Babies born November 1st-15th 2010 #1

Woohoo for Dylan and Woohoo for a good looking Embryo. I have my fingers crossed for you too. Hope the wait is not to long although I am sure your little guy will keep you busy anyway.

Hopefully this is the one and you don't have to worry about a 6 month time frame.

Macey was really sick on Monday and Tuesday, she had a high temp and was just miserable. She would only let me put her down when she was asleep and she slept in bed with me. Now that she is better she still wants to sleep with me so will have to work at getting her sleeping by herself again. Untill then I do like having her sleeping right next to me so no rush I guess.

GOOD MORNING LADIES

Just a little note to say i must be the luckiest girl in the world, I have 2 faint lines!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! looks like im pregnant wooooooohooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooo just a little excited. Get the definate on Friday with blood test.

Please dont mention it on facebook, i just need to tell people hehehehehe

:happyforyou: Woohoo! I saw your status this morning and I had a feeling. How great is that, no waiting for you.:confetti:

So will this be a sometime around Valentines day baby?

they count 10 months so a march baby. which is a little scary because daryl said march 2012 and girl so will see lol

Well lets just hope this time if you get told a girl you actually are having a girl. Would not want a wrong prediction twice :)
March, wow I am so happy for you.

TAMMARA OMG CONGRATS!!!!!!!! :confetti:

I'm so happy for you, as this is what you want! You must be soooo excited!! :dance:

Look forward to hearing ALL about it as you progress.... WOW another little precious bundle on it's way. How beautiful!



So glad I randomly checked in today to see your news (my email notifications aren't working again grrr)

Been so busy ladies, have been keeping up with everyone but have got to find the time to give an update soon

xxxxxx

Its a definate blood test came back today and i am 4 weeks pregnant lol its strange the transfer was only 10 days ago. And you were right kazz my edd is feb 16

Congratulations again Tammara. What a lovely time for a baby to be due. Time for a new ticker for you.

yeah i know but i forgot how to do it again lol any idiot indtructions?

I will try and make them for someone suffering baby brain.

Make your ticker and click on PseudoHTML under Forum Ticker.
It will come up in a box underneath. copy it and paste it in your signature which you will find by going to settings and on the left of page .

Hope that helps.

Congratulations Tam!!

So happy for you and your little family. I wish you a h&h pregnancy.. and I hear that March 23rd is a fanstastic day to have a baby...

Wow... could that mean that you got pregnant naturally? Or is it just a normal thing to happen to be a few weeks out?

Awww... you know that's around the time when we all conceived our bubs :) Well I know it was for my Damian... what a special time of year!

I wish you all the very best for this pregnancy & congratz again!

Kazz - How's Macey going now? I see that she's been really sick on and off for a while now... hope the poor darling is better now! Still co-sleeping? I am most of the time - we love it, it's such a nice thing having your little bub snuggle up to you all night long and sooo much easier when breastfeeding, it hardly wakes me. Nothings beats body heat during those cold nights, and it's not like they're going to want to sleep with us forever lol. I do practice a lot of attachment parenting so it goes hand in hand with that I guess.

Eng - If you do post any of your bubs Christening photos or any photos of you guys in your BB album, let me know as I'd love to see them! Sounds amazing.

AFM..... Little Damian is going very well. Hasn't been sick at all yet *touch wood* He loves eating food we eat and doesn't fancy purees & some days he will hardly eat, so just trying to encourage eating more lol but I won't push him, after all bf is the most important 1st year anyway. My Birthdays on the 28th of this month, hubby's planned a surprise for me & all I know is that we'll be going away for a few days which I am sooo looking forward to as it's always good to get away from the house for a while every now & then (and of course bub will be coming too).

Damian much prefers it when we are out & about so we try and keep busy all weekend. The hardest is prob being home with him alone all day during the week - have to find lots to do to entertain him! Been much more fun & better since he's become so interactive. No crawling yet - but he's managed to roll back and forth and triple roll etc, so he's more mobile in that sense (doesn't just roll front to back and thats it). He much prefers sitting up or standing then lying down, so I'm not sure when his time will come to crawl. But hey, no rush from me lol!

