Trying To Conceive After Stillbirth/Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage August 2008
If you have found yourself in this forum you no doubt have had a painful journey. TTC after recurrent miscarriage/stillbirth or Late Loss takes special courage and support. The aim of this forum is to provide a place where women who have endured loss can share their stories, friendships, treatments and triumphs!
My greatest wish is that you all leave this forum with nice big fat positives in the shortest possible time!!!
I hope so much that this month is YOUR month.
If at any time you'd like to make a suggestion, or provide any constructive feedback for this forum, please contact one of your following moderators:
Fllowerchild
Niliac
Alternately you may contact Kelly (however she may take a little longer to respond at times!).
Email addresses can be found here.
We appreciate all your feedback as it does help to make our forums a much happier, relaxed place to chat! We will always take your comments seriously - all comments are treated confidentially...
Just to let you all know. Some incidents that occured recently have led me to approach the other Moderators and Admin about an idea for a new thread. The others agreed that this could be a good idea. Lucy has just finished setting up a new Sub Thread Titled "Support/Debrief After StillBirth/Late Loss/Death of a Child. You can find this new thread HERE This I forsee as a safe arena for those that feel they can benefit/need a place to talk freely and openly.
I hope that members find this helpful.
I am sleepy and will finish doing some posts and go to nighty nights!
BB tomorrow for some personals.
Hi all - just wanted to start this thread off with some babydust and stickyvibes. Fingers crossed we get some more BFPs in here soon.
I will need to look back over the last thread to see how I need to say hello to, but I know I started writing a post the other day and it got eaten. It was mainly to say that Jo - sorry that yor dr chose his words so poorly. I hope he has learnt something from this (and the med student) and will move forward with a better idea of what to say to support you. I won't say how strong I think you are, as you probably don't feel it at times. Rather I will say that I hope you are sleeping ok (I found that was very difficult) and are taking care of yourself. Big hugs
Happy to see my ticker saying 29 weeks, I am looking forward to 30...it seems like a good number. Will be back later.
Katie I am glad to see your ticker saying 29 weeks too! It is so wonderful to see those weeks tick by. On that note Tildy and Rozzie's tickers seem to have jumped on ahead too! Fantastic!
Rozzie - I just want too wish you a very peaceful day tomorrow for Edwards EDD. I hope you find comfort and love in whatever you choose to do, even if it is just lying on the couch! Look after yourself and DH, I will be thinking of you.
Jo - How are you going? Have you had to have Madison's farewell yet? That is yet another unbelievable thing that no parent should endure, I send ALL of my love and strength for you, as you need it far more than me at the moment.
Hammi - How are you? Now that a week has passed by after Hamish's EDD?? I am OK, although I am still doing the 'I would be just over 41 weeks now, if I were still pregnant'. I have too learn to stop that, but the sad realization is that it will never stop, because there will always be anniversaries of some kind, I just have too learn to live with that.
Rozzie - I hope you were able to find a way to remember Edward on his EDD yesterday. I am sorry this message is a day late, but DH was using the computer all day yesterday doing an assignment. I hope the day was a peaceful one, and you were able to remember Edward as the beautiful boy he is and will always be.
Helen - it is only natural to count the weeks and think where you would be. I still find myself working out how old Nathaniel would be - in fact he would be 4 months and 2 days (assuming he came on his EDD). I feel like I have been pregnant forever. Even the couple of months in between the two babies, I still felt pregnant or acted is as we were TTCing. I only drank a couple of times, but mind you one of those was a complete reversal to my old party ways from years ago...as sick as I was the next day it made me feel normal again.
Jo - how are you? I continue to thnk about you and your lovely family and of course Jack and Madison.
Trying To Conceive After Stillbirth/Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage August 2008
I have too learn to stop that, but the sad realization is that it will never stop, because there will always be anniversaries of some kind, I just have too learn to live with that.
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