abs just a thought on the bath issue my DH didn't really like bath time either Declan does but thats besides the point I felt it was important for DH to do it though to give them some bonding time I guess as I can feed and he can't anyway we put Declan in the shower with DH and they both loved it and enjoy the whole process alot more might be worth a shot my DH says it is sooo much easier as he isn't worried about slipping and drowning him just the slipping part but they are going really well with it now!