Thank you for that beautiful message Beata, very touching. :hug:
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Thank you for that beautiful message Beata, very touching. :hug:
Always here for you hun, even if it's just for a wee hug :hug: xxx
Morning Girlies! Thought I'd pop in before I went to work *sigh* Today should be very interesting!
Tildy - It's between 35-38 Degree's C here atm. We're meant to be getting a few 41ish days shortly which thankfully I'll be back at work then and in some nice air conditioning! :)
beata - Ooh, it sounds like a nice place to go on holidays though, even if it wasn't you're original plan :) Yeah, well after telling my mum that we're moving the wedding back, she is still telling people the same date ;) Silly Girl, she does amuse me sometimes ><;;
Berry - The lengths we go to!! :lol:
dd0207 - Mmmm, not really over the weekend. I've had some more really light pinkish bleeding though, which I can only really see when I hold the toilet paper in direct light and about 2 cm from my face (sorry for TMI XD) A big part of me is hoping that when we got carried away DTD last week I got a strong little swimmer, but then it worries me a bit as well incase I get complications for not waiting for my cycle to return to normal before falling pregnant again. Does anyone know if there are any?
MrsRobbo - I'll be praying for you!!! Comeoonnn BFP!! :pray:
Zachary's Mom - How did you go with your spring clean? I desperately need to do one as well, I had planned to on my time off but, well, it didn't happen XD
AFM, I spent the w/e helping DF and my dad chop down a tree out the front of our house. I'm incredible sunburnt and was so exhausted yesterday I had the best sleep since forever last night. Not before time!!
dee81 - I'll be thinking of you starting back at work today as well! I'm going back today after 5 weeks of leave and lucky me on the first day back I have to have a meeting with our HR department in regards to a troublesome co-worker. Ugh! They really just gotta give him the flick already :wall:
Hope everyone has a good monday! xx
Well this day isn't going to be very flash, I'm already shattered for not being able to see my little bump in my work skirt anymore
Hi Girls, I'm just dashing off for my first exam but was wondering if some of you chart fanatics could take a peek at my chart and let me know what day you think I ovulated. I thought it was the day of the temp spike but FF is saying a few days before that. Your input would be most invaluable.
Will check in tonight with some personals
Paula
xox
Paula, I reckon you O'd yesterday. I think FF puts the crosshairs where the temp starts going up but it may readjust after you add a few more temps. I hope you were action jackson yesterday!
Morning to all. I've been in the office for almost half and hour and motivation still hasn't caught up yet.
Morning all
Just wanted to give a quick :hug: to Dee and Teagz for their first day back at work today. I hope you get through it ok.
Teagz, apart from giving your body time to heal, OBs like you to wait for AF so they can calculate next pg dates correctly. Then obviously waiting for test results is very important. If you caught a swimmer, then I wish with all my heart you get your BFP and all goes beautifully next time.
CD 21 for me today. I stopped spotting yesterday morning only to have the biggest bleed after BD last night. Aaaaaggggrrr.
Teagz, the OBs we met with after losing Beiron all said that it was okay for us to start TTC again as soon as the infection risk from the D&C was over, and that all the recommendations out there to wait 1-3 cycles or whatever were myths doctors perpetuated in order to try to "help" with the emotional healing. Aside from, as Diane says, waiting for the first AF gives you a date to count the pregnancy from. But they were very clear on saying that my body wouldn't get pregnant again before it was ready and that info out there about how you have an increased m/c risk if you don't wait X months was just false.
Hey girls
All this TTC talk takes me back...I got some good news this morning from a good friend of mine that I met at Sids & Kids. She got a BFP this morning :D She lost her angel last April after her placenta stopped growing at about 32 weeks and had an early m/c late last year so hopefully it will be 3rd time lucky for her. She turns 35 in May - thought you might like some more inspiration to keep up the BDing!
Paula - I was actually checking out your chart yesterday wondering if you had o'd already as the temps were up that little bit but todays hike is a bigger jump so I think I will have say yesterday was the day but it will be interesting to see what ff thinks after you enter a few more days worth of temps. I know with the last chart I did it took about 4 days to get it right (and it did cause my pg dates all match perfectly to that chart).
Diana - good luck with the IVF decision. Must be a hard road to go down. That bleeding after BDing doesn't sound good - you were getting that early on after the birth and D&C's weren't you? Your poor cervix :comfort:
Teagz - I have heard of women getting pg on their 1st cycles and having no problems. I guess the biggest thing would be finding out what went wrong last time (if they can find anything) so you can hopefully do something to avoid it this time around. After I lost Luke I was told to wait 2-3 cycles but I think some of that advice from my ob was more due to emotional reasons rather than physical. I didn't have to wait for any testing or results either as we knew pretty much straight away what had gone wrong and we did not bother with a PM.
Beata - good luck with the surgery. I shared a room when I was first on bedrest in the hospital with a woman who had had a hysterectomy through the abdomen due to massive fibroids and she said the pain wasn't too bad. She was only in for about 4 days which seemed pretty good considering she had had such major surgery! Not sure if that will compare at all to you but thought I would share anyway :redface:
Nothing new to report from me which is a good thing! I had a bad night on Sat night with terrible bowel pain which kept me up for a couple of hours and almost had me ringing the hospital in case it wasn't bowel related but it finally resolved itself and I have been fine since. Was bound to happen after 3 weeks of antibiotics and bland hospital food and now suddenly I am having real food again and no AB's and I think my system has gone WTF?? I see my ob again on Friday and have another scan then too so fingers crossed my resting at home is having a positive effect on my naughty cervix. Oh and very excited to say I am 25 weeks today!!! YAY! :D
Sending big hugs and hello's to all of you that I missed x
Congratulations on 25 weeks Jo! I could never distinguish between bowel and pregnancy pains, it's frightening isn't it? I am glad to hear that you are feeling much better now. Bring on Friday!
