Hello i am hoping someone can help me with my question / questions.
Im 34 and have suffered 3 m/c and currently experiencing my 4th. Currently 10weeks pregnant and went to have our first ultrasound yesterday to be told "one sac, one jellybean no heartbeat" sadly our baby has died.
After consultation with our gp i was told to go home and take one day at a time. as you can imagine both my husband and i are having a very difficult time. as i have no bleeding, spotting, pain or cramping part of me wonders "could it all be wrong"? With the previous m/c at 8, 14 and 7 weeks i experienced a relatively normal pregnancy until spontaneous bleeding and cramping resulting in our m/c. We have had some testing after the third to be told there was nothing wrong medically and was all put down to "bad luck".
What is really doing my head in is the thought that although i have been told there is no heartbeat and the baby has died i am still experiencing all the "pregnancy" symptoms i was up until the news; and was wondering when the bleeding and cramping is likely to occur. the doctors are unsure as to when the baby died but the thought of carrying around my dead baby while still feeling pregnant is daunting and terrible. can anyone help me?