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Celsie - Family politics are SO hard aren't they? I think if you've already told your Mum you are half way there and should stick with what you and DH are happy with. You can always say to your brother that they have so many kids between them you didn't think he would mind.
My sister would be Lewis's guardian, even though she lives in England. I disagree with DH family's cultural differences regarding parenting whereas my sister would be a great Mum to Lewis and only has one daughter so we think we are making the right decision. Tough one though.
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Miss you all :( :hug:
Re: Guardians - seeing as it is such a huge responsibility for those being assigned (even though we all hope that they never have to fulfil their roles! ;) ) I couldn't care less if someone is related or not!! It's the relationship they have with us, our children and also their parenting & life styles. It just so happens however that DH's sister and her husband are just the most precious couple and whilst they don't have kids, BIL has been an uncle for years and the way he is with our girls is just gorgeous!! (we're all fingers crossed for them that their bunnykins will be along soon!! :D ) I feel like you just know the right people for your kids kwim? as like MumofLewis said, it's a tough one but first and foremost for me, it's about the kids. I don't care if someone gets all sooky coz we didn't choose them.....like I said, i hope the girls never have to go elsewhere *charly shudders* so first they should be happy we're still here for goodness sakes! Lol!! Secondly, respect me as a parent and what I want for my kids! (and then maybe ask why I didn't choose you, *cheeky laugh*)
We are in a friend's will for the same reason......and they have siblings as well. So again, being blood related means squat imo when it comes to the well being of your kids. I'd rather offend and know I've done the right thing for my princesses than keep others happy but know that my princesses won't be parented how they need to be, kwim?
*charly gets off soap box*
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Anyways, like I said, miss you all!! :hug:
Hows the countdown going for Teepee2 & Celsie????????? *squeal* soooo exciting!!!
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since this thread is glitchy, here is a new one for you https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...2007-11-a.html
