Hey Nat - how are you? It is always good to *see* you here. A lot has been happening!! We are a talkative bunch :D
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Hey Nat - how are you? It is always good to *see* you here. A lot has been happening!! We are a talkative bunch :D
spring is so right jo, although i have to say my SIL is around about as far along as spring, last year she had a m/c and an ectopic and as much as I want to be happy for her with what she has been through, i still have some reservations on my feelings, don't get me wrong i am happy for her, but it is damn hard.
lynn - i am still having positive thoughts about that sore throat, it sounds all too familiar. no no testing from me, I refuse to have any in the house and besides I'm resigned to teh fact that we missed it this month, i say just bring on AF already.
headache getting worse, almost making myself sick with dread, going to wait until she is ready to go as i have a feeling that all eyes will be on me with my reaction
Thanks for sharing your experineces and your friends' experiences. It helps SOOO much that you all know and understand what I'm saying. I don't know anyone else who's had MMC or stillbirth except one SIL and she won't speak about it.
I avoid going out now too and last year going to and from Pre School to collect my DD was torture 3 days a week due to the collection of pg women and new borns. I was pg 2 times that year and lost those 2-but now I'm worried as I'm not even getting pg as I did before. I am ironically doing more and more "things" like Acupuncture, Chinese Herbs, Supplements, Hypnotherapy, Charting etc to help but it seems to be worse! Any ideas???
WARNING- VENT coming...What really gets me is things like- I was friends with a girl who was ttc and very, very depressed and frustrated- I spent hours walking with her, talking to/emailing her and gave her all the details of my FANTASTIC Gyno, acupuncturist, herbalist, GP etc, to the extent I was having to miss treatments with my Acupuncturist who became fully booked as she was there every week! I talked her through all the investigations and procedures (and I m/c 3 times in that time) She then finally fell pg and I was the last to know and I haven't seen or heard from her since except one grumpy unhappy email 3 months ago complaining long and hard about every detail of pregnancy. I find that as time passes it gets worse, I just want to be pg and have the baby and get over this hump!
Thanks for listening- I have nobody else to speak to that would understand.
Jo
:happyforyou: :happyforyou: :happyforyou: WoOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOO Bailey!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you only dtd on the 5th of May let's say you conceived on the 6th of May... So you were about 16dpo when you had your blood test. 78 is within normal limits for that gestation. Below is another chart that is used: Always remember tht pregnancies implant at different times. So, if your pregnancy implanted at 8dpo your level will be lower than someone who implanted at 4dpo... That is why an isolated number shouldn't be over analysed. YOUR figure is fine...
* At 14 DPO, the average HCG level is 48 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 17-119 mIU/ml.
* At 15 DPO, the average HCG level is 59 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 17-147 mIU/ml.
* At 16 DPO, the average HCG level is 95 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 33-223 mIU/ml.
* At 17 DPO, the average HCG level is 132 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 17-429 mIU/ml.
* At 18 DPO, the average HCG level is 292 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 70-758 mIU/ml.
* At 19 DPO, the average HCG level is 303 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 111-514 mIU/ml.
* At 20 DPO, the average HCG level is 522 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 135-1690 mIU/ml.
* At 21 DPO, the average HCG level is 1061 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 324-4130 mIU/ml.
* At 22 DPO, the average HCG level is 1287 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 185-3279 mIU/ml.
* At 23 DPO, the average HCG level is 2034 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 506-4660 mIU/ml.
* At 24 DPO, the average HCG level is 2637 mIU/ml, with a typical range of 540-10,000 mIU/ml.
The MOST important thing is that the hcg increases by at least 66% in a 48 hour period. This is accurate really only up until an ultrasound will show an embryonic heart beat at around 6 weeks and 4 days... Sometimes even then it can't be seen but by 7 weeks *most* times it can be sighted by 7 weeks.
Your figure shows that you are in your 4th week and that fits with when you had intercourse. If you want to feel very confident you could have a repeat level done tomorrow which should show that 66% rise.
I am so very very happy for you Bailey - this is wonderful wonderful news!!!!!
What type of antenatal care are you going to have? Have you got an obs? Sending you a HUGE congratulatory hug my love!!!!!!
Austrajoey: You are in the right place - WELCOME. I am sure that before long you will get to know all of the fabulous women in here - I hope your TTC journey is short.
