Happy 9 month birthday little Nicholas. I know you're are up there looking after all of your little friends.

Mel - I really do think you should pack Nicholas' things away for now but hold onto them, you just never know how you feel about them later. If you decide later that you can't use them or don't want them, then you could pass them on. I think if I have a girl this time, I will use some of the things we had bought for Asha, but we did put aside some things just for her. But I guess I won't know until the time comes. It's quite a big thing isn't it?