Babies Born December 2007 #24

*smacks you*

I swear to god if Olivia doesn't stop screaming at me I am going to do my head in.. FARK.. I am so close to just puttingher to bed.. scream whine cry hit me scream scream.. AAGHGGHH

Lori - I hope all is ok with your DH and his job!!

Nic - Sorry to hear Olivia has been screaming. I had this last week with Loren, she cut 4 teeth.

Buzzie - Crossing my fingers that you hear some thing soon.
Nikki - Yey on Summer walking

Hi to everyone else, I won't be around much for the next week or 2. I have heaps of office work to do:(

Only 2 wks till my scan.

Yay Bekz - wow its flying.. youll have to come on straight away when you had your scan!!

;)Hi everyone, Thankyou all for those lovely Birthday wishes.

I got home today,we had a lovely time away,I got spoilt,lol.:p
DH suprised me by putting in a new Airconditioner today,i couldn`t manage another day in Sydney without one,my cow of a mothher chipped in for half & i didn`t know.

Anyaway will pop back in later tonight,kids are being ferral this afternoon,Kieren is screaming the house down,( Feel for you Nic~!!) it`s peeing me right off.

ok bbl,got new pics to put on face book later on.Susan.;)

Was just um.... passing by.... errr hope everyone is having a good day.... I'll um.... be back later... just to make sure everyone is behaving of course....

:hiding:

ummm yes...behaving.....yessss... we do that very well........:p

Susan - That was nice of hubby to put ur aircon in.. im sure it was muchly needed there as is here.. :(

I took Ash to the beach this arvo omg the water was just beautiful!! Ash finally got to play in it for the first time.. usually we just sit on the sand!!

Kelly- you crack me up.

MoM- I think your Dh deserves big cuddles now you are cool enough to do so ;)

Bek- Gl for the upcomming scan.

nic- i hope the tantrumming stops soon.

Well things are ok here. DH was pretty wrapped up in his own stuff over the weekend and wont be home til about 7pm tonight so i dont really know myself how things are going there. I spoke to him breifly on the phone today and it was the "normalist" phone call we have had in a good couple of weeks so i am hoping its a sign things will be ok.

Molly is been grumpy again but i found another tooth today and the one on the other side should be through any day. Thats 3 teeth in less than a week no wonder she is been painful. It has been really warm today so spent lost of time in the paddling pool which she loved.

Buzzie- the suspense is horrendous so i can only imagine how hard it must be for you right now

Kelly you crack me up. I am dying to hear what the reaction is too! I would love to be a fly on the wall when they read the letter and then talk to Rob. It will be good though when it is all out in the open.

Buzzie - how lovely to spend time at the beach. Hopefully we can go down for the weekend again soon.

MoM - fantastic on getting a new AC and that is nice that your mum chipped in even if she isn't very nice to you most of the time. Will have to check out your pics when FB is back up.

Bek - office work! Definitely pop in to our threads to let us know how your scan goes. Mine is in less that 2 weeks and am soooooo looking forward to it.

Nic - the endless screaming used to do my head in too. I hope Olivia settles soon.

Nikki - how gorgeous with the handbag. Monique loves my purse so I gave her an old one but has a little tanty if we are at the shops and I pull mine out and don't give it to her. We were at the shop one time and I gave it to her to play and the lovely man behind me said that my daughter was throwing my money on the ground :doh:

Lori - I really hope it is good news for DH. I hope you are ok. I saw some of your status updates on FB and was worried.

Hoody - how are you doing?

I started work today :( It was really bad because as soon as I started talking to my Manager and catching up on the last year, it felt like I haven't been away. It is a new team and new system so I am busy being the new kid on the block learning everything again.

Monique is walking around everywhere now which is so cute. She still cries and howls when we drop her off to childcare but she settles down apparently. When we picked her up this afternoon she was playing with the carer and there were no tears when she saw us but was clingy so maybe getting better. I still feel sad dropping her off though.

