Thanks everyone, these have given me some good ideas.

Will it be loud? One of the fun games I've done recently is where all the attendees write on a piece of paper the household chore they hate the most and why. Then the bride to be has to read them out but instead of the household chose she substitutes "The thing I hate most about sex is..."

So you end up with things like "The thing I hate most about sex is that you have to get down on your hands and knees and work really hard" which is what I wrote about cleaning the shower!!!!
I love this idea too. Hopefully it's not too loud so we can give this a go.

Also thinking the condoms on the carrots could be an easy one to organise - wonder if the hotel/restraurant would be ok with it??? Might get one of the girls who knows the venue to check...or just take the supplies and play it by ear.

With the pass the parcel, I had thought about this one - and could just put silly prizes in the layers, condom, penis straw, naughty looking lollie as well as the question to the bride, but the only problem is won't be able to control music to know who to stop it on...any ideas how we could get around that?

I wished we could've started from a house (but everyones coming from different directions so not possible) as we could do soooo much more at home first.

Is there any more ideas out there?

Thanks again