Did you have a court house wedding? tell me about it
costs involved, did you have ppl there, how did family feel about it etc

We have been engaged for a long time have a 6 month old , we cant not afford a wedding atm nor do we have the time ( plus having a lot of in law problems atm and the thought of them at our wedding atm makes me want to vomit lol)

So we want to be married asap, its important to us..we dont care how its done , all we want is for me DF DD to be there to get married and for next year this time to have a reception or even say our vows again with family there when we have more cash time and we like the inlaws

How do we go about it? Do we need a witness?

I really dont know how our family will react to this ,prob bad but in the end its about us we dont care we want to do this for us ..yes we will be doing something next year for everyone but atm we need to do this for us , we would have both parents there now but as we re not on terms with the in laws we feel having my side there would be a bit slack and if they found out they would crack it once again sigh

tell me your stories and thoughts