As the other very wise women said - everyone has a story... Even those pregnant bellies have their story - they will be different but sometimes no less painful... It is very confronting to see a pregnant belly. For me, when I see one I think "how did you do that".... "How did you get that far"... Well I know I have done it before too but it's confronting... We understand... :hug:
I am fine - feeling a bit pukey today and oh so exhausted.... That's okay, no complaints from me! I am having weekly u/s until who knows when... So that means each Friday for me... So this Friday at 9.30am it's "dildo cam" time again! :cryinglaugh:...
I will feel more confident when I know that *Col* is growing as he/she should and I can see that heartbeat again... As you all know historically I haven't run into problems until I reach the second trimester... From 12 weeks I will be seeing my old mate the Fetal Med Obs for weekly uterine artery doppler readings and u/s... I think that will continue until 18 weeks. The injections are fine - lovely bruising but that I can live with. My face is round and chubby looking (unusual for me) due to the prednisone. But, small price to pay to take home a live baby...
I will pop back later to hear Tess's news... :hug:
jo - when i first had counselling through S&K they gave me an excerpt from a book written by a UK lady who had had multiple m/c, an ectopic and a s/b who went on to have other children. I don't know if it would help but I can find it and let you know the name and author, it may be worth a read.
HI GIRLS
Bailey first things first :happyforyou::happyforyou: and I have to say I told you so implant pains!!!!! Im am just so very happy for you. And yes your levels are good for where you are at but to be sure you can have a BT done every second dat and they should rise every 36hrs. When im pg I have one done every second day just to make sure! serial BT ......I need my very own NUTHOUSE with bt on tap and U/S 24/7!!!!
Take it easy (Iknoweasy said then done) and relax let that baby grow big and strong. This is going to be such a big end of the year /new year!!!
Lynn Hope that cold is not getting you down to much and that it means good things! wait till tuesday you will be more confident with the answer then.
Spring Im thinking Oliva is a wonderful name for that little one! hope your well and growing Im so sorry I missed sunday but I do belive it is down my way next time?
Deb How you feeling my love? I love to hear sickness etc we down sound a little mad, I always wanted the sorest boobs, the worse M/S, tiredness 24/7 and no bleeding what ever colour. I do hope that headach is better. Did you read my post as to emailing that stuff? If not where can I send you my email address?
Mel Hope its a little warmer in brissey and you to get that big BFP very very soon.
Tommysmum Sorry I didnt get to meet you on sunday but hopful sson I will. are you well?
Austrajoey You are in the right place and Im so sorry for your loss, I to know the deep bottomless pit of recurrent miscarriage, Ive lost 13 little ones and have been tryin for seven and 1/2years, it is a pain you cant explain and you never get over it just get a little easier everyday and some days I still get a little tear.....You and only you will know when the time is up, to stop but until you get that feeling you have to keep going on with hope. I hope you can find something from all these wonderful women to help you through and make this road a little less bummpy. My prays are with you and that you get a BFP very soon.xxx
Klee I hoping that AF will stay away and you to will be UTD, im send lots and lots of babydust your way xxxx
Alex dont you just love HI 5(lol)...Im not to wooried about what they teach the kids but whats with Nathan?????
If I missed anyone Im sorry it jsut takes me so long to catch up with all the chatter in this post I mean do we win anything for how many and how often?:lol: Im so sorry girls I missed sunday but I felt so bad after DS & DH went to so much trouble to give me MY DAY! It was like right I have to go now and be with the girls...so sorry but I will be at the next one.
SKIP THIS NEXT BIT - Just needing to get some stuff off my chest and out there:- Im a little down today, I was sitting having a coffe with my girlfreind AFTER a big walk this morning, watching all these little kids crawling and tiny new borns in the park (mother group thingo) and we were talking about our big boys or more how big our boys are getting and tears just ran down my cheeks, that I to should have been getting ready to give birth soon, you think your strong and dealing with everything well then something sets you off again.......I so much want to start trying again but I know Im not there yet, of being able to deal with the whole S^%$ of it all.....Im sorry Ive just downed the whole thing but I know I will feel a little better after this, so you can just skipp over all this!!!. I think also that DS is catching the bus home yes the bus.......his choice Im not sure if im ready to let go of that litle string just yet DEB maybe you can help me out with this you have older ones!! BUT anyway......see I do feel a little better already.
