dd had no feeds all day 2 days in a row ,and has just had a few sucks now when she bumped her head to calm her down . but other than that doenst want boobie .

but she will have night time and a few time a night feeds .

can she just go cold turkey in the day time ? or do i have to do it slowly ?

she is super whingy in the day and wants cuddles but then i offer her boob and she doesnt want it .

im ready to wean but not fully .. or do i just go the whole hog . ?

we co sleep as she wakes 3-4 times a night and wont settle unless she gets boob. id love to cut that out , but most of her feeds are at this time , how many does a 1 yrold need ?


on to a differnet story , the day of her bday (wed just gone ) it was nap time and she was geeting whingy , but we were all geting ready to go out , i planned to get ready then feed her so she could sleep in the car,but my mum gave her a bottle and she fell asleep ,my mum was all proud as shes alwyas pushing to bottle feed , but she had no idea how her 1st morning feed was going to be special for as it would mark the 1 yr BF for us , instead i had to wait alll day till bedtime for her to have a a fussy feed as she was soo tired ... co incidence or not , her bday was the day shestopped having day feeds .

im ready to give up the day feeds but not sure how weaning actually begins and which feed to actually offer , i dont mind a lunch time and bed time feed . i would also love to cut out the 3-4 night feeds as well .

i guess this post is muddled , im just thinking and typing .. and have a baby crawinlg all over me ..