Hoody - YEP!! i think the worst part is my heads going in circles wondering if they even recieved it or not or if his parents asked him to open there mail for them whilst they were away.... i mean if you were gone for a month you would prob wonder whats in your mail and if u had someone at home.. i know i would ask them to open it....
I will just get on with life now and wait and see, im still sticking by if i dont hear anything in a week or 2 ill talk to his SIL...

Glad you and hubby are alright. :) ouchies on the teeth... still only 6 here.. lol

Hoody - we posted at the same time. Sounds like things are on the up. I really hope so. Wow, 3 teeth in less than a week! I saw another top tooth about to come through for Monique but that only makes 5.

susan: how sweet of our DH.. Glad you had a great weekend away

Bek: 4 teeth yuko.. I think we just have 2 cutting here at the moment.. 2 weeks till the big scan eek.. your pregnancy is flying by

Lauren: The beach is so much fun once they can get in and really enjoy it.. just wait till he has a boogie board and takes off.. scary!!

Hoody: :hug: I hope you guys can work it out.. hopefully no more teeth for a little bit.. Poor buggers

Tinsel: Glad your first day back went well...

Well the princess is asleep finally.. She had a late afternoon sleep and was a llittle horrendous this evening. apparently I have a new job description.. I am not a climbing frame hehe

have a good night all

Lauren - after seeing your FB status I thought there was news so rushed in here....It's getting exciting now.

Hi girls ,totally lost track of time tonight,will come back in the morning after all the kids go to school,lol.DH is waiting for me to get off the PC,LOL ;) Night all.

Aren't you in touch with his sister or something, who did you ask last week if they were home?

ooh Lauren I thought there might be news

the suspence is killing me!!!

Mirani atm has 2 top molars coming through. And her backside is very red. Her screaming too is doing my head in. Especially since we have all been sick since xmas with flus and virus'.
My girls had their first day of school today. I cant beleive that Tia is in year 3 and Alisha started year 1! Soon our babies will be off to kindy!

I WILL be checking for updates Lauren!

ugh just had Livi up screaming.. *sigh* eye teeth are a pain!

Im dying here Lauren.. I so need to know and its getting to us how must ou feel

Hi all,
Just a quick one, my computer is asking me to debug every time I click on something anywhere. Stoopid IE. Might be time to download Firefox me thinks.

Lauren- Ahhhh! The supsense is killing me!!

Nic- I hear ya on the screaming tanties too. For no good reason :rolleyes:

Hi everybody else... sorry I feel rude but I am about to throw lappy across room :computer: so I am outta here.
Ooh almost forgot- dh didn't lose his job so we are all good. And Ty is officially walking, toddling off evrywhere :dance:

Sorry guys no news here... :(
I think ill wait till the weeks out then speak to the SIL (we only msg on FB)
I wish i had done what u said Bekz about registering the letter so they had to sign for it!!
I could always send it again and add on the letter if you havent already recieved it, here it is again but please let me know you have it so i dont keep waiting in suspence!!!

Tinsel - the wanting to hide in a cardboard box was cos im having a crappy time at home atm... Things are stressful and hiding in a box seems most appropriate..... *sigh* Mums hit a crunch point with her seperation and shes sooo upset which is making it hard to know what to say and not... i either make it worse by talking and saying something dumb or being quiet and she thinks i have some issues with her.... i just dont know.... i told her give everything 6 months and see where everythings at and i am hoping to be able to move out by then... but i dont know if leaving will be better or worse.. she might just be sad by herself and Ash always puts a smile on her face.. blllllaaahhhhh.... i so need a therapist!!!

Hey girls,
one more sleep until wednesday and so cannot wait. Seems to be forever at the moment. Jack is having trouble settling in at school and finds it hard not to cry at drop off and pick up times. Alex is loving being back at school however and loves to show off to his brother. Charlie is into everything at the moment cause he is bored and ethan can only do so much. Ethan is however walking more now and can manage 12 steps in a row at times.
Will try to stop in later to do personals as boys are peskering their grandma and she is getting annoyed.