Well after that I will send this post and talk soon oh by the way I should be cleaning the fridge out!
Luv Nat xxx
OK look at what I have to catch up on since I was writing my novel! Deb I will email you now.
Nat
Wow, you all understand- that in itself has lifted my spirits. I have been struggling along, not wanting to take anti depressants due to ttc, and really pasting on my smile every day while I robotically do my jobs. I am so sorry we are all here and it's good to see the BFPs.
Dream, I know how the tears just come over what seems in itself a trivial thing/comment. I actually feel like what you've written could have been written by me.It is a courageous thing you are doing- have you ever had any answers for the mmc? Without my Gynae I wouldn't be able to go on, I must have the kindest and friendliest guy who just patiently encourages me like a kind older brother, humouring my obsession to test for everything I may have seen/heard on the net(!)
Jo
Oh big big hugs Nat... :hug: I understand about things setting you off... YOu have had such a painful journey my love - be gentle with yourself and know you don't always have to be strong... I hope that your time to TTC again is soon and that we can all help you through the trip...
The bus: It's a big one hey. My 11yo catches the bus home from school - but we live in a little country town and the bus drops her off at the end of our road (I can see it from our house...) I find the letting go thing hard... My DD11 is not very responsible - she is a bit of a dreamer so she worries me...
Hey Nat, do you take paying guests in this Nuthouse of yours - it sounds my kind of place!!:lol:
Know where you are coming from on the bus thing: my 10yr old walks to school, it's only 5-10 mins but I worry if he is a little late home, even though he walks with friends! I think he must be the male version of Deb's DD - he is such a dreamer and is in la-la land half the time - but may have to let him on the bus when we move to Taupo in July.
He will be 10 1/2...the 15 year old isn't much better actually,thinking about it:rolleyes:
Hi Girls - I'm back :)
CONGRATULATIONS to Tess and Bailey :confetti: Wonderful news girls!
Big :hug: to everyone who is not feeling all that flash.
I am so sorry but I am not going to do personals because there are just too many pages of posts that I have missed - I have read all of them though.
Well I didnt post yesterday cause my flight was a little delayed and I didnt get in until jusdt before 9pm and then couldnt tear myself out of DH's arms for the rest of the night. We stayed in Caloundra and spent time there, in Mooloolaba and Marooychydore, we drive to Maleny and went to the Cheese factory (YUM!) and drove to Eumundi and all around that part. I had a good time, ate lots of good food and had a more than a few ****tails - probably irresponsible with the whole 2WW thing but I thought bugger it, I am probably not pg anyway so I am not ruining my holiday the same way I have made myself miss out of so much stuff over the last 8 months just to have AF arrive anyway. The best bit was after dinner on Monday night we went for a walk along the beach and I collected shells for the kids, we walked for about an hour away from the restaurant, which was already a 20 min walk from the hotel, and as we decided it was time to start heading back it started hammering down, we ran to a shelter and by the time we got there we were soaked, it was still pretty mild in temp and we were already drenched so we decided to walk home in the rain (over an hour away) and we walked barefoot through all the puddles and by the time we got home I was so soaked through that even my undies were soaked LOL. Anyway, it was nice but a little too long, sounds weird I know but I missed DH sooooo much :( I have decided I am never going away without him again, well maybe 1 night I can handle but no more than that. Spring I dont know how you do it with your DH away so often!
Last but not least, I gave in a decided to do HPT this morning and surprise surprise I got a -ive :wall: You would think you get used to it huh? But no, each one hurts just a little bit more than the last!
Klee - Good luck with your lunch today, it is gonna be tough but if it helps I think you are really brave for just saying you will go.
Lynn - Have fingers and toes crossed for you :pray:
Bye for now,
Mel
Oh just one more thing - Nicole just wanted to say welcome to the thread and I am glad you finally felt comfortable enough to introduce yourself, I am positive you will find everyones support makes your journey a little easier :hug:
Just a quickie to say my BT results are not back yet - grrr - what is it taking so long? I have to call back at 3.45pm and if they are not there then it will be tomorrow. Still the result will be the same whatever - come on blood people test my blood!!!
bailey - not sure if I have already said but yeh - get designing that ticker honey!!!
