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Susan- Huge :hug: for you hun.... I am so hoping everything is ok. PM if you want someone to talk to.. sending all my love to you, let us know how it goes.
Lauren- Ooooh that would be just killing me hun... I like your plan- wait till Jan end then email. And i understand about you feel going back to work. That would be such a huge shock to the system after being at home for so long. You will do great- give ti three days and you'll wonder how you lasted so long at home!
Nic- How are you? Glad you've got a mate across the road. I've got one that lives four houses down with bubs the same age and it is so awesome having her there. A friend's place to go to without all the stuff around of getting in the car, woot!!
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Susan - I am praying that you are ok hon. You'll be in my thoughts.
Buzzie - HUGs!!!!
Lori - I like you blurb in your signature!!
I tried to attach a ticker to my signature but I am not sure which option to cut and paste into my signature. Anyone know?
Bloody hot here today
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Bekz - the BBCode - which ticker site are u using?
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MoM - I hope it is nothing too serious. Thinking of you.
Buzzie - I know what you mean about going back to work. I'm even dreaming about it now :rolleyes: Monique's childcare is finally going to open on 27 Jan which is my first day back at work so I have asked for 4 more days off to ease Monique into childcare. So good that Ash has settled in well. I think we are hanging out as much as you are for Rob's parents to be back hehehe.
Kitten - bummer about your job but you have skills to pick up work anywhere.
Bek - I don't think I will be able to help myself finding out the gender of bubs so we most likely will. How excellent that your scan is only 2 days after mine. This pg has gone so fast already it's crazy. I can see your conundrum about childcare for Loren. I'm putting Monique in so I can go back to work for 4 months and then take maternity leave again which will be good for our bank balance but I also think it will be good for her too because she loves playing with other kids and she will do things that we don't really do here like painting (I can't get my head around all the mess just yet). I'm deciding whether to leave Monique in part time when bub#2 arrives just so I have some time with bubs in the first few weeks, maybe even for 6 weeks while we are in the newborn fog. Don't know. Will have to see how she goes in the next 4 months.
OMG we had our first poo in the bath the other night and it was soooo gross! I heard Monique grunting but didn't think anything of it until I saw a million floaties in the bath - yuck! Evacuated quick smart and then lovely DH sorted the bath out.
We had the best night in a long time last night. Monique finally went to sleep at 10pm (was sooo hot) and then woke up just after 8am. So happy she is finally sleeping but I'm not having very good sleep grrrrr.
Better get miss some lunch.
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Tinsel- Eeeeewwwww!!!!!
Bekz- I usually find it's the second code- the shorter one- like Lauren said, the BB one :)
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Susan huge hugs hun i hope everything turns out ok. One of my close friends has a lump in her breast at the moment that is very painful. She has been to the dr's and he said it was "unlikely" cancerous and generally ppl dont feel pain they just find the lump. Her US found it was a cyst that she needs removing. For her it was good news. I hope something similar is the case with you iykwim.
A stinking hot day here so i am hibernating in the house in the comfort of AC. Molly is just waking up so g2g but will come back later
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Hi everyone!
Susan – OMG you poor thing! I hope you are ok, please let us know how you get on at the docs and I am praying that everything will be ok.
Lauren – this waiting game must be driving you insane! I agree, wait til the end of Jan and then take further action, whether it be emailing the sis or would you ever consider doing it face to face?
Tinsel – I couldn’t help myself finding out the sex with Jake, so much so that I booked a 4d scan myself at 16 weeks cause I couldn’t wait another 4 weeks lol. Woohoo on that big sleep, Jake hasn’t done it since the other night, oh well maybe one day…
Nic – that’s great having a friend over the road, we met our new neighbours at our block of land the other day, they’re our age and have an 18 month old and a 3 yr old and seem lovely so it’ll be great when the house is built.
Jake had his 1 yr vacs this morning, he did so well, only cried for a couple of seconds and is happy as normal now. He’s just over 9kg which was a surprise to me as I only thought he was 8.5 so he’s back on the 10th percentile which I’m stoked about. Oh and he’s 76cm tall so happy with that too! It’s a lovely day here 28 deg so we’re making the most of being outside, gonna heat back up in a couple of days though.
Take care everyone
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Hello everyone, Thanks everyone for caring abou my Lumpy Breast,so to speak.I told my Mother today,& she said to me "Well if you stopped having bloody kids,you might not suffer so much",this really hurt me,today,but what can i exspect, I`ve always felt un- loved & un wanted by my parents,I don`t know why i wasn`t suprised, & my DH is so angry with my Mother,she is a real B--ch to me.
We are having a much nicer day here in Sydney today,& a cool change has come through.thank god,now maybe some of us can get some sleep,lol.
Sorry ladies don`t feel up to doing Personels tonight,I can honestly feel the "Zoloft" starting up again,I?m sitting here crying tonight,but this seems to be happening regularly to me,not sure if it could even be PMS! Talk soon,everyone.
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:hug: Susan I am sorry your mother was like that :(
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:grouphug: have a hug Susan
Janine - I am sure Jake will sleep through again for you hon.