Our house is going well with getting built, seeing it really process. We ended up building a single storey house as the builder let us choose one another home in a different section of the Estate that was going to be built earlier because of the massive delays with the other one thank goodness... so our house will be ready by end of August which is so exciting, will get to have Damian's 1st Birthday in there YAY. Much better than Feb next year. I just hope it stops constantly raining. Stressful though, gotta think about packing already, and not sure how bub will cope with the move.

Damian is having a phase where he HATES being put down to bed. No matter how exhausted and tired he is, he will literally cry & protest the second I go to the bedroom with him. Ohh it's so exhausting, makes me really get tense about putting him to bed as he is really hard to settle. Oh well, I'm hoping it's just a phase. At night he's good still, it's just during the day.


Hope all you Mummies & bubbies are keeping warm & staying well during all this cold weather! I'm really looking forward to i warming up again already!

Thanks for your well wishes, it still hasnt really sunk in for me and hubby (he is working away)

You are right Danni, my embryo transfer with Dylan was feb 15 (mum and dads wedding anniversary) the edd is 16th but i was told last time to just go for c section so im not sure how early they will do it????

Danni - Dylan is the same at the moment, he can be sooooooo clingy, i walk out of sight and he screams. And at night if i put him down he gets so upset, i have found it i lay him in his cot and lean over and hug him to calm him it works cos he usually gets to sleep and when i go im not disturbing him much.

Kazz - how is Macey doing now/ hopefully getting better

Danni. I am happy to hear that going out is so much better for you now, you sure had a hard start to it but sounds all good now. Macey is all better now. She is the same as Damien, not that keen on food, I have started given her some coarse puree food as well as pieces of food, some things she wont touch in pieces put likes them pureed. I think she might be a bit fussy compared to her sister who eats anything and everything. She is back to sleeping in the cot but stil in my room. She does end up in bed with me though after her morning feed most mornings though :)

Tammara. I think they normally do schelduled CS one week before your EDD if everything is going well. How exciting. Your 2nd pregnancy will fly with another baby to keep you busy and Feb will be here before you know it. New ticker looks great.

Eng, hope your doing great.

My great little sleeper is not so great at sleeping through anymore. Since about 5and a half months old she started waking up once throughout the night. Now she wakes up 3-4 times. She goes to bed about 7am, wakes at 10:30pm has a quick feed, wakes at 2:30am another quick feed, wakes around 4:30am but not for a feed just a wriggle, then wakes at 6:30am for a big feed and then sleeps till about 7:30 - 8:00am. I have actually read that I should be eating at least 30mg of Protein per meal. That is really hard to do so I am going to try some protein powder and see if that helps my milk. Lucky Amelia is a great sleeper and I don't have to worry about her waking too.

It has been rainy here since Friday night and I have a line full of clothes :( and a few loads that need doing. It is meant to rain until Friday so I guess I will just have to wash what will be needed and try and dry it inside.

Hi Ladies,

Danni, I havent got any photos on bb only on fb. If you would like me to add you just pm me your full name I will add you. btw FF or BF is important however after 6 months a baby needs more nutrition than what FF or BF can give him or she.. Also you might want to try adding some EBM to some of your foods as maybe the flavour is too strong for bubs as he is only just starting out. I mix my vegies with FF when P started out. Now he is a porky and I cant sit at the table unless he has food too..

Kazz, hello over there.... Im doing ok thank you.. 5 weeks of sick kids and then I got it!! arghh its done my head in.. I demanded drugs for all of us!! lol I think we did well to do 5 weeks but it was just getting worse... Is Macey teething? I had the same problem with P, I tried different thing and in the end I did cc and he seems to be good now.

afm, alot has happen in the last few weeks with me. My kids have been really sick, I got it too and dh. I took the kids 6 times to the doctors!! I was told sinus infection, sinus infection, bronchitis, whooping cough, asmtha and bronchitis... So we have... BRONCHITIS!!! Yay!! now we are on the mend!!