Hi ladies,
I?m having a rough day here,Kieren is cutting tooth number 6 as well,isn`t feeling too good today & I?m trying to get my house into some order.I still have three baskets of washing to fold & floors to mop,but kids are so grumpy today...sigh....and I think i have an ear infection from swimming. Any way will try to catch up with you all later tonight if i have better behaved kids!! Off to make lunch,then back to cleaning,YUCKY.......:rolleyes:

Jas: Poor Jack I hope he settles down soon.. Its just as hard on us mummies.. Thankfully Isaac is really good now..

Susan: Hi Teeth just suck.. Olivia seems to have cut hers so we have had a good day here today

Lauren: Im pulling my hair out with you.. aaggh..

Grumpy teething baby here with the 4th molar coming through now so i hear all of you in similar boats. Lots of kisses and cuddles are in need in this house today (i need a few too).

Took DD1 swimming then made the mistake of taking both girls straight food shopping so by the time i got home Molly was over tired :doh: Oh well we are staying in for the rest of the day i just home she sleeps for a while now.

Off to make some rocky road with DD1 thanks to nanna its her favourite thing to do lol.

Jas - ohhhhh the poor little thing! hope he settles in soon... that would just break my heart, i would prob cry with him too lol

Susan - :hug: hope your ear is ok!! this teething must be tough along with a household of cheeky kiddies!

Hoody - yummm now i need something chocolate.... *Drooools*

Nic - i have been too....... I couldnt help myself.. i email the SIL - i have such patients.. tried to wait a week and lasted one day LOL
I thought i would be polite and say would you like to read the letter, or if you dont want to be invovled thats fine... but made the email SO tempting she will want to read it.. i said theres abit about her in it and it will effect her hubby (robs bro) so im sure shell say yes.. but i said you have to promise it goes to his parents before Rob so they get the WHOLE story..... so if she replies ill send it to her.. and GARENTEE itll get to them all!

ooo so you have emailed her??

Not with the letter yet..... i was trying to be suttle.... LoL

OOOOh forgot to mention... Shane warne was a paitent at our practise today!!!!!
Hes ot the awards on tv tonight and the guys were giving him crap he had just come from the dentist... that was us!!!! LOL - But i just missed him cos i started late today Im SOOOO bumbed! :( but hes coming back so ill have to pretend im working that day and go in a see him pml

Hi everyone,

I have read through all the posts but now my brain has given in :rolleyes: I know lots of people have mentioned grizzly teething bubs and I can join that club. Olivia actually opened her mouth and asked for Bonjela last night, which is a new thing.

We officially have a toddler now! Olivia is so unbelievably happy with herself and is loving being able to carry things around the house, especially my phone which I had to go hunting for twice today :doh: At Gymbaroo this afternoon she was showing off a lot and doing her little waddle walk (so cute) all over the place.

Lauren, come on we are all on edge! :p

Alicia - thats so cute! she must look adorable with a handbag LOL

Ash has started counting to 3 tonight!! its so cute.. i cant believe the amount of words he picks up and copys so quick!

WTG on Ash counting :)

Had a good night here YAY. Molly seems a bit happier today thank goodness. We have playgroup and havent been for about 5 wks so looking forward to seeing all the kids and cant wait to see if any of the girls notice my weight loss :redface: Today was weigh in day and i have lot 5.3kg and am over half way there. Considering its only been 5 weeks i am really happy. I have put some new pics on FB. You can really see the diff in my face esp since Molly's birthday party. I didnt realise how much i put on til i saw those photos compared to my new ones.

Hope you all have a good day. A bit cooler here today which is nice

Hi girls.. Im not well today so just a quick Hi..

Waiting on Simon to come home so we can go to the school. He took Olivia and Jacob shopping os I am enjoying (well not really its to quiet) a break..

Will catch up tomorrow.. achoo

Hi everyone,

Hey Lauren- You could ask "Warney,"for his mobile number,he`s available and single again,we saw him on the awards last night,the commentators really gave it to him,it was so funny. Ask him to text you hun!!!!!:ROFL: :loveshower: you can become a celebrity wife,lol. :redface:

Hi, Nic & Alicia-hows things going,god i hate teething it`s the pits.

