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Sorry everyone that I haven't been around. I have been around just not posting so much. I have another migraine today and am feeling quite awful... I just wanted you to know I am here just not with it.... :hug:
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happy 8 months harrison - spring thinking of you today. hope harrison is shining down on you today.
jo - i think you need to mention how you are feeling, if you feel you can, it wont be taking away from the new grandchild but giving of your storm. they are probably pouring their emotion into this new grandchild as they don't know how else how to handle the situation, tell them what they can do to handle it the way you would like it handled.
deb - i had to tell you i dreamt of you last night, i raced in this morning to see how many children you have, I dreamt of 3 girls and a boy and you were around 6 months pregnant, you and your family were having a picnic in a rotunda at the beach. i don't know what it meant but it left me with a really good feeling
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Did I already have 3 girls and a boy or was that including the pregnancy???? I already have 3 live girls and 1 live boy...
I hope it was including the ones I have and that it was a lovely premonition. Thankyou Klee...
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there were 3 girls, a boy and col inside, so that would make 5, one of the girls was a little older then the other 3. i have just looked at their ages on your signature, it seems about right. you mentioned in the dream you were having a boy, but that might have been me thinking subconciously of Col meaning a Colin.
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That's lovely Klee - I am bawling my eyes out right now... It all seems so tough sometimes - I just so much want to hold *Col* in my arms live and healthy... :hug:
Sorry, it's all about me - feeling very trashy today... :hug:
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its allowed to be all about you you have gone through so much, i just wanted to let you know about it because i found it significant in that i know you have had difficulties getting past certain points in the pregnancy and the fact that you were 6 months was beyond that timeframe. the other thing was that you were very relaxed, the sun was shining and it was all very "happy". I'm sorry i didn't mean to upset you, i just wanted you to know.
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mel - good luck tomorrow, send me an email on how you go. I had to save this for today, but I wanted to joke that i'd beleive you were mexican you have a mexican neice!
well i am just about out of here, have a good few weeks ladies, remember lynn and mel if anything important happens email me, i should be able to check the emails from my sisters place. I will be thinking of you ladies and your angels, so take care of yourselves. mel looking forward to hearing of that bfp on my return. I've just been warned of the heathrow injection so lets hope its the weight gain for a good reason! take care
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My love you didn't upset me - it has made me smile and feel good... That's always a good thing... Thankyou so very very much for sharing it...
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I just wanted to say that I don't know where i'd be without you ladies for support, out here in the country access to support is really hard, so having you girls here to listen and talk to is great !
Just thought i'd tell you that (i'm being a real sook today :boohoo:)
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jo, be a sook as much as you want to, let it out.
i just had one myself i'm a little freaked out, read into this what you will, I went to buy some things to take with me and I had two options to get to the shop i wanted to go to, the straight way i had to cross a small road, the other way I had to go down some stairs then back up some, i took the stairs, it was on that way that I saw a shop called "Phoebe Angel", i let flow, i had to look at it more than once, i even took a photo of it just to prove that i wasn't seeing things. it might be just a shop but i am taking it as some kind of sign
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Oh wow Klee, amazing if you didn't go that way you would never have seen it!
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I am a very firm believer in signs... It's a sign if it feels like one to you... :hug:
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~ HAPPY 8 MONTH BIRTHDAY HARRY ~
Give your Mummy, Daddy and lil Spring huge sun kisses today :hug:
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Hi Everybody -
Deb - I hope your migraine has gone, I wonder if its the stresses giving them to you. I believe in signs too, and Klee's dream gives me shivers - Col is closer to you arms each day that passes, I guess that hard thing is that those days are like living cat and dog years :hug:
Klee - As I said, I believe in signs too and I think Phoebe directed you to go the way you went because she wanted you to see that shop. I think maybe it is a sign from her that she is with you :hugs: I hope you guys have a nice break together, I know it is hard but you do deserve some laughs and good times so dont hold back.
Jo - You are not a sook! You need to let it out and who better to let it out to than women who understand your emotions. I have to agree that it is extremely insensitive to be sending you photos of the baby, especially if they havent even asked if you are ok seeing them. I think that a tactful email saying you are in too much pain about Storm at the moment to be included in the celebration of life. I hope so much that AF stays away on Friday. As Lynn said, for some reasons AF plans visits on important dates and anniversaries - its like rubbing salt in the wounds. :hug: to you for Friday, it will be tough regardless of whether AF shows or not.
Spring - I hope you are ok today, I have been thinking of you :hugs:
Lynn - Another week down, before you know it m/s will have kicked in and you will be having that u/s.
Governor Tightpants ;) - I am just about to check out any answers you got to your VBAC2 post, I hope you got some answers that help you.
Well its "post-coit" day tomorrow and I am really going to try to talk FS into giving IUI a go regardless of the results of the test. Surely if I am willing to pay for it its not an issue? I just want to try everything possible, I really need to feel like something is being done.
Anyway, Ill be back later I am sure.
Mel :)
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Actually I have a question for Deb (or anyone else who can help me)...
So this "post coital" test tomorrow which is obviously done on CD12 is to check if the CM is of a consistency for sperm to swim easily. I assume they do the test CD12 because you have the pre-ovulatory CM? I have checked my CM tonight and it is not anywhere near that egg-whitey stuff. It is just normal, does this mean there is a problem? The way it is at the moment I would probably assume (Dr Mel I am :lol:) that sperm couldnt swim through because its barely there.
Anyway, bascially what is CM supposed to be like on CD11/12? Should it be starting to get that kind of "slimy" texture?
So sorry girls - I know TMI :redface:
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Nah I love cm questions!!!!!
Good question though Mel. If you generally ovulate around cd14 give or take a day then the post coital test should be done on cd12. I think I remember that you are a cd14 oer is that right?
Even though the mucous you see at your vagina looks thicker that doesn't mean that it isn't nice and slippery up at your cervix where it counts... This is why some women will say they never get ewcm but they get pregnant. It's not always lookin good at the vagina but it's lovely up there at the cervix...
That probably hasn't helped much... I am thinking of you tonight and tomorrow. This IS exciting my love it's the beginning of that baaby for you and your DH... :hug:
My headache has lifted and I am about to hop in a hot shower... It's been a long and difficult day today.... I suffer from migraines anyway but they do become more frequent in pregnancy so what I am experiencing is very usual for me in pregnancy unfortunately. Interestingly though my last two pregnancies I havn't had them...
Nighty night everyone... :hug:
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Thanks Deb - it does help :D And you are right according to OPKs I am a CD14-15 oer. So yeah I should be in the pre-ovulatory phase atm.
In your knowledgable opinion what do you think my chances of convincing the FS to do IUI would be if the CM and sperm are working together just fine? He said that it wouldnt really be beneficial for us if they are, but I still think it would be worth a try seeing as they implant only the healthy sperm right where they need to be.
:crossfingers: the headaches are good sign, as much as you dont want them at least they are telling you you are UTD :) Enjoy your hot shower, I had one when I came home - nothing better!
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It depends on the FS. My obs/FS was happy to use IUI on me after 6 months. IUI does give a higher chance of preganancy. REason is that you get all the good sperm put right into the uterus - no obstacle course to get there they are there and ready to meet egg.
If you want to give IUI a burl and you are willing to pay then it is your right to ask for it my love... Good luck I am thinking of you... :hug:
