we are both believers we just dont go to church every sunday.. thats what i meant by not really following it. I wouldnt have a problem teaching her what ever i need to when it comes to religion. It will be a special day for the whole family as i wish to hold it on the 5th Feb 2009 as this is my fathers (he passed away 12/12/07) birthday and its sort of her little connection to him through a holy place. Does that make sense. Its hard to explain..

DP was christened cathlic (sp) so i think i would have to stick with that. ?!?!?

i would LOVE for my mum to be the godmother but then we have the problem of matts parents and them being left out (oh they are sooks) and i really dont want them to be involved in something like this..