Natalie- Hey your friend Carly is in this weeks "That`s Life Mag " with her story of Christian & her family,it was lovely,about "The Writtings In The Sands" hope your well hun.

Hi to everyone else will try to come back later after dinner,lol.

OK GIRLS ....... ARE YOU READY FOR IT......

IM CRAPPING MySELF.... Last night i sent the msg to robs SIL.. ok all good i thought...
just got home from work and had this HUGE email from her saying - youve put me in a hard place, i love my family and protect them.. blahblahblah.. you have left me with no choice but Robs brother - who also saw the email - said hes going to talk to rob - I HADNT EVEN SENT THE LETTER YET!!! she emailed me at 11 this morning, its 830pm now and i havent heard.... i dont know what his brother would say besides who this freak saying she has a secret about you..SOO i had no choice.. i said i so hope you havent spoken to rob yet and i understand where you are at, i also love my family and protect them but rob is also my family... hes my sons Father!!!
and left it at that...
Her email was pretty fair enough tho.. she said she would offer rob support if he needed it with something and if there was something i needed to share with his family i should just say it..
i also emailed her the letter and said i know ive done the right thing, rob should have done it 2 years ago!!! SO IM CRAPPING MYSELF SOOOO MUCH.. and the first thing there going to do it besides FREAK will go to Rob and/or his parents.. so if shes going to check her email tonight , it will all be out the bag tonight.... otherwise im sure Robs brother had already got to him and Robs HOPEFULLY crapping himself even worse thinking im going to tell them.. OR hes already telling them now what has happened to save me getting to them.... OR Robs brother hasnt said anything yet because i havent recieved any abusive sms's!!
oMG OMG OMG my hearts racing i had no idea i would be this upset by it.. its NOT how i wanted them to know... now ive got guilt trips there gonna find out on a negative note !!!!!!!!!!! BLAHHHHHHH - Ill keep you all posted if i hear back!!! Christ can you imagine what there thinking right now!!!!

Hi Lauren,gee hun i feel for you :hug: . I think you have done the right thing though,Robs parents should know they have a beautiful grandson,Go & make yourself a nice cuppa and try to relax,hey it takes 2 to make a bub,why would Robs brother send you nasty sms`s or e-mails,if he does keep a copy of them ok. Hope you will be ok,hun.

Gee it`s very quiet tonight.

Nic- hope your feeling better soon,too. :hug:

Well, I have my Mammagram & Ultra sound tomorrow,I?m sh-tting myself actually,not in a good mood really.

Buzzie - ARRRRRRGGGGHHH it's out there! You should feel relieved and they should calm down a bit but I understand that you might be crapping yourself. I would be too and I hope Rob is . I really hope he doesn't send you abusive messages because he is the one that has been keeping them in the dark for so long and has all the explaining to do. You have definitely done the right thing by Ashy as well. The SIL will definitely check her email. How could she not!

MoM - I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Let us know how you go. Sound like you could do with a lovely cuppa too.

Nic - hope you are feeling better soon.

Hoody - way to go on the weight loss. Saw your new pic and you look great. I'm so jealous of your motivation. Wish I had some.

Alicia - how cute are they walking around.

I think the 3rd top tooth is making Monique a bit cranky. She seems to be settling in at childcare a bit better but still makes me sad when we leave her crying. Meanwhile it is my third day back at work and I am soooooo tired. Don't know how I'm going to be come Friday!

Well, I'm off. Catch up with everyone later.

