Two Week Wait Support...

Lizjessie, how did his surgury go?? I hope all went well. Did you do a test or are you waiting till tomorrow?????

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treelo

I tested at 3am this morning cos I woke up dying to pee. It was a :bfp: but a very faint one. My DF could see it when I showed it to him which is good, cos I thought I might be imagining it. It is barely there. It's 13DPO for me now. No sign of spotting and my temp went up .1 of a degree. Feeling a little bit excited but I won't get there fully until I see a strong dark BFP.

LizJessie - It is quite serious surgery that your DP has had done and the seriousness may not have hit him until he was hit with all the things that can go wrong. They always do that to you in the hospital just before you go in to theatre.... they tend to tell you every possible thing that can go wrong, including death. It's the worse thing as it almost makes you want to not get done whatever procedure you're about to get done. I remember when I had my lap done they told me they could perforate my bowel and I could be on a bag for the rest of my life, or they could have to do a hysterectomy or I could die. I was sitting there scared stiff wondering if it was worth risking all this stuff just to check my fertility. I'm sure your DP will get more positive as he starts to feel better.

]Satya, How long did you take the Vitex? Do you think it helped? I've been thinking about it for the short LP.

mammal - I've been taking it since I think February and I conceived that month. Been taking it ever since. My first ever pg (long before knowing about Vitex) took me 3 years to achieve, so it does appear to do somthing.

Satya that is awsome news! I am at work and was that desperate to know that im using my mobile to log into belly belly! Its so tiny, will add more when i get home. Hugs - treelo

OoOo good luck satya!
I really hope he does get more positive, because I'm sick of seeing him like the way he is and I feel so useless :(

Satya- Do you remember if the Vitex altered your cycle (particularly the O day) that first month?

mmmmmm this waiting game is pretty boring isnt it..... i bought 2 boxes of hpt's, so thats 4 tests. It says it can pick up hcg 7-10 days before AF...its the same one i used last time and i got a positive 6 days before. Im such a sucker !!! i even know in my head that there is not much hope, but ill keep tormenting myself.

Good luck with the BT Satya.
hugs to everyone
treelo

Treelo - when I have the money I'll be doing the same, buying them when I've got AF back

Why cant it be something that we can know straight away !!!!! Once pregnant, we have to wait 9 months, so why make us wait sooooo long to find out if we are pregnant !!!!!

Yes im in a whingy mood, i have a really bad headache and had it for 2 days now....i normally get a bad headache when AF is coming, but i also had lots of headaches when i was pregnant. The sore BB are really weird though, they are worse than when i was pregnant. Im wondering if its something to do with going back to normal bra's. I was wearing maternity bra's before the miscarriage but now im wearing normal ones. Is it possible that my BB have not gone back to normal size and the bra is making them sore??

treelo

mammal - don't know if the Vitex altered things as I wasn't charting before the m/c so Ihave no way of knowing exactly what was happening before. All I can say is that my very first pregnancy (without vitex) took 3 years to achieve (with a different partner), my second one (after being on Vitex about 6 to 8 weeks) took 9 months to achieve) and this one has taken just 4 months so I think it has had a good effect for sure. I was only taking it originally because my mother gave it to me as my DF was complaining about my mood swings when AF was due.... and it has helped with that a little, but not a lot.

treelo - it could be the change in bra that's causing the problem. Are you sure it's the right size? They say most of us get around in the wrong sized bra so it might be worth getting measured up. I recently switched to 16DD bras after wearing 16D bras & I've found them far more comfortable and think that I probably should have been wearing them for a while. I've got to say I am a little worried what sized bra I could be in soon as I'm bound to get bigger. Good luck with the rest of your tww.

:)

Just wanted to tell you that if you don't have success this month and you run out of HPTs I can recommend getting them on the net through LC. I got a big bundle of them I think about 3 cycles ago and I've still got several left. They cost me less than half of what they cost at the supermarket & I bought the mid stream ones. The strip ones are even cheaper. Also I've never heard of anyone complaining about evaporation lines so they appear to be very reliable and they are definately a bargain.

I will get my BT results back today. She marked the test urgent so that's how I will know today, otherwise I would have had to wait longer. I didn't even have to ask for an urgent one, she just read the notes on the file and knew I was desperate to know. Please keep your fingers and toes crossed for me.

Good luck with the rest of your wait ladies.

what is L.C ???

treelo

Sorry Treelo. Lullaby conceptions. You can google their website. They sell all sorts of stuff to do with TTC and it's way cheaper than elsewhere.

I checked out the website satya, when I decide to activate my credit card, I'll probably buy stuff off their

Thanks Satya, looks good. If i need more after this cycle then i will get them from there.
Good luck with your bloodtest, i hope you get the levels your hoping for.

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treelo

Yes satya! Let us know what happens :)

Lj - are you going to test tomorrow? good luck if you do.

As for me.....I woke up to a face full of zits and the usual headache. I wore a materity bra yesterday to see if that stopped the BB hurting but no change, still sore. Lucky its not time to BD because i have been in a right royal mood the past few days.

hugs to all
treelo

Hay ,

i am way past ovulation and AFwas due 5 days ago. there is no sign of her but no real PG signs either. MY nipples are really tender this morning and been peeing alot- those can be attributed to AF and PG. so far 3 BFN. Is it pos could be PG but not showing enough hormone yet or is Af just teasing me????

congrats satya on on BFP hope can join u soon