Hi Ladies,

My partner and I are due to get married in June of this year, and we have just bought a house and looking down the barrel of a few more IVF cycles.

My dilemma is that I don't think I can go ahead with the wedding we have wanted and feel like I am being financially responsible.

DP and I have discussed the option of a home wedding.

The house we have just bought is quite lovely and it has a big entertainment area and pool yard.

DP says he likes the sentimentality of raising our children in the house we celebrated our marriage at.

I do like it, and I know I can make it beautiful, I'm just really worried about what people will think!

It will still have all of the fanfare, food and drinks of a normal wedding, it's just the reception will be at our home.

What do you all think?