Hello I just thought i would let you know the latest. After an emotional weekend of lots of crying and swearing i saw my ob-gyn yesterday morning whom did confirm that it was a missed miscarry. although i had convinced myself that as i had no bleeding or pain that the results were wrong. he let me down gently yesterday and confirmed that the bubba had in fact died and a d&c was organised for last evening. what was a positive is that he is on my side and going to do further tests to rule out what is happening and why this keeps occuring. he took sample tissue last night to check the babys chromosome makeup and to rule out whether there was something wrong with bubba. he is going to consult with a specialist at the royal melbourne about the tests we have had to date and what further tests to have. i have a list of questions for my next appointment. although i feel numb at the minute im relieved that he is going to look into it all further and help me the best he can to achieve our dream of becoming parents. thankyou once again to all of you that have helped me during this journey. big hugs to those going through a similiar situation and know that like me you are not alone. xxxx