..
Im new to this thread..I wish I had found it sooner!!
I've been reading most of your stories (couldnt read them all cause GOSH you girls can talk lol;) )
Well I was thinking I should start joining into this thread because my 2WW drives me CRAZY!!
Right now Im waiting for AF (or hopefully not;)) to be here Thursday or Wednesday of this week.

I'm not bloated this month which is strange because right before AF I get BLOATED, I normally have a fairly flat stomach so you can tell straight away.
Maybe a bit TMI, but lately I have been having ALOT of discharge in my undies. Its all white but feels like AF until I check.
Im thinking it could be DP escaping (lol sorry) from the last time but this has happened for the past few days and Im thinking it maybe be AF coming.
My breasts are SO sore and very heavy and my abdomin, just in the middle of my hips above my pelvic bone has been getting little twangs and stabs which kind of feel like ovulation pain.
Also I've been quite gassy lately. No matter what I eat or drink, or sometimes even on an empty stomach I will burp like I've drank a huge bottle of soft drink and sometimes it comes out the other end too hehe.
And Ive been feeling quite weak and sick lately, although my mum just got over having a strain of the flu so yea....not sure.

It all looks so promising, especially the not bloating so far bit, but I dont want to get my hopes up as last month I was nearly 98% positive that was the month and when AF came it broke my heart.

Well thank you for listening to my little rant hehe...
Good luck to all ladies TTC this month and sticky vibes for all!!

Welcome EnglishRose,
Yes there sure do sound like promising symptoms.. i wish you all the luck in the world that this is your month !!!

treelo