T.
mel - welcome back, we've missed you. sounds like it might have been just the thing that you needed, except next time with dh. good to have you back
lunch went well actually, her son was a little charmer, hard to be upset when i was looking at him. headache is still here though
Oh Klee, well done you for getting through it so well, I bet it wasn't easy :hug:
Klee - Thanks for the welcome back :D I am so glad you got through lunch ok, you are so strong (I still find it hard to see others babies, apart from my niece of course). I hope your headache goes away soon, lol at bumping your head and forgetting - lets blame concussion ;) I hurt myself all the time I am such a cluts (?sp), I can trip on thin air or headbutt the car, that's a fave I always do that and you've seen me its like I am so tall I cant judge the height! Yep, just a cluts LOL
Yay Mel is back! :confetti: I'm glad that you had a good time away. You never know those ****tails could be the trick to a bfp! Keep positive babe :hug: You still have a few days to test. I know what you mean about missing DH. I went over to Europe for 3 weeks a few years ago without DH. It was terrible. I tried to enjoy myself but everything I did and saw I kept thinking DH should be experiencing this as well. We had never been apart before and we haven't since!
Klee - Wow you are so strong :hugs: I hope you are feeling ok after the lunch.
Tess - sort them out!! It is awful waiting for bt results! I don't understand what takes them so long!!!!! Will come back later to hear the great news.
Nat - I just want to give you a big hug :hug: I will call you cos I am a bit down today as well. Let's have a good cry together.
Sh*t girls - where do i start - i check this morning and there was a little bit to read then only to return and you have to be a speed reader to catch up on all of this. I know i am going to miss heaps so i apologise in advance....
Mel - welcome back - sounds like you had a wonderful time and i think just what you needed...so wet undies hey ??? Don't stress about the -ive..i know it is hard but it will happen - you do know that don't you ?? :hug:
Bailey - 5 times - oh my god - YOU ARE PREGNANT OK ! But i don't think you are a serial tester...:rolleyes:
Spring - Olivia is a nice name for your girl isn't it - come on you can do it just bloody tell us - i mean who are we going to tell ??? And hello - you are very confident about tonights game - as far as i am concerned they can all belt the crap out of each other - i am so over the footy - but i probably will watch a bit here and there...
Tess - i am sure everything is fine with your bloods - but it is frustrating. How are you going ? You mentioned cramping - i had this for a few weeks before i found out i was pg and a few weeks after - thinking it was AF still coming (it was the same pain i get when AF is coming)...very bizarre so i am sure everything is just fine and this is all normal - how much we notice more of any symptom now...what a bugger !
Klee - i am clumsy with kicking my toe (usually the small one - why do we have it anyway ?..it just gets in the way for me). Hope you are doing ok.
Flowerchild - "dildo cam" - i love it ! Well, i don't mean that i love the procedure but i love the term that you use - great i will be thinking of that next time i have one (if i do).
Heybacko - i really thought it was going to be your month this month...but it will come. I hope you are ok.
Austrajoey - welcome to the thread. All the ladies here are total nutcases (including me) in case you haven't noticed. Sorry to hear about your losses. It is a terrible thing to go through. Take care and will talk soon.
Dream - nice to hear from you - chin up babe. Was looking forward to seeing you on Sunday - but definitely next time out your way.
Lynn - how are you doing ? not long now (i know it seems long but when you get to your BT for your results it will be well worth it).
Hello to everyone else.
I probably won't be online for the next few days as i have MIL to entertain till Sunday. Take care everyone and don't talk too much !!1
Ermmm, excuse me??? I am totally normal....okay there was the time I used a tube of 50 HPTs in a week, testing in France...but that was essential....:
Admittedly, Lynn is a bit dodgy...and Mel and Spring are barking.....oh Bailey is a serial tester so she is crazy......Nat is borderline (although she has twigged about Nathan from Hi-5!!)....
Oh bugger it...she's right....we are all mad!!!!:p
Welcome back Mel - I missed you... :hug:
It sounds like you had a wonderful break - I must have missed the post where you said where you were going. We could have caught up!!!!!!! I live in Maleny (well out of town at least).... I feel really disappointed.... I am sorry that I didn't pick up on it... Next time okay????
