Liviam - sure, ask away.

Lollybaby - thanks. Yeah, they do sleep in the same cot. I find they pretty much don't react to the other one in either a positive or a negative way. They don't wake each other up, but neither do they settle each other. In fact, sometimes I think they don't really conceive of the other one as being a different entity to themselves at all.

Traveller - I'd love to hear more re the defined routine when they are older. Did yours start to settle themselves for naps as they got older? When did this happen and what sort of a routine did they get into? Did you have to help them into it, and if so how did you approach it? Any help is much appreciated!