I know I have said a few things about dh on here but things have become extremely worse. I have spent many many nights crying and woried sick about my kids. I do everything, I mean everything! I do the finances, the house work, the kids, the cooking and cleaning.. I mean everything. I might as well be a single mum. I ask/yell at him to help and it just falls on deaf ears.

He changed his medication 2 months ago and he said was feeling tired.. He was sleeping like 10+ hours.. When he would wake up he would fall asleep again! He has given me no support since before his mother got sick, over a year ago. TBH he only thinks of himself anyways..

Last Monday was DD birthday and again he was selfish and so enough was enough. I think it was more that he was being selfish on his daughters birthday, a day that is so exciting when your 4 years old.

well the day was exciting we packed up our things and moved out.. Yes I moved out.... Firstly I told him to get out and not to come back.. then I packed our things and moved into my parents house

I rang his dr and told him what had been happening, i knew he had an apointment coming up. So it works out he has Clinical Depression.

Im not sure how to feel or if I can excuse his behavour... I know most of it will be part of the CD but this has been going on for years. I'll never forget when I was pg with P he turned to me and said he didnt want the baby anymore.. Can you really forgive that? or the after effect of making me so sick I thought I was going to mc, I was so ill I broke all the blood vessels in my face..

My sil (dh's brother's wife..) has been really supportive and great.. Infact I have been getting calls from his cousins telling me they are 100% behind me! me! like hello your meant to stick with your family!! I never realised just how many people watched me do everything, it really makes me feel embarrassed. I know thats weirod to say but I do.

I havent cried since I left my home..

Our families have come together and dh acts like nothing has happened. His mother is on another plant, she is back to her selfish ways and really doesnt care what happens. His father wants us to work it out.

I dont know if there is anyway we can work this out but I guess we have to take it one day at a time.. who knows, maybe things with stay the same or things will improve.. One thing is for sure... I'm not going back to the way things were..

sorry for the vent.. but I needed to vent..

Oh Eng to be so sick and to go through all that.:hug:

You are an extremely strong women! So many women would just stay and bare it all. You have done what is best for you and your babies. If your Husband wont help himself and you have tried then what more can you do. After he says he does not want to have the baby anymore, that would have been shattering for you.

I hope that things start getting better for you now and that your health starts improving.

Okay, have to run but I could not read your post and not reply a little. Lots to do this morning but I will be back later.

Kazz - I feel you about the washing - it is just piling up and up!!! lmao. Will have to do some indoors too. We must live not far from each other as my weather forecast is just like yours. Miserable until the end of the week. Damn. Oh, and I know how you feel with the night wakings... Damian is the same, but he has his days - some are worse than others but it's always just for a quick feed in the night and he too starts off in his bed then ends up with us during the night thanks to the feedings ;) It can be so exhausting only sleeping a few hours at a time though. Has Macey gotten any teeth yet?

Eng - What I said was that bub has his days where he will & won't eat much, which is normal. Like the other day he ate massive amounts of food, and the last few days he's been constipated and chose not to eat much, and that must have helped him cos he's done a few good poops lol. i tried all what you suggested in the beginning but he wouldn't stand for anything without loads of flavour and prefers to dig in on family meals anyday over bland purees lol, thanks to the european in his genes I think haha. I just alter our family meals to suit bub these days

I am really sorry to hear what you have been going through. It sounds very hard & unfair on you & obviously you want to do what is best for you & your babies. I can't imagine how difficult it must be for you not to have your Husbands support. It's something I would struggle so much without. You shouldn't have to put up with that. I remember my parents always fighting when I was growing up and I used to wish that they would divorce so I guess in saying that what I am trying to say is it isn't always better for the children if you stay together when you're not happy. I hope you find peace & it really sounds like you have made the right decision, and I hope things get better for you

Eng i agree 100% with kazz, good on you for leaving. Dont ever thing your doing the wrong thing either. From things you have told us you put up with far more than anyone should. I hope everything goes well for you now - by the no crying sounds like it was definately the right decision for you and your girls. Its also great that his family are supporting you - another reason you know your right in leaving.

Anytime you need a vent definately do so here, chin up things will get better xxoo