I hope those results come in today Tess... WE are all waiting here with you...
HeybackO: LMAO about your post. It's funny cause it's true :cryinglaugh:
Mel: welcome back honey. You sound like you had a really great time with your friend. I am very envious, that is a beautiful part of the world. I am sorry about the BFN babe, I don't know what to say other than that is really crappy and I hope that AF stays the hell away.
Nat: I don't know how I'll be when my kids grow up and want to catch the bus. I can't even cope with my dogs going to the kennel for a few nights...lol....pathetic huh. Sorry that you had a tough time seeing all the kiddies today, there are just some things that act as triggers and that sounds like it is one. Hope that you are feeling a little cherrier this arvo. When DS catches the bus home give him a huge hug... Even though he is growing up he is still your little boy.
Deb: I didn't realise you lived at Maleny. We used to take weekend drives up there all the time when we lived in North Brissy. I just miss that place so much, you could go there for a day and feel like you had had a holiday.
Tommysmum: I now formally appoint you Deputy Director of the trying to trick Spring club (lol) Good luck with the MIL over the next few days. That sounds like my worst nightmare but hopefully your MIL isn't a complete psychopath like mine and you actually have a nice time.
Lynn: Sorry that you are feeling so down babe. If you need anything I am home today so just let me know. I agree, the sore throat may be a good sign. I am sure it doesn't feel like a good thing but :crossfingers: it is a BFP symptom.
Oh and finally, there is only 16 sleeps until DH is home. Started at 131 so I am getting excited. I know it is tough being apart from our DH's but I have found spending time alone and being happy with just me has really helped me grow into a strong person. It may sound a bit deep and meaningful but I am proud of the fact that I can maintain my sanity with DH away so much. However, I am entirely fed up with it so bring on 8 June I say.
Ok, better go and clean the shower and get the sheets off the line. Exciting stuff huh.
I'll be in later.
Lv Spring
I am so sorry ladies - I just called my doctor again and the results are still not in. WE all now have to wait until tomorrow.
I will catch up with you all tonight when i get home from work - too busy at the moment. Grr why did I move to a finance position!!!
Speak to you all later.
Oh you poor love having to wait until tomorrow... One more sleep... :hug:
Hello Ladies,
Wow, I was only offline for a couple of hours and look what happened.
Mel - Welcome back. It is good to hear that you had a good break. It is hard to be away from DH. We do it a couple of times a year when DH goes on his surfing trips and then I go shopping in Bangkok. It is really hard, but I think that it is good too. It is funny though, when we are apart I forget how much he can ***** me and I turn him into some kind of demi-god. Lol, it only takes re-uniting for an hout or so to remind me. No but seriously, it is nice to come home to them isn't it. Oh, you can youtube the Olden Days and it is in 6 parts, I have been watching them....OMG it's champagne comedy! Oh and with the BFN, don't worry yet, I tested sunday night (oops, I hadn't revealed that yet) and got a blatant BFN then tested Monday night and got the BFP! So it can change by alot in just a day. Fingers crossed for you!
Flowerchild - What would we do without you?? Thanks for all of that info. I think that I am just going to go through the Fetal Maternal Unit, I thought I could go private but I just discovered I don't have OB cover on my health fund. I have my first appointment in July at 12 weeks and they will discuss it with me there, I was hoping to go earlier, but they said they don't see anyone earlier than 12 weeks, even under my circumstances. The nice GP that I saw yesterday called me today and wants to see me on tuesday for another BT, which surprised me as with my other 2 pregnancies, they did one test then just referred me to the hospital. Maybe she just wants to re-assure me?
Dream - Oooh, I don't know what I will do when DS starts to get the bus and other grown up things. He is going through that 'I do it my own self' thing at the moment, and it is so sad :( And yep, you must have been right about the cramps...why didn't I just listen to Dr Nat in the first place? I could have saved a fortune on HPT's :D I understand that it is so hard when all you see is preggo's and new-borns everywhere. I felt that particularly at christmas time, wherever I went that was all I saw. I got to the point where I just didn't want to leave the house. It will be you soon I am sure.
Tommysmum - Stop trying to trick Spring, it's not going to happen! She will not give in I am convinced. So sorry about you being stuck with the MIL again, didn't she only just go home?? And you love the dido-cam huh?