OMGoodness Lauren. :hug: YOU HAVE DONE RIGHT THING. At the end of the day the news will be hard for them to take and it may take them a little while to get in contact with you. I am sitting here feeling all anxious for you but as tinsel said the hard part is over you should feel relieved. Have that cuppa and relax. Things may not have gone to plan but the end result of them knowing will be the same. This is totally irrelevent but thought i'd share- one of my close friends got Pg to a guy she had been having a "casual" relationship with. He didnt want to know and told her to get an abortion. She booked it but couldnt go through with it so he basically disowned his unborn baby and said no one in his family would ever know etc etc. Well we looked up his parents No and she called. She was too upset so the phone got chucked at me and I had to tell his parents that their son was to be a father in X no. of wks. I told them straight what he'd told my friend about having nothing to do with it and said that was fine if it was what he wanted but we believed she had a right to know iykwim and if he wasnt going to do it then we were left no choice. Anyway long story short my friends baby's father has NO part in his DS's life (he has seen him twice in 19 months) but his mother does. Yes this poor lil boy is missing a father but he still has 2 nanna's now. It was the hardest phonecall of my life and i wasnt even the pg one.

I really hope you hear something soon and get some sleep tonight.

Tinsel- thanks for commenting on my pics :)

MOM- GL for tomo be sure to let us know how you go on. I will be thinking of you. :hug:

Nic- Get well soon.

Very cranky baby again this arvo and i really wanted her in bed early but then our puppy got stung by a bee so we had to go to the vets. Not a fun arvo. 2 tired Kidlets and a puffy swollen puppy. Oh well i can see the humour in it now. Rocking up to the vet with the kids ready for bed and cranky and a swollen Chihuahau.

I agree you've done the right thing Loz, you will just have to deal with the reactions, but they will get over it... remember all the times you would front up at home with a new tattoo and mum would freak and go nuts for a day or two?! LOL :p

Hang in there, it will pass and become old news once the initial shock is over...

hi everyone, thankyou so much for your comments, they helped SO much.
I just feel like crying and i couldnt stop watching ash last night feeling so scared im doing the right thing for him and how angry i am at rob for what we 'could' of been if he just stepped up and told them a LONG time ago, i would not be going through this.
I didnt get to sleep till after 12 klast night... mostly cos ash wanted to party but i have woken up this morning a little calmer and i have put my phone on silent. Im waiting for an email from the SIL but i know i dont have to answer my phone if i dont want!

susan - Good luck today with your mamagram, will be sending positive vibes your way.

hoody - off to check out ur pics now.

tinsel - Im so in your boat with work, except im not pg so it must be 10 times worse..
Hang in there with childcare.... Ash had his FIRST non crying day yesterday!! WOOT!

Kelly - lol your a crack up... :p i think the worst one was getting my tongue pierce.. wow that took months to get over PML

OMG!!!!!!!!!! Lauren!!!! You have DEFINATELY done the right thing hun. If Rob had been a man about it all in the first place, you wouldn't be in this situtaion. The fact that they will find out in a negative way is his fault, not yours. You are just doing the best for your little man and being the best mummy around :hug:

Ok, this isn't nearly as dramatic as Lauren's, but I have had a truly crap coupla days and need a whinge. I'll try and keep it simple.

Ty and I have both had a virus, we've been vomiting non stop. Tues arvo i got heart palpitations (I get tachycardia aometimes, especially if I'm sick or dehydrated) and got rushed to hospital with a heart rate of 200 bpm. They stuck me eight times to get a vein for a canula, and collapsed all the freakin' veins in both arms and both hands before getting one in my wrist (thank god, they were about to go for my neck). Lots of blood tests, a bag of saline and some anti neausea meds later, they come back and tell me I'm PREGNANT (holy crap!).

So i peak out. Ty has been just feral the last month or so, and dh and I had just decided to hold off on the TTC for a while. Then yesterday arvo I start bleeding.

*sigh* So now I don't know if this bubba will stick or not. And I feel so guilty for panicing instead of being grateful. I have an ultrasound tomorrow arvo, so we'll see what happens then.

Hi to everybody- sorry, I'm doing a selfish one today and no personals. They pumped another 7 vials of blood out me this morning and I'm exhausted...

BIG HUGS Lori - that doesnt even compare to me hun! thats big stuff when its your health. Take is slow today and rest up.. i hope its a sticky one and they stop poking you with needles! ouchies, let us know how u go tomorrow :hug: