DSD only ever had family parties until school. And she doesn't have one every year either.

Personally I think all parties in those first few years are because parents want to have them rather than kids.... They don't really play 'together' much and sharing is still difficult.... So making it a special day for just you guys is great!

But think also... If you take her to the city, see Annie... And do a whole inch of things at this age..... What will you do at 10 or 15???? Be careful that you don't make it too hard for yourself and set up something you cannot maintain! Kids need tto understand that they can't always have it... Things come up,.. Lifeis difficult at times.... But mum and dad will make it special... even if it's just a dinner at home.

I do hope you feel better soon. But try not to feel guilty. You're teaching other life lessons by 'not' having a party. xx