thankyou both for your replies. i have since done a little research and although i have experienced 3 m/c previously had not heard of a missed m/c or a silent m/c. but i agree with you both that this seems to be the situation. I have had 1 D&c post the 14wk m/c but feel i will be phoning both my ob-gyn and gp tomorrow to request one espesh if nothing happens in the next couple of days. the pain of waiting for a spontaneous m/c is too painful. hugs to you both for helping me out and answering my question