Hi Phoenix,

I'm not sure about the first birthday. We don't have family around and not that many friends so I was thinking a BBQ lunch too, but then I really want to have a "we survived the first year" party with my mother's group. Maybe I can do both?

I'm loving that my daughter comes to me now. She can choose where she wants to go & its lovely when she crawls quickly to me for a cuddle! Awww. too cute! So that's one of the lovely things about loosing our babies & getting a toddler instead. (I loved the baby days!)