thats a hard one leanne it sounds like he looking for an out of his situation by dragging you in i'd say distance your self and do it quick before it destroys your realationship with your DH i 'd say this situation is nothing but trouble what does your DH say about it all
he trusts me totally and utterly.
I don't trust myself.
But right now I have just drunk a whole bottle of red I don't know what I am thinking...... Tomorrow will be a headache I believe!
Elissa: Hows your throat hun? I had it a couple of weeks ago and ended in really bad sinus (which I never get!). I was sick for half my time in Melb...still had a great time though. It was SIL's idea to say it, I didn't know she was going to say it...but if I had of I would have taken a photo, it was priceless!
leanne - hope your headd isnt too bad this morning. I agree with the girls, distance yourself right now or you are all headed for trouble and heartache. He has put you in a really hard situation, but don't feel bad about distancing yourself, you have to put you and your family first, and that means getting rid of this 'friend' for a while at least.
tania - throat is pretty darn sore, bummer that you had it for your holiday, i reckon Arch has had this all week too.
Was supposed to be going to playgroup this morning but not sure if i should seeing as Archie and I seem to have some sort of virus, so looks like a boring day in store for us. Pay day tomorrow thank goodness!! There is only so far you can stretch 1 pay and it has been stretched to the max while we have been up here. We are going to stay at my mums place sat night, cant wait to see her and my sisters, apparently my sister has a decent sized bump now, last time i saw her i couldn't even tell she was pregnant. We are going to the xmas parade sat morning, Arch loves the pipe bands so it will be great.
LOL.... I have finally been able to clear my head.. for now.
On the advice of my mother I have just completed a letter to my DH. It's probably the first one I have written in about 5 years or so. I am explaining everything about my week (the ups and all of the downs - esp. with that boy), and hopefully he will understand why I have been out of it a bit this week. We have been lacking in the communication department lately, hopefully this will assist.
Well It;s Friday, we can celebrate that for a start!
Have a great weekend everyone
I feel crap today.
Have been crying off and on all day.
Don't know why? on CD 38 that might have something to do with it.
Gee I hope it's just PMS and my periods arrive tomorrow.
Also slipped over in the kitchen today and I think I have sprained my ankle. Nice huh?
I am over it.
shazz - Archie doesn't have swimming lessons, so your not the only slack one
leanne - hope you didn't sprain your ankle. How did the lettter to DH go? Did it help. Jay and I have just realised that we really need to work hard at communication too.
This is going to be somewhat of a me post, but I promise I will do personals tomorrow, when I have loooottttss of time.
Hope you girls will all be around to keep me amused this week. Just after I typed my last post I went and had a shower. While I was drying myself, I noticed blood on the towel. I thought Darcy had wiped her hands or something on my cream towel and went crook at her, but Cam said, are you sure it's not you? No of course not said I, can you see any bleeding bits? He said...nooo, are YOU bleeding. So I checked, and sure enough it just kept coming.
So off to the hossy I trundled, leavinga very stressed husband cranky at having to look after Darcy instead of coming to stress me out.
Turns out I have a small abruption on my placenta, ie it has started to come away. Not good. They can see it on ultrasound and it if keeps going I'll have to be flown out of here. SO here I am on strict bed rest and undie checking for the week . My little bubba is still kicking and carrying on, but my poor big bubba is feeling a bit left out. I have to have another scan on Wednesday and get rechecked on Friday.
The odd thing is, if I hadn't lost my baby in April, it would have been due today....
Oh Kim! Big for you hun! I hope everything turns out ok, make sure you do rest! Is anyone looking after Darcy for you or does Cam have the week off too to help out? I'll be in and out this week but I'll come in and check how your doing!
As luck would have it Darcy already goes to daycare 3 days (Mon-Wed) and Cam is on 9 weeks annual leave so we were quite 'lucky' I guess that it happened now I guess. I'm bored out of my skull already....small price to pay I guess for a full term baby.
kim - big hugs. How weird that you would have been due. Hope things settle back down for you. Thank goodness Cam is on leave! Gosh you'll be doing lots of crosswords. You need to take up knitting LOL
It is 8am and Archie is driving me mental already, hate when he is sick and we are stuck at home all week, BORING. I should think myself lucky om not on bed rest i guess
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it sounds like he looking for an out of his situation by dragging you in i'd say distance your self and do it quick before it destroys your realationship with your DH i 'd say this situation is nothing but trouble what does your DH say about it all
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