Lynn - Are you feeling any better? Not long til you can test now huh? Saying that, this week will probably drag on for you. Crossing everything and rubbing the pig for you.
Heybacko - I think that the little jumping guys have been used so much in here lately that they are getting more coordinated.
Klee - Glad to hear that lunch went well. I had AF like cramps last week, and was convinced she was about to drop in, but a wise person told me that they could be implantation cramps. I also had headaches on and off for a couple of days too. If AF doesn't come in the morning, get a test. Good Luck!
Tess - Sorry that your results aren't back, you just want to hear the words from the doctor don't you. I did 5 tests and still didn't believe it til I got the BT results.
Hi too to everyone else, there are so many posts I don't know if I missed anyone. I was trying to write the whole post in Blue to anny Spring, but I am not feeling overly confident about our team, so if we win, I will do it tomorrow :D Go the Roaches!!
Hi Bailey - your ticker is fantastic. Have you worked out an EDD yet?
T.
Love that ticker Bailey.... :hug:
Nighty night everyone...
hey guys,
I haven't really worked out a due date, if my cycles were normal it would be the 23 Jan, but as they tend to be about 34 days, the calculator worked it out as 29 Jan. But I will have an elective cesarean (as my other two were c-sections) so it will probably be a couple of weeks before that. So, not really sure. What about you Tess, when is yours??
BAiley -luv the ticker - very cute !
YEs MIL was here a few weeks ago on her way to Scotland. NOw she is flying back in the morning (6.00am) and i will be there to greet her (in my PJ's), before she heads back up to Tweed on Sunday.
Are you going to go thru the HIgh Risk CLinic ?....is that the same as the FMC ? Also, are you going to see if you can see Prof Bennett public ?
SPring - ok ok you guys just got a try..but you are going to NEED IT !
so we are all having hot summer babies hey ! won't that be fun
Tommysmum - When I called the hospital yesterday, they said that I need to go in at 12 weeks and the midwife will go through all care options with me. She said that they would probably recommend that I use the Dcotors clinic or the Fetal Maternal clinic. I am leaning towards the Doctors clinic. I guess I will just go in to see them and see how they are and what they will offer and I guess if I am not happy then I will find an OB and just pay it. I might email the doctor that I had that went through Asha's results with me and see what she recomends I do. I don't know what to do. I thought I could so in there earlier than 12 weeks, but they said I couldn't. I just started bawling on the phone to the receptionist. Lol, she was nice and said 'Don't worry, you will be looked after' It just feels like a long time to wait to see if everything is OK. I am stressing so much, and it's only been a day. Gee, how fun are the next 7 months gonna be??:cryinglaugh:
I know it is a **** waiting - and unfortunately that is their policy which really sucks. But if you go via the Doctors i would think that Prof Bennett (and his team) is one of them....that way you can still seem him and not pay for it. Fun times ahead.
Yes, I think that is the way to go, I guess I will talk to them about it and then I will know how I feel. Then just take it from there. Aaaarrrrggghhhh, it is stressful. Don't get me wrong, I am soo happy, but I can't believe how quick the stress set in. How is this, I called the doc this morning to get the blood results, all good. Then I went out for a couple of hours and when I got back there was a message on the machine from the pathologist saying that they wanted me for another blood test. I immediately burst into tears and took off up there (it was just the medical center up the road) in a panic, calling DH on the way and putting him into a panic too. Then when I got there, the DR was about to go and she saw me, and she said "No, no come back next week for another BT just so we can check the levels" she must have been able to see I was upset cos she grabbed me and said it's all ok, I just want to monitor your levels for your piece of mind. Phew! So then when I got home, I listened to the message again and it clearly says come in for another BT next tuesday! Lol, I was in such a panic that I didn't listen properly and caused myself and DH lots of stress. :doh: I wish I could go back to the days when I just didn't worry about pregnancy. Where you get pregnant and then you have a baby and then you bring your baby home. I miss those days. I guess it is a luxury none of us here have huh?
oh you silly pregnant sausage ! see it is setting in now (silly pregnancy mind) - doesn't matter now all is ok..just relax ! I know it is hard to but all will be fine. IS DH very excited too or is he trying not to just yet ?