Tinsel - Sara has never pooed in the bath but Loren sure made up for it, I think she's done it 3 times now. Sara refuses to have a bath with her just in case. Re childcare if you get Monique settled into daycare well then I would actually keep her there part-time once you have bub. That way you don't have to get her used to it all over again iykwim. Additionally if bub number 2 gets used to you dropping off Monique than starting bub might not be as difficult. I hope you get some more sleep hon.
Dh says he won't come to the 20wk scan because he doesn't want to ruin my experience if bub turns out to be a girl. He tends to go quiet and won't talk because he is disappointed, in turn that upsets me because I don't care what sex baby we have. So if I go by myself and bub is a boy, I am thinking of telling him it is a girl anyway. I figure he'd get a huge surprise at the birth! What do you think?
Sara spent the nigth at my Dad's place last night and Loren went to bed no worries. DH and I actually got to sit down by 8.30pm, and feel asleep on the lounge at 9.30pm:rolleyes:
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susan - :hug: how terrible your mum saying that! If i was as lucky as you i would be having LOTS of babies too. Its a blessing your able to have them, dont think otherwise!!
Bekz - i can understand hubby wanting a boy but its a bit sad he will be upset and wont come to the ultrasound. Maybe just dont tell him the sex at all and say if he wont come then dont find out at all till its born.....?? is he forgetting it is the mans fault what sex they are!! LOL Hope he doesnt make it a harder time for you if its a pink bundle.
Adkins - yes ive condsidered the face to face thing, but as Rob still lives at home with them, it would be hard to rock up at there door and garentee if he was at work or not. Plus with a letter i got more juicy detail in and had the time to think about what i really wanted to say.
Maybe they did get the letter and have egnored it, so if i rocked up there i would look like an idiot... so i really dont know.
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It must be so frustrating Lauren
I had the worst night with Olivia.. I was so tired I went to bed at 10.. I couldn't sleep though was really nervy last nigght (simon on nights) Olivia woke at 12 I think it was and was still awake at 1. Poor thing was so hot (it was super muggy here last night) I should have just turned the Ac on but I just didn't feel like it lol.. We slept on the couch with the fan blowing right on us..
feeling pretty darn tired right now I can tell you
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Yep VERY frustrating....
Nic - wat does simon do again?? I hate muggy nights... I had the fan on a couple nights ago and ash woke at 2am completely FULL of energry and just kept wanting to crawl out of bed and play with the fan GGRRHH he sits by it and says round and round and round and waves his arm - took me 1 hour to get him back into bed and asleep.! i dont mind if he gets up to play - i still stay in bed - but when theres a fan on....!! So now i just put up with the heat, well as much as i can anyways...
Bekz - love the ticker! lol
Today is a very borring day here.. im going a little nutty. mums dog had surgery yesterday, his eye lashes were growing on the inside of his eye lids and scratching his eye balls which were making him go blind... - weird huh - lol so he had to have them all cut out and his face is full of stiches and has a bucket on his head so as mum is working ive got baby sitting duties... you can imagin Ash - its like putting a christmas tree on the dogs head!!! So im looking after the dog whilst fighting ash off him. There both finally asleep, thankgod!
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He works at the smelter here making aluminium.. Drives cranes and works in a hot place :lol:
LOL at the image of the dog.. hehe.. and Ash tying to play with him...
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Susan i wish i could say something to help lift your spirits but TBH i dont know what would help iykwim. Just remember you ARE loved by "your" family (and us BB girls) so stuff your mum- easier said than done i know. I really hope today is a better day for you. Tell dadofmany i said he has to be extra specially nice this weekend.
Bek- Maybe get DH to go to the ultra sound but ask the sex to be written on a piece of paper an put it in an envelope for later. That way you have his support whilst there but dont have to deal with his disappointment til a later date iykwim. I had a friend do this and then they got there 6yo to open and read the sex out at a family get together which i thought was a lovely idea as the 6yo felt so involved.
Nic- I hear you on the nerves when DH is away i hate going out in the evening and coming home to an empty house whilst DH is away. Mind you i am sleeping ok as i am that knackered by bed time lol.
Well went to breaky this mo and then MIL took dd1 to the beach so just molly and i for a few hrs and she's in bed. I am off to play on my wii fit for an hr :dance: i think i'm a bit obsessive. Lost nearly 5kg now and only 4 to go to get to my goal. I cant see it and i dont feel any smaller but the skirt i put on this mo was tight a few wks ago and fits lovely now so that was a great feeling and has made me even more motivated
Have a good weekend ladies
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oh I was tired.. I was so darn tired but just couldn't fall asleep.. Every sound woke me last night..
I am so paying for a bad night right now.. I keep dropping off to sleep and when I get up to do something it just makes me tireder, Boys are driving me nuts, Olivia was but she is napping now thank goodness..
Enjoy your quiet time Hoody. I am on a mission to lose weight this year. I haven't lost anything yet but its a bonus I haven't gained anything either :lol: Once school starts I will be walking or riding most days.. so fingers crossed it falls off
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nic- hope you get a rest soon or even better a super early night with lots of sleep.
