sheree - thankyou for the stern words, lets hope they are effective, he is quiet for now. I have been inforned VERY strongly that this will be our absolute last baby, actually i think i was quite releived when he told me that as im not particularly looking forward to m/s, labour, bf exhaustion, constant night waking again, so knowing its the last time i will be doing it makes it sound not too bad. a mild reflux baby i could handle quite well, ust please don't give me another servere refluxer!! I don't know if my poor old washing machine can handle another servere refluxer!!