Yep, I was getting the big bleeds before but haven't had that for a while until last night. Back to spotting today :( I have an appt with the clinic tomorrow so will see if I can get in to see him and find out what the hell is going on - am so over it.
Big hugs to all.
Thanks for all your info girls :)
I'm having an internal battle with myself at the moment. I want my body to be properly "healed" before we try again, but then I think -well it had been three weeks before we even started having sex again after the D&C so surely that's long enough, and then my want for a baby overrides the lot and I'm back to point dot :)
BB your killing me here! or its my computer...
hey girls!
have been trying to post and write etc etc and having some issues!!! I can't believe how many postthere are to catch up on and now my poor Ds is standing (impatiently) waiting for me to get off here now so it looks like i'll have to re-read and catch up on personals later! sorry!!!!!
have'nt been on because i ended up working the whole weekend and its safe to say that i am not functioning properly now because i am so tired! no news on TTC for us yet but i will be ringing my psychic today to make an appoint ment. i hope she has'nt gone away these hols as i really want to see her!i also after work put together our new study furniture which has left a giant blister on my palm so i don't think that helped the tiredness issue. poor Dh was up for it but i could'nt be bothered by the time i got to bed! lol!
be back later -he has now climbed onto my chair...hint hint...
xx jo
Just a little bit of a good omen I saw today (cos I'm a dork!). I was on my way home for lunch and was following a van, and without a word of a lie, the numberplates were "BFP 005" ;):
Teagz, It's out of your hands now so try not to worry to much until you know what the outcome is. If you caught your little egg then hopefully all will go fabulously, and if you don't, at least you will get a proper AF then there is nothing stopping you!
Oh Teagz, how funny, there are 2 cars in my complex - one is BFP and one is BFN - NO JOKE! I never turn my head where that car is parked but I walk past the BFP one and always give it a little good luck rub :)
Hi Jo, it's not you, BB has been down all arvo. Hope you get to see your psychic soon and join the many TTC-ers in here lately! Big hug to your blister so it heals soon and try to get a good nights sleep.
Off home now, will try check in a little later.
Lots of love
Diana
Thanks Diana! I gotta relax a bit, I know.
Spinny about the cars!!
Hi lovelies
I am trying to not be so obsessed (but doesn't help when BB goes off the planet!) with what is happening on BB lately so please excuse me for not being 'around' much! I felt like I was really starting to neglect other things in my life because I just wanted to be here all the time, that says something for all you girls! The down side to not keeping in regular contact is now I have soooo much to catch up on, man you girls have been busy.
Forgive me in advance if I forget someone it really isn't intentional! Firstly I would like to say thank you to everyone for not kicking us out because we are not TTC anymore, I remember vividly telling Katie not to leave us!
Jo76 - It is so good to have you back on here, we were worried about you! I too have just got a new bookcase/cubboard we have just put together for Corey's room, and I have sanded and painted one of my old bedside tables for him, it really looks like such a cool little boys room now!
Teagz - I agree with what Tildy said, there really is no 'time frame'. Good Luck and I hope we are hearing that BFP very soon. I hope today isn't too bad for you.
Diana - That bleeding sounds a bit odd, I'm glad you are seeing your DR, it will be interesting to see what they say. IVF it's such a hard decision isn't it? My cousin has a DD (3yr in April), it took them a while to fall with her but they just put it down to DH being away with the Navy. Fast forward to trying again, and it's taking ages again, she is only 28 and technically has 'nothing' wrong with either of them, they made the decision to do IVF and she had the same dilema, but in the end she just said 'you know what, I want this baby and I will do anything to get me there faster than this, the technology is there so I am going to use it!' It's unfair but age is a factor for you, I'd say go for it!
Jo - How scary can bowel pain be? I had some when I was admitted with Cooper and now when ever I get it, it freaks me out. YAY for 25wks!! Will they give you any steroid shots? You are a star! Good luck on Friday.
Paula - Good luck with your exams, I thought you were finished? I'm with the other girls on 'O' yesterday. You just like to trick us.
Sue - Is your ticker new? I don't remember seeing it before, it is flying!
Rozzie - I hope you are feeling much better now.
Beata - Glad you had a great holiday, it sucks when they are over.
Theresa - I hope you are feeling a little better with a new year started, and if I haven't congratulated you already I will again! Hopefully you'll get that BFP soon too.
Hi to Hammi, Katie & Anna, Dee, Tildy & Berry.
I feel like I have the decorating bug, since getting Corey's new cupboard, I have sanded and painted a bedside table, his table and chairs, a terracotta vase (that used to be a lamp until I got sick of it), another lamp and our ugly dining chair pads! Before you all say 'take it easy!' It really wasn't hard work anyway, the sander did all the work and I painted in a really open place with the fan blasting any fumes away. It probably sounds silly but I felt like I was losing my identity a bit and it feels good to do something I find rewarding. Problem is I've found a new obssession and still am neglecting things I shouldn't, like the housework!
Theresa - I'm sorry if I missed it, but did AF come???
I wonder what happened to my ticker? I hate it when things like that happen, not the best omen!
Just quickly - AF has still not come! I am going to hold out for 2 more days before I POAS. I don't want to get my hopes up too much as I am still getting the odd cramps..... I can only hope!
I will be back later for persies - have to go make dinner as DF is hungry!
Ohhhh Theresa, you may be being very patient etc, but my hopes are sky high! I wouldn't be able to help myself!