Tommysmum - He is excited too but so scared. I made pizza's tonight with bacon on it that was fried and then baked on a pizza, I ate it hot right away and he was there stressing saying can you eat bacon?? Yes honey. When I called him today he was freaking out. He's ok now, but he is really scared
Spring - Half time at the footy!! Hmmm, looks like those canetoads are finally endangered.....Woo Hoooo:clap:
yeh well i hmm had hmm pizza with hmm cabanossi hmm on it...naughty me ! Usually i would pick it off but tonight i didn't. I am soooo tired so i am going to call it a night -i don't think i will make the rest of the footy but i think i will know the outcome (fingers crossed)....Nighty night honey and little squirt
Goodnight, I hope the rest of the week with MIL goes fast and stress-free for you :)
Hi Girls
Bailey Yes look at half time....go the blues sorry Deb! Would it be wonderful to Oh Im pregnant look at me grow oh heres the baby but you are right that is longer an option for any of us here. Did you ring Jan Dudley at all I know she also dose the clinic at the womens and she is wonderful, I know tommysmum talk about Prof Bennett but I had a not very good time with him (don't like at all) If you rang Nancy (Jans recpt) she might be able to tell you how you can see her through the clinic? just a thought. Nice ticker!
Lynn Hope your feeling better, I mean after the calls from DH while talking to you...come on you have to feel normal and laugh at me! sorry for pulling you away from that game. what room was it for tomorrow?
Heybacko Thanks for the support on the "big boy stuff" you and Deb gave me some confidence Im doing the right thing, Oh he did catch the bus with a friends to older children almost to her front door where I was waiting! (not looking out the windows or anything) He made it safe and sound!
Spring I did give him a big kiss and I got "Oh MUM" but tonight when laying in bed he still gave me a big kiss and cuddle and wanted me to lay with him for awhile so you are very right they are still our babies, a bit like that nutra grain add!!!:rolleyes: thats me.
And when that little girl of yours is bringing home boyfriends you can call on me oh thats right or little boy!!!!!
Klee If no Af get the test! fingers crossed for you, lots of babydust and prays xxxx
Tess Goodluck with those results you know that saying good things come to those who wait so maybe this is a good sign? Im thinking of you and will check back.
Mel Glad to hear you had such a good time away, you know I did the same thing with DS not thinking I was PG and turned out bingo and he's my only earth baby....just maybe a good thing? dont be to down just yet.
Deb thanks again so much for that info, you put a smile back on the old dial!
I just need you girls to promise one thing, you will all hang around in here, because Im going to need you all more then ever, yes I can hear you all now thats it Im outer here, but the way you are all going BFP will be all I see and big fat bellies! you go girls. well tham\nk you all once again for the chin up im off to bed I have to go to the PT in the morning and need to be asleep before DH gets home I dont need added exercise! beside were not TTC at the moment:lol:
Good night, sleep tight and let the BFP keep a rollin in.
luv Nat xxx
PS Tommysmum good luck with MIL hope all is well.
Hey gals,
I just HAD to tell you about what DS said when I was at the (very packed) medical center yesterday. Background first, DS is at the age where he is a bit of a stuntman and is always trying to climb up and then jump off things. Last week while he was getting out of the bath he wanted to stand on the edge and jump off. I told him that it was too dangerous as he might slip over and boomp his arm. He then said "I might break my head" and I said yes, maybe. Then he went through all of his body parts "I break my arms, toes, leg" etc etc.Then he said "I will break my bum bum" I said that you can't break your bum, it's already got a crack in it" He was abit puzzled so I showed him his bum-crack in the mirror. He thought this was great fun and how every time he has a bath he says 'Look, my bums got a crack in it" and he just cracks up - typical male, loves a good bum joke. So yesterday while waiting for my BT he said "Are you sick mum?" I said "No I just want to talk to the doctor. Then, very loudly he says "Has your bum bum got a crack in it?" And he cracks up. Lol, I know people must have heard it, I just hope they didn't understand it. I just laughed and put my head down. I guess that's what I get for teaching him my stupid sense of humour.
Oops Spring - I take that blues stuff back....we blew it :(
LMAO Bailey!!!! That is too funny!! I read it out to DH - he is laughing too. Thanks for making my night :hug:
BTW - love the ticker....................I WANT A TICKER!!!!! (she says having